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Ex-pat Mums in Oz??

261 replies

yummimummy · 13/03/2006 23:36

Is there anybody out there......?
(Apart from me)

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suzywong · 13/03/2006 23:37

yes and a very good morning to you from sunny Perth Smile

there are a good dozen at least of us in Australia, some more will be along soon no doubt.

AussieSim · 13/03/2006 23:42

I'm in Sydney, but I am an Aussie who found Mumsnet when I was living in Germany for a couple of years. I live on the Northern Beaches which is very popular with expats.

eidsvold · 14/03/2006 01:24

not an expat ( really) but in Aus. I spent four years living and working inthe Uk - as well as meeting, marrying dh and having dd1 and conceiving dd2... Wow - when put like that - when did I find time to work Grin

welcome from sunny mild Brisbane - only 30ish today.

arfissimo · 14/03/2006 01:38

Hello! I'm in Sydney, been here since last July.

Hi Eids & SW!

AussiSim. Where have you been? I thought I was the only Sydneysider!.

Welcome Yummimummy. We are a select few keeping mumsnet going overnight (and watching the UK lot get bladdered at around 9am Oz time, always funny).

tilbatilba · 14/03/2006 01:46

Hi there, i am in Victoria.......

GandT · 14/03/2006 02:08

Hiya, I'm in Sydney too, on the North Shore. We moved over here a couple of years ago and never looked back!

hannahsaunt · 14/03/2006 03:02

Hi, we're in sunny Townsville (TNQ). Nice breeze today. Do enjoy sitting with my laptop in the garden. Arrived last July. Leave this July. Only looking for messages after midnight GMT makes managing MN much easier.

suzywong · 14/03/2006 03:13

it does but we miss all the best spats

maybe we should start one between us? What do you think would really get us going?

Actually we are all pretty laid back aren't we? Wonder why Wink

yummimummy · 14/03/2006 03:31

Oh great, a few of us.
I'm in Brissie too Eidsvold.
Great rain last week - never thought I'd say that when I was living in the UK!
I am new to MN and it is interesting to see the non-mainstream threads that go on in the early hours in the UK.
Hmmmm, a spat.....
There are a few Brits and a few Aussies here.
Here goes:
What sort of accent are you cultivating in your child(ren)?

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arfissimo · 14/03/2006 04:29

LOL. Inexplicably my DD is picking up a kiwi accent.

I'm British (Surrey), DP is Northern and all the carers in DD's pre-school are Irish.

Since moving to Oz I've started to say 'gosh' a lot and I must stop before DD morphs into a 50's boarding school heroine. I have no idea where it's coming from. Golly!

arfissimo · 14/03/2006 04:36

Hmm. Is there East/West/North/South coast rivalry in Oz? Perhaps we could have a UK North/South divide equivalent spat?

Who's got the deadliest spiders in their garden? The most cockroaches (me and that's after we bombed the buggers), most sunshine? Nicest view of the opera house from the end of their road (Grin).

Sigh. It's just so difficult to get het up.

hannahsaunt · 14/03/2006 05:15

Really hard to tell re boys accents (they are 5 and 3); I am Scottish, dh is from NI and ds2 has effectively learned to talk here rather than home (Aberdeen). Will be interested to hear what my mum thinks when she arrives next week (hoorah!). Have so far resisted the local expression of choice, "too easy"; never quite sure what it means.

We have our fair share of deadly wildlife and unpleasant beasties though no cockroaches as yet (and none to come, fingers crossed).

eidsvold · 14/03/2006 05:24

arf - was sitting at the pc the other night in the dark ( long story) and something brushed my foot - i looked down to see a huge cocky running away from my foot..... tried not to scream the house down as the babes and dh were in bed. I too had done th pest control - have had none since... this one must have been a stray.

Talking of accents - a number of people think I am the pom not dh ?!?!? Or those that knew me prior to going to live in the UK tell me I have an accent.... I prefer to think of it as posh ocker!! Dh has said though when my dander is up and the bloody comes out then I can sound real ocker!!

No doubt our two will have australian accents as that is where they learnt to talk and their teachers and friends are all aussie. I do however find myself pronouncing words the english way or using english terms - sweeties, buggy for stroller, charnce rather than chance, say yog hurt rather than yohghurt iykwim.

my fab mil sent a load of pressies to the dds this week - one is a talking dog from the ELC called learn with max - max says Hurrah when you get something right - and he speaks in a right posh pommy accent - cracked me up the first time i heard it.... better than the sicky american voices one has in their toys.

Main rivalry our way is north south - we really object to those southerners coming up here and taking over the place, stealing our water, jobs etc Grin Wait until State of Origin later in the year then it all comes out.

Yummi - I am on the northside - how about you?? There is one other mum I know of in Brisbane.

arfissimo · 14/03/2006 06:12

Ewwwwwwwwwwwwww Eids!. Huge cocky on foot. The first time I saw one in Australia I nearly had to have extra oxygen. I had to import a burly young man into the house to come and deal with it. . Am a bit more gung ho now

Despite sounding like Joyce Grenfell on acid I am managing to adopt a few Aussie-isms, like 'rapt', 'no worries' and DP is saying mate every other word. Our first ever Aussie barbeque arrived last night and he called it mate. Several hundred times.

Hurrah for Max the talking dog. Especially with the queen here. Seems most appropriate.

suzywong · 14/03/2006 06:28

I am Joanna Lumley normally but Kathy Burke when I get angry. Ds1 is lovely plummy North London still, can't tell about ds2. Dh although an AUssie, was in London for 13 years so is a bit pommy and he speaks Chinese to the kids so we dont' have much Strine going on at home.
I have caught myself saying "awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeahhhhhhhhhhhuuuuuuuhhh' a couple of times though Blush

SPRAY@Joyce G on acid

yummimummy · 14/03/2006 06:28

Am on the Northside also Eids, nearish RBH.
Love it here.
I'm English ( Northerner), DH is Aussie, DD is Aussie too and is 10 months. I've been here 3 years.
I saw something large and black flutter around my food cupboard today - sure it's a cockroach but have blotted it from my mind ( until now) as am too scared to investigate.
I'm embarrassed to say that I watch ( 9 month out of date) episodes of East Enders and Corrie on UKTV daily secretly Smile
It's really only for research purposes ( and so I still have something in common with mates back home) - but I do have a worry that DD will develop an accent which is a happy combination of Pauline Fowler and Gail Tilsley ( sorry Platt - showing my age there)
Actually, I'm sure DD will have an Aussie accent ( which is fine) - but am also going to impress on her the importance of Yoghurt ( harsh 'O') and Vitamins ( harsh 'I').
We had an ELC toy pan set( yep, we've introduced the sexual stereotyping already) in the UK at Xmas and it sang about "carrots and peas" in the most plummy operatic type voice I have ever heard - almost brought it back but if she'd started talking like that she'd have no friends I'm sure.
I guess I'm a Northerner on 2 counts now.

How do you think the parenting experience is different here cf the UK??

I know friends there dread Mat Leave over the winter when they don't get to go out for, like, 6 months.
And there seem to be loads more activities for families here than in the UK.
But DD won't be going to Oxford University ( ha ha as if).

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yummimummy · 14/03/2006 06:32

Lots of Aussies think DH is Brit - think I must have "poshed him up".
If a Northener can posh anything up that is!

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arfissimo · 14/03/2006 08:20

Guffaw at schizo Joanna Lumley/Kathy Burke.

Yummi - where in the North are you from? DP is from Wigan. His family are great fun, much more than my slightly uptight rellies.

Sigh We don't have Foxtel yet. We left behind our adored Sky plus. In the meantime I'm spending five times the monthly subscriptions on 2 week old copies of Heat and OK. Not sure it's quite worth it for knowing all about Chantelle and Preston tbh.

Am resorting to buying UK DVDs on Ebay. We miss Peter Kay.

yummimummy · 14/03/2006 10:20

Oooohmigod
How great is Peter Kay?
Sooooo miss him.
We watched Phoenix Nights when we were last back home, back to back DVDs.
I'm from Lancashire.
I say that when I'm trying to impress.
Otherwise it's Blackpool!

Foxtel is a bit crap actually.
My DH relented and let me get it when I went on mat leave as long as I didn't watch total rubbish all day long.
Guess what....!

The best channel is undoubtedly the Lifestyle Channel.
If you're into home makeover shows back to back to back to back Smile

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suzywong · 14/03/2006 15:11

I have rather a fine collection of Jack Dee dvds, we could start up a comedy library. Trouble is they make me homesick

Arfissmon how CAN you survive with just terrestrial TV??? It's like living in 1989.

eidsvold · 14/03/2006 21:03

I told dh he could have foxtel when he got a job - so managed that within a month of being here started work. He can then watch his beloved premiership..

yummi - my dh works at the children's hospital.

We are much further out than that - around Redcliffe.

I am back to saying no worries.

Yummi - just think there are so many more opportunities to be out and about.... people generally seemed more laid back - couldn't get over how 'angry and uptight' a lot of people I came across in the UK were.

Yummi - have you been to the city botanical gardens - we head in there fairly regularly for breakfast on a Sunday and then go for a wander over goodwill bridge and around Southbank. The dds love it.

hannahsaunt · 14/03/2006 21:19

We only have terrestrial TV and I did yearn for decent television over Christmas. It was so awful here and too hot to do much outside so TV was a bit of a must at times. I do secretly keep with Eastenders on the internet - the BBC website gives the synopsis (inc pictures!) a bit like the Archers. TV doesn't really bother me and now that channel 9 are showing all the World Cup matches I've persuaded dh that we really don't need Foxtel for the rest of our stay.

What I really miss though is the radio...I use the listen again feature on Radio 4 endlessly. Broadcast media here just isn't as good and I really miss it.

But even that doesn't make me homesick. What makes me homesick is reading British fiction! Sunday Philosophy Club nearly had me packing my bags. And Rebus and PD James and Ruth Rendell. I find them very comforting (despite the death and blood and gore Smile)

Not really homesick though. Too sunny to have the energy to think about digging my way out a snowdrift Grin.

yummimummy · 14/03/2006 23:05

I agree, one of the things I most miss is Radio 4.
Hannahs - I used to listen to it on the internet but we had dial up then and it kept on breaking up.
Perhaps I'll try again.
I've recently discovered Radio National which is better than most Stations.
I haven't heard of Sunday Philosophy Club - is that a book?
I've just finished the Kite Runner - very good about 2 boys in Afganistan, made me cry - something I'm more apt to do these days if reading, hearing a sad story, esp involving kids.
Eids - I've done a bit of walking around Southbank and the Bot Gds - all very nice.
They do guided walks at the Bot Gds at Mt Coot-ha too.
Arf - have you seen "Peter Kay at the Top of the Tower"?
Suzy - Jack Dee does it for me too. Laconic or what!

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suzywong · 15/03/2006 10:05

is this autumn then? I think I detect slightly more leaves on the ground but I'm not certain.

eidsvold · 15/03/2006 11:51

Ms Wong - pay attention now...

Dec - Feb - summer
Mar - May - autumn
jun - aug - winter
sept - nov - spring

Grin does that help?!?!

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