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Careers for highly sensitive people (orchid child)

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Wearegettingthere · 09/05/2026 07:04

What sort of careers would you suggest for a highly sensitive person?DD likes acting but that is a competitive world. She doesn’t want to do office jobs. I thinking working for herself would suit her best. Something like therapist, acupuncturist, etc. She is very creative, perspective, imaginative but doesn’t cope well in stressful environments.

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BloggersNetwork · 09/05/2026 12:44

A job as a therapist for someone who doesn't want a high stress job? I've heard it all now...

GuelderRoses · 09/05/2026 12:49

StartleBright · 09/05/2026 12:02

Wow the empathy on this thread is MIA (not all but… whooo bit of a pile on no?) . I think a good place to start would be with a bit of respect for the OP - a mum who wants to look out for her kid.

OP - this is what your kid is going to have to deal with, no matter what career she goes into. So…in my opinion what she wants to do has got to come from herself. If you can, give her lots of exposure to different things so she finds the right zone ( creative scientific whatever) that will allow her to find her internal motivation for dealing with all of the stuff life WILL throw at her. If she wants to do it for herself she will find the right tools for handling the tougher bits (or even better, learn to ask for help in dealing with specific issues). I don’t understand the details of the analogy to flowers - but I do know there are many, many types of orchids - and you can’t know, until she tries, where she will thrive best.

The 'kid' is in 6th form at a performing arts college.

BleedinglyObvious · 09/05/2026 12:51

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Yes.

GuelderRoses · 09/05/2026 12:52

User765342 · 09/05/2026 12:34

She has autism or ADHD. She is not an "orchid child".

There are plenty of careers for neurodivergent adults but it varies massively depending on their interests. Self employment is usually a good way to determine your own hours and mostly work alone with only occasional client contact.

Or maybe she is an introvert, a bit shy and quiet, or self-conscious. Don't jump to labelling people as being neurodivergent just because they aren't outgoing and a happy-go-lucky confident extrovert.

BleedinglyObvious · 09/05/2026 12:55

@User765342 , can you diagnose everyone's child based on one (duplicated) OP?

LilyYeCarveSuns · 09/05/2026 12:57

I agree with the PPs suggesting public service, or similar.
I fit the description of highly sensitive persons, and I think the term orchid child is a lovely way to describe it. I think it would have been better for me to have paid employment that allowed me to ground and contain emotion, rather than heightening it.

Blueeberry · 09/05/2026 12:58

LilyYeCarveSuns · 09/05/2026 12:57

I agree with the PPs suggesting public service, or similar.
I fit the description of highly sensitive persons, and I think the term orchid child is a lovely way to describe it. I think it would have been better for me to have paid employment that allowed me to ground and contain emotion, rather than heightening it.

What sort of public service are you suggesting, exactly?

Hoanna · 09/05/2026 12:58

Curious....and interested

SquirrelSoShiny · 09/05/2026 12:59

Orchid child. Snorts.

Toughen her up fast. We're heading into a world requiring Lord of the Flies level hardness!

Hoanna · 09/05/2026 13:00

My child is very happy, chatty, loving and caring and yet she lost all her friendships. She is a treasure which the world rejects....

PickAChew · 09/05/2026 13:00

"orchid child" sounds like a load of bollocks.

(I'll get my coat)

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 09/05/2026 13:00

She could do a book keeping or Will writing course and then set herself up to wfh.

Hoanna · 09/05/2026 13:02

SquirrelSoShiny · 09/05/2026 12:59

Orchid child. Snorts.

Toughen her up fast. We're heading into a world requiring Lord of the Flies level hardness!

I don't have to. I have private properties abroad and will create a business which she can lead. The world can go to the dumpster and be eaten by the flies, we are having an eternal Father Who loves us and cares for His precious daughters

Besidemyselfwithworry · 09/05/2026 13:02

JaneFondue · 09/05/2026 11:21

I wouldn't go to a therapist who was more anxious and sensitive than me.

This
and what the bloody hell is an “orchid child”
does she identify as a plant??

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 09/05/2026 13:03

Hoanna · 09/05/2026 13:02

I don't have to. I have private properties abroad and will create a business which she can lead. The world can go to the dumpster and be eaten by the flies, we are having an eternal Father Who loves us and cares for His precious daughters

Riiight.

GiorgioArmageddi · 09/05/2026 13:04

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Psych theory. Dandelion children (bloom anywhere) vs orchid children (supposedly more creative but require a lot of emotional support). Fucking hate this theory because I think it proposes that “orchids” are more special and more requiring of care than “dandelion” children. The fact is everyone naturally hates stress and every child thrives with more support. If your child is biologically reactive to stress, you need to handle that medically and psychologically, instead of encouraging them to be an “orchid” 🙄

DustyMaiden · 09/05/2026 13:04

DH is a cactus.

Hoanna · 09/05/2026 13:05

OP, I suggest leave all your mental options open....hear what I am saying? Do not project anything on your child from now because you don't know God's plan for your daughter. Keep teaching her all kinds of skills and send her to various courses and hobbies if she is social. If not, keep going out as a family and do variety of things so she is seeing the world at large out there...

if you are foreign, especially EU don't forget that many smaller EU countries are up and coming all the while the west is going down the dumps

LilyYeCarveSuns · 09/05/2026 13:06

Blueeberry · 09/05/2026 12:58

What sort of public service are you suggesting, exactly?

Public sector / civil service
strange contraction there sorry

Hoanna · 09/05/2026 13:06

GiorgioArmageddi · 09/05/2026 13:04

Psych theory. Dandelion children (bloom anywhere) vs orchid children (supposedly more creative but require a lot of emotional support). Fucking hate this theory because I think it proposes that “orchids” are more special and more requiring of care than “dandelion” children. The fact is everyone naturally hates stress and every child thrives with more support. If your child is biologically reactive to stress, you need to handle that medically and psychologically, instead of encouraging them to be an “orchid” 🙄

Medically? LOL. Please, go and medicate yourselves my dears.

McSpoot · 09/05/2026 13:06

Hoanna · 09/05/2026 13:00

My child is very happy, chatty, loving and caring and yet she lost all her friendships. She is a treasure which the world rejects....

Did you forget which user name you were using?

GiorgioArmageddi · 09/05/2026 13:06

Hoanna · 09/05/2026 13:02

I don't have to. I have private properties abroad and will create a business which she can lead. The world can go to the dumpster and be eaten by the flies, we are having an eternal Father Who loves us and cares for His precious daughters

Uhhhh… good luck? The world is about to discover that you can run cars without gas but you can’t grow the amount of food needed without fertilizer (the ACTUAL most important commodity with shipping stopped by the US aggression in Iran).

Hoanna · 09/05/2026 13:08

GiorgioArmageddi · 09/05/2026 13:06

Uhhhh… good luck? The world is about to discover that you can run cars without gas but you can’t grow the amount of food needed without fertilizer (the ACTUAL most important commodity with shipping stopped by the US aggression in Iran).

I already have a business which grows food abroad and fully set up running properties on Russian gaz. Good luck to you, dear brainwashed shallow westerner who has 0 imagination or survival skills

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 09/05/2026 13:09

Why don’t you and your rejected treasure orchid pop off back there then? The apple certainly fell far from the tree if she’s your daughter

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