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Applying to top US universities from UK: SATs, essays and financial aid?

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phyllidafosset · 13/03/2026 18:35

DD is in Y12, and so we have been discussing universities. The long and short is she doesn’t know what she wants to study, but she knows she wants to go to university (she is sure she doesn’t want to do a year out). After a lot of discussion we have started to wonder if a degree in the US would suit her because she can do a broad curriculum for a year or two and hopefully settle on what she loves. Career-wise she is focused on investment banking (!).

We have had a look, and some of the very top universities have good financial aid (and some do needs-blind admissions). She is doing 4 A-levels (maths/fm/econ/history), with a mix which I believe will be good for a liberal arts degree (or could lead to sciences/tech).

I know she would need stellar grades and stellar SAT results. I wondered how hard it is for UK applicants to achieve great SAT scores.

I am more worried about her ‘essay’ and her extra curriculars because they are going to be limited. She does do bits in school but she hasn’t done any of the stand out things I feel she might need. Has anyone got any experience of ‘normal’ UK students (with some supracurriculars) getting a place at a top US Uni?? Or any experience of applying? I am also unsure how far the financial aid goes (if you do get it) and what additional expenses (other than flights and visa) a UK student would have.

Realistically, is it too late to be considered this? Any thoughts/experiences would be appreciated!!!

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oneoneone · 14/03/2026 16:48

Ritaskitchen · 14/03/2026 16:41

Last year Trump randomly stopped allowing visas for students. All the kids at my DC international schools were scrambling for alternatives. A few other points just to air some differences
Is she ok with sharing a room with 2-3 other girls? Single rooms are very unusual at American universities. For first years it’s a bit like boarding school. There are strict rules an out behavior as well. And alcohol.
Factor in the costs of flights and the time difference for catch ups.
Plus you are a long way away if anything god wrong.
Look into the costs of health insurance.
In the current climate she is unlikely to get a Job in the Us after graduation. I have several friends- again from my DC international school and despite doing v well at their degree in America they are back in the Uk we they were Brits and could not get a job there.

The universities generally have very good health plans you can opt into. The health care is actually generally really excellent at universities.

SheilaFentiman · 14/03/2026 17:17

mathanxiety · 14/03/2026 15:54

The universities this student is interested in have endowments in the $$$billions.

The visa situation would give me pause, but overall, given the fact that the man in question has only two more years to go, and in light of the DD's preference for the liberal arts model, an application is worth a shot. The only way to be sure of not getting in anywhere is not to apply.

I don’t think the democrats are in great shape to win the next election and I don’t think whoever succeeds Trump will change direction much in the “war on woke”

mathanxiety · 14/03/2026 17:45

SheilaFentiman · 14/03/2026 17:17

I don’t think the democrats are in great shape to win the next election and I don’t think whoever succeeds Trump will change direction much in the “war on woke”

That doesn't alter the endowment picture.

SheilaFentiman · 14/03/2026 17:55

mathanxiety · 14/03/2026 17:45

That doesn't alter the endowment picture.

Sure - but the administration is so capricious, they stated that Harvard couldn’t issue international visas for 6 months or something (even if a judge later overruled it).

Plus, as with Anthropic, trump not only wanted to freeze 2.2bn of Harvard/federal contracts, he wanted other federal contractors to cease working with Harvard. No matter how good your endowments, that’s going to sting. Especially when the orange one is suing you

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/feb/03/trump-harvard-dispute-seeking-1bn-damages-settlement

Also, other great institutions (eg Columbia) may not be quite as rich to take a chance in court.

Plus I wouldn’t want any teenager of mine in a country where abortion rights are so shaky, if I could avoid it.

Given how much work an application is and all of the above negatives, I don’t think it is worth the DD’s time. Happy to agree to differ.

Trump says he is seeking $1bn in damages in Harvard dispute

US president makes further claims of antisemitism against Ivy League school amid wider dispute with higher education institutions

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/feb/03/trump-harvard-dispute-seeking-1bn-damages-settlement

User11010866 · 14/03/2026 18:56

RatherBeOnVacation · 14/03/2026 16:05

It is actually easier to get into Oxbridge as a U.K. student than it is to get into an Ivy. My DDs school has a US college advisor and they laid out the reality.

At MIT they accept 2.4 students from the UK each year. They have all been worldwide Olympiad winners in a STEM subject for the last few years. It’s similar at the Ivys. There’s bright and there’s BRIGHT.

If you apply from the U.K. and need financial aid to even attend then many colleges will reject you right off. There is a trend of students getting in and then being offered scholarships once they’ve started. My friend has a child at Fordham who started on full fees and now has a 60% fee reduction.

You should budget $100k per year for fees, living (including compulsory meal packages), insurance and flights. It’s a four year commitment.

American children work on their applications for at least two years prior. There’s a huge number of boxes to tick - academics (minimum top 5% of your year), extra curricular at high level, service / volunteering etc. Many hire college advisors to help with application essays. We were told either apply to the U.K. or USA, not both as it’s so time consuming and you need to be fully committed.

There’s lots of less well known universities that do offer fee reductions to internationals but if she wants to work in the big league then having a top U.K. university on her CV looks far better than somewhere nobody has heard of.

It's not true for MIT's case. Most of offers from MIT are for athletes. Only 2 or 3 IMOers in the last 10 years.

Muu9 · 14/03/2026 23:09

ZZTopGuitarSolo · 14/03/2026 12:23

Thanks - btw your DD could apply to Rollins College in Florida. Much higher acceptance rate and they do offer aid to international students, although the chance of getting a full ride is still probably not great. It’s a beautiful campus in a lovely town just north of Orlando.

www.rollins.edu/apply/international/

Unfortunately that's not an IB feeder.

Muu9 · 14/03/2026 23:12

User11010866 · 14/03/2026 18:56

It's not true for MIT's case. Most of offers from MIT are for athletes. Only 2 or 3 IMOers in the last 10 years.

Which sport(s)? Rowing?

ZZTopGuitarSolo · 15/03/2026 00:41

Muu9 · 14/03/2026 23:09

Unfortunately that's not an IB feeder.

I’m not sure what you mean? That they don’t take IB students?

AdeptWriter · 15/03/2026 01:07

I would really not recommend the idea of a US university.
They are far different than UK universities, and considering she is uncertain, what happens if she goes all the way there and hates it? That would be a huge setback and waste of money.

I know you said she really doesn’t want to take a year out, but considering she doesn’t know what she wants to do I would really push her towards taking that year and finding some sort of work to find what she would like to do.

In regard to the Liberal Arts degree, unfortunately for employment it is often seen as a ‘joke degree’ no matter where it’s studied.

oneoneone · 15/03/2026 01:11

ZZTopGuitarSolo · 15/03/2026 00:41

I’m not sure what you mean? That they don’t take IB students?

I think they're using IB to mean investment banking, not the international baccalaureate. The recruiters tend to swarm the ivies.

CatsLikeBoxes · 15/03/2026 01:40

Warwick uni do a liberal arts / liberal arts & science degrees, and they're well linked to IB - I presume you'd have to choose economic some modules to be seen as a potential candidate.

User11010866 · 15/03/2026 02:28

Muu9 · 14/03/2026 23:12

Which sport(s)? Rowing?

At least 3 of rowing in the last two years.

mathanxiety · 15/03/2026 03:13

Ritaskitchen · 14/03/2026 16:41

Last year Trump randomly stopped allowing visas for students. All the kids at my DC international schools were scrambling for alternatives. A few other points just to air some differences
Is she ok with sharing a room with 2-3 other girls? Single rooms are very unusual at American universities. For first years it’s a bit like boarding school. There are strict rules an out behavior as well. And alcohol.
Factor in the costs of flights and the time difference for catch ups.
Plus you are a long way away if anything god wrong.
Look into the costs of health insurance.
In the current climate she is unlikely to get a Job in the Us after graduation. I have several friends- again from my DC international school and despite doing v well at their degree in America they are back in the Uk we they were Brits and could not get a job there.

You're mistaken about dorms. They're not one bit like boarding school.

Students get the opportunity to opt for random roommate assignment or to try to get matched with someone who has similar requirements for a roommate - night owl vs early bird, neat freak vs mess tolerant, can't stand snoring, doesn't like loud music, etc.

Dorms have a Resident Advisor (an older student) on every floor to help solve issues that arise between roommates. You can ask for a transfer if your roommate is insufferable.

Some dorms have a bathroom in every room, and some have a communal shower room and bathroom. (The showers are in cubicles).

The rules are basically 'be considerate' and 'don't be a dick'. All of my DCs made lifelong (so far anyway) friends of college roommates. I've seen your horror of shared rooms here on MN before - I can assure you it's not the nightmare many British people seem to believe it is.

Abortion has been derogated to individual states to regulate (that was the effect of the SC ruling a few years ago). Blue states and a couple of red ones iirc have taken steps to guarantee abortion rights and/or other rights related to pregnancy care. States have their own constitutions and legislatures.

I find it very hard to believe that graduates of the top tier of American universities who are legally allowed to work in the UK would have a hard time getting an excellent job there, especially in investment banking or finance. Firms in this industry tend to operate on a global scale and attract and hire applicants from leading universities all over the world. They are not at all parochial.

mathanxiety · 15/03/2026 03:35

RatherBeOnVacation · 14/03/2026 16:05

It is actually easier to get into Oxbridge as a U.K. student than it is to get into an Ivy. My DDs school has a US college advisor and they laid out the reality.

At MIT they accept 2.4 students from the UK each year. They have all been worldwide Olympiad winners in a STEM subject for the last few years. It’s similar at the Ivys. There’s bright and there’s BRIGHT.

If you apply from the U.K. and need financial aid to even attend then many colleges will reject you right off. There is a trend of students getting in and then being offered scholarships once they’ve started. My friend has a child at Fordham who started on full fees and now has a 60% fee reduction.

You should budget $100k per year for fees, living (including compulsory meal packages), insurance and flights. It’s a four year commitment.

American children work on their applications for at least two years prior. There’s a huge number of boxes to tick - academics (minimum top 5% of your year), extra curricular at high level, service / volunteering etc. Many hire college advisors to help with application essays. We were told either apply to the U.K. or USA, not both as it’s so time consuming and you need to be fully committed.

There’s lots of less well known universities that do offer fee reductions to internationals but if she wants to work in the big league then having a top U.K. university on her CV looks far better than somewhere nobody has heard of.

There is a difference between scholarships and financial aid.

Financial aid is essentially a waiver of some or all of the cost of attendance. A scholarship is funding from either the university or some specially earmarked fund and is dependent on whatever factors the benefactor has set for the award (academic merit, ethnic origin, girl from a large family, student from a certain county, etc). Students can sometimes be surprised to receive a letter informing them they've won a scholarship, but in the main they have to apply for them. Financial aid is determined by crunching numbers from the CSS Profile and any supplemental family financial information individual universities may require.

The universities the OP's DD is considering are those offering need blind admission and to meet the full demonstrated need of all admitted students (financial aid, not scholarships).

Iirc, Fordham is not among those universities.

cinnamontreat767 · 15/03/2026 03:43

I disagree with the poster who said Liberal Arts degree is a joke degree. From my DD and DS research and our conversations with the consultant where she showed us actual statistical data from US Dept of Education, some top liberal arts colleges actually offer a huge return on investment even above or on par Ivy league. Obviously it depends what you do afterwards but still. And anyway, nowadays everyone has a graduate degree anyway so it's not just about undergrad anymore.

I wanted to add my thoughts, because I had both kids explore the US, and one is currently there.
It is a family decision, it is a big commitment. The only thing I will recommend is for the US process, please hire an expert who could guide you in this process. I went through it with both my kids, after I tried to find information online. There is a lot out there, and there is a lot of misinformation, and "well-wishers" who actually offer harmful advice pretending they are experts. You need to speak to somebody who actually knows what they're talking about, but please don't hire those big firms - they are terrible!!

I worked with a consultant for both my kids, and it is not cheap, but I don't know what we'd do without her especially for the US process. All your concerns about testing, essays, extracurriculars and recommendation letters are legitimate, and we had no idea how everything needs to work even after researching loads, you still have some assumptions that things will operate the same way they do back home. Feel free to message me if you have questions...

Movingon2024 · 15/03/2026 04:45

After also not knowing exactly what degree she wanted, DD went to St Andrew’s. As pp have mentioned, Scottish unis offer a much broader curriculum base and a modular approach.

DD changed her degree after year 1 but in reality you don’t actually confirm it until year 3. From our experience, it works very well for students who aren’t exactly certain of their academic interest when they enter.

Ceramiq · 15/03/2026 06:12

@mathanxiety "I find it very hard to believe that graduates of the top tier of American universities who are legally allowed to work in the UK would have a hard time getting an excellent job there, especially in investment banking or finance. Firms in this industry tend to operate on a global scale and attract and hire applicants from leading universities all over the world. They are not at all parochial."

Students at Oxbridge, LSE and Imperial find it hard to get an excellent job in IB in the UK and they are on the ground and have a clear recruitment calendar in which undergraduates from other countries may not participate. Students at US universities have their own recruitment calendar.

ZZTopGuitarSolo · 15/03/2026 11:57

oneoneone · 15/03/2026 01:11

I think they're using IB to mean investment banking, not the international baccalaureate. The recruiters tend to swarm the ivies.

Thank you - that makes sense now.

oneoneone · 15/03/2026 12:14

@cinnamontreat767

I disagree with the poster who said Liberal Arts degree is a joke degree. From my DD and DS research and our conversations with the consultant where she showed us actual statistical data from US Dept of Education, some top liberal arts colleges actually offer a huge return on investment even above or on par Ivy league. Obviously it depends what you do afterwards but still. And anyway, nowadays everyone has a graduate degree anyway so it's not just about undergrad anymore.

I agree with @cinnamontreat767. Both of mine who did liberal arts degrees have done really well with employment out of university. I think people underestimate the vast alumni networks and really good placement services these universities have. Both have gone on to graduate degrees (or what would be called post-grad in the UK), but that was after landing jobs straight out of uni and working for a few years.

Also agree with @mathanxiety that dorms are nothing like boarding school. They're actually amazing, supportive environments that serve as an excellent transition between home and the outside world.

Ivy League universities don't offer merit based or athletic scholarships in a financial sense. Their awards are all needs based. The total package of an applicant that makes them a candidate for acceptance might be based on a skill or combination of skills, but the money awarded won't be. One of my DC's was given something called the President's Scholarship on acceptance which was basically a grant to fund a project of their choosing during their time there. It wasn't something that was applied for and didn't impact the fees in any way.

Muu9 · 16/03/2026 04:49

ZZTopGuitarSolo · 15/03/2026 00:41

I’m not sure what you mean? That they don’t take IB students?

They don't feed into Investment Banking

Netaporter · 16/03/2026 05:16

@phyllidafosset i’d also suggest looking at TCD - they offer joint studies with Columbia for some degrees as an example but also high performing students have the ability to participate in Erasmus both in Europe and internationally (including US universities) but at no additional cost beyond their existing tuition fees. There is also a very wide selection of international firms including banking who are headquartered in Dublin who offer attractive internships/vacation placements etc.

What you might want to consider is that some students are not taking up the opportunity to go to the US because of the risk of their student visas being revoked with little or no notice.

With respect to US applications, does your DD have any form of volunteering/community service? When DD was at her 6th form school (one very experienced in US applications) it was definitely expected that applicants had this for their reference.

Finally, I’d add - is she sure she wants to be so far away from you? I think it sounds great in principle for some kids, but even with FaceTime etc the reality often hits after an 8 hr+ plane ride that your mum can’t just pop round if you feel unwell.

bettyjane · 16/03/2026 06:26

ramonaquimby · 14/03/2026 00:26

Why the US?
Canadian universities would also offer a broader curriculum than UK degrees

This is a good point- my DD applied to a Canadian University, the application process was easy and she has been offered a generous scholarship. There is also a full International scholarship you can apply for at the University too, although she didn’t do this. Could be worth looking in to because I think the degree structure is similar to USA.

trubbelatmill · 16/03/2026 07:30

phyllidafosset · 14/03/2026 11:12

She thinks it doesn’t matter what degree you do as long as it is from a target university. But the problem is even with that freedom’, she doesn’t know. My concern is that if she doesn’t want to do maths or economics, investment banking wouldn’t be a good career choice. I’m hoping a broader degree will help her refine where her academic interests lie. She has always been extremely good at physics and maths, but she gave up physics basically at the beginning of y11 (she did the gcse but stopped doing any real work for it), because it was boring. And she is doing v well in maths & fm, but she doesn’t want to do that. I wish she would lean to computer science but she says too much maths. But ultimately, I don’t care what she does as long as she enjoys it, and she can then choose a career she thinks she will find enjoyable.

In the current graduate job market, its naive to think that students applying for "any degree" roles can choose their career. In practice, they will need to apply for many dozens of opportunities before they get their first job offer. Their first employer will choose them, and they will need to build a career from there.

Many naive students start (often too late) by applying for investment banking, don't get anywhere, then widen their net, by which time they have missed out on other potential opportunities.

The massive increase in the student population, and the broader range of vocational degrees, has meant there are far more graduates chasing far fewer "any degree" roles.

Many school ucas/careers advisors are giving their students out of date advice on what to study at uni.

Ceramiq · 16/03/2026 08:05

She thinks it doesn’t matter what degree you do as long as it is from a target university."

I would advise any Y12 (or their parents) to research current recruitment criteria of possible careers. It's no good looking at the LinkedIn profiles of people in their 30s and assuming that the recruitment criteria have remained the same.

phyllidafosset · 16/03/2026 10:09

mathanxiety · 14/03/2026 01:44

Need to add - all of the contact with admissions and finaid offices should be done asap.

We have been thinking about this over the weekend. For various reasons (London house prices/self-employed/taxes in UK compared to the US) we have realised that we will struggle with the financial aid calculations (at least that is what the internet is suggesting without us having actually talked to them directly yet). I know this is going to sound ridiculous, but I'm a little anxious about contacting the admissions/finaid offices. But there is zero point in applying to any US college if we would have to pay full fees (or even most of the cost), because irrespective of the calculations, we couldn't afford not to have some financial aid. So, this is my next step! I have my fingers crossed for some miracles (in addition to the ones DD would need to get accepted).

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