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Continuation of Oxbridge 2025

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BananasAllofIt · 27/11/2024 18:17

I for one still have a kid waiting to hear about interviews. Thought I'd carry it over...

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WombatChocolate · 10/01/2025 16:09

Last year, most people seemed to hear from Oxford colleges around 9.30 although some were later morning.

It is tough in a school day and also mud-mocks for lots….but I suppose toughening up is all part of it.

If I recall correctly, test results were emailed within a couple of days (in an email which flagged it contained the test result at end - in case anyone preferred not to know result) and then those rejected could request further feedback, for about 4 weeks. Within a few days, reports from colleges and departments become available online too, showing various stats about candidates short listed for interview re gcse grades, test scores etc and then data about those offered/not offered.

Something to bear in mind for anyone rejected - no need to make a speedy decision on that. Wait for the test results and the admission reports data first and think about other offers/plans. Many move on quickly. They have another good offer or receive one in the next few weeks and don’t need what might not be v encouraging feedback.
Likewise, many see the admissions reports and see their test scores or GCSE results made them outside chances from the beginning - and don’t feel the need for further info about interview scores.
However, some who are rejected discover they had high test scores relative to those accepted. Sometimes they, especially if really unhappy with alternative offers and considering re-applying, want the feedback and it’s useful. The Q is whether that feedback (often just data) will help or just discourage.

And maybe too early to say on this thread, but know that anyone rejected will understandably be v raw for a few days. Their thoughts and plans at that point may well change quickly as they move on from it. Sugnificant upset is usually short lived and it hurts for parents to see them suffer, but it helps to know it’s mostly short-lived.

Re re-applying, it’s best for all to sleep on this for a few weeks/months. If the data suggests tests scored very highly and they remain unhappy about alternative unis, perhaps 3 weeks after rejection, it is worth getting the interview feedback. I’d recommend keeping ucas going with alternative offers until results day. Then, if they still remain unhappy with alternative AND have perfect A Level grades AND think they just missed a place based on test scores and interview feedback, they might decide to re-apply. A number of people who meet these criteria def get offers second time round. But it’s worth considering and being realistic about if they honestly only just missed out AND can face the process and risk of rejection again. Most are better moving on elsewhere and knowing they can apply to Oxbridge for post-grad, but for a few, re-applying is the right thing.

Sorry to speak of reactions to rejection at the point when everyone remains hopeful. I hope it helps when lots sadly will get rejected next week and it can be distressing to see the upset and also to know what to advise about looking at test scores/seeking further feedback or even reapplying.

CalmaLlamaDown · 10/01/2025 16:25

Thank you Wombat, that’s a really helpful post.

My child is waiting to hear from Cambridge on the 30th. Obviously I hope it’s good news, but the points you’ve made gives me food for thought re how best to support if it’s a rejection.

Imogen710 · 10/01/2025 16:38

RunningOverTime · 10/01/2025 11:36

@Imogen710 similar boat here. DC has offer from his 5th choice and not heard from anyone else.

urgh it’s hard.

DC had no offers yet, despite great grades (11 As at GCSE, and predicted 4 As at A-level) and early October application. I am sure they will come through but focused on keeping their spirits up as all their friends get offers!

AsTearsGoBy · 10/01/2025 19:58

ofteninaspin · 10/01/2025 14:35

@ColouringPencils DD was put off one of her options for exactly the same approach. Exeter offered the day after she submitted her application; a month later they dropped the offer grades and Admissions sent countless emails. It had been an insurance contender but the “neediness” devalued her offer in her eyes and put her off entirely.

My own DD was the opposite. The professor heading up admissions emailed her after an offer was made as soon as the UCAS form hit the ground apologising for a minor admin blip and stressing that they were really interested in her application. He emailed a couple of times I think and she felt bad for not accepting either as a firm or insurance, given the personal intervention. My advice was that it was flattering, but that she shouldn't be swayed. (Manchester not Exeter).

CowWhisperer · 11/01/2025 15:05

Is it next Tuesday 14 Jan that Oxford make their offers.?
My nephew is applying for maths.
Thanks

FloralGums · 11/01/2025 15:48

DD told me she is enjoying this last weekend of still feeling Oxford is a possibility.
Her course has just over 10% success rate for applicants, so in the back of my mind I know chances are slim. Fingers crossed though 🙏

yonderhouse · 11/01/2025 16:10

@CowWhisperer - yes, next week 14th for Oxford! My dc has a few friends hoping for offers. DC is waiting on Cambridge (30th) so we’ll see how things go…

Norma27 · 11/01/2025 16:39

Good luck for all your children on Tuesday waiting for Oxford! I remember the feeling last year.

NanFlanders · 11/01/2025 18:39

CowWhisperer · 11/01/2025 15:05

Is it next Tuesday 14 Jan that Oxford make their offers.?
My nephew is applying for maths.
Thanks

Yes. 14 for all Oxford applications.

IfYouLook · 12/01/2025 12:40

We are waiting for Oxford on 14th but annoyingly my DD will be in the southern hemisphere and so I may not hear until the Wednesday arrrgh.

Nearlyadoctor · 12/01/2025 16:21

We’re waiting for Oxford on 14th but Dd is in her mock English Lit exam until 11.40am - she said it’ll make her more stressed knowing the email may have arrived.

maybemedmum · 13/01/2025 09:40

Popping on to wish the Oxford people luck for tomorrow.
DD is not feeling very optimistic about her chances, but we will see. She'd be equally happy with two of her other choices, but hasn't got offers from them yet either (this is expected - we know they'll make decisions in Feb/March - but still hard).
I also just wanted to thank @PhotoDad (I think!) for saying something on this thread that has stuck with me and both DD and I have found helpful about the fact that the interviews are meant to be hard. It's an obvious point, but one we've found really helpful to bear in mind at all the interviews, not just the Oxford ones.
Fingers crossed for them all...

ipredictariot5 · 13/01/2025 13:56

good luck to all DC for tomorrow. I was reading up thread about feedback - what can DC ask for ( mine has applied computer science and I think chances are low) My DS hasn’t actually applied for any other courses yet so we are going to need to move fast anyway - he seems to be wanting a gap year if unsuccessful. Is it worth reapplication to Oxford with Alevels done if rejected after interview first time ?

periodiclabel · 13/01/2025 14:36

ipredictariot5 · 13/01/2025 13:56

good luck to all DC for tomorrow. I was reading up thread about feedback - what can DC ask for ( mine has applied computer science and I think chances are low) My DS hasn’t actually applied for any other courses yet so we are going to need to move fast anyway - he seems to be wanting a gap year if unsuccessful. Is it worth reapplication to Oxford with Alevels done if rejected after interview first time ?

For some subjects, yes, but my understanding is for CS they don't like it as they worry too much maths would be lost in the gap year. So it would be a huge gamble.

WombatChocolate · 13/01/2025 14:50

If your DC did an admissions test, these scores are normally sent automatically to all those interviewed.

They are also usually given a window of about a month to request further feedback on other elements of the process. What is received is usually just data - telling them what their interview score was and a score for written work submitted (if that required). Departments and collleges put out publically admissions reports within the next couple of weeks to show the average scores and range of those who get shortlisted for interview, and those who get offers. So a rejected candidate can see if they did less well on admissions test, interview, submitted written work etc. It can also show some that they were extremely close as some of their scores might be better than the average score of those who were admitted in certain areas.

Most colleges and departments say no further feedback beyond this data can be given.

What the data does is allow a candidate to see how they scored in certain elements alongside other candidates.

For many rejected, the test score alone is enough info. They can see their test score didn’t place them in a strong position going into the interview. If this is the case, they would have to perform exceptionally well and leap-frog those applicants in interview, who were already higher ranked in entrance scores. This is very difficult to do, when everyone is strong.

Every year there are some in chat rooms who find their admissions test was highly scored and they did well in interview too…but didn’t get a place still. It shows how marginal it is between some candidates, which is very tough.

Allowing some time for the ground to settle and disappointment to dissipate before deciding if to seek further feedback and if to consider re-applying is a good thing. Nothing needs to be done quickly. Most candidates are still waiting to see whether their other next best options come through with offers. Only once they have all their offers can they really evaluate possible next steps and to be honest, until A Level results are achieved, knowing if it’s viable to re-apply (for the small number who still really want to and haven’t moved on).

This week, time needs to be given to just process, be thrilled or disappointed by the outcome and to come to terms with it all. Regardless, they can all be proud of having had the courage to try and go through the process and get as far as they have. If disappointed, it might take a few days or weeks to feel that, but most will be able to take satisfaction from knowing they tried.

All the best to everyone waiting for outcomes tomorrow and who will experience the massive thrill and also the massive disappointment which comes with all this. And all the best to the parents responding to the fallout of it. It honestly is the case, that in time, it’s significance lessens hugely although it doesn’t feel like it at the time.

WombatChocolate · 13/01/2025 14:56

ipredictariot5 · 13/01/2025 13:56

good luck to all DC for tomorrow. I was reading up thread about feedback - what can DC ask for ( mine has applied computer science and I think chances are low) My DS hasn’t actually applied for any other courses yet so we are going to need to move fast anyway - he seems to be wanting a gap year if unsuccessful. Is it worth reapplication to Oxford with Alevels done if rejected after interview first time ?

I posted some advice a few posts back about possible responses after rejection….and allowing time to think and adjust, might be useful.

For your DC it would certainly be worth quickly adding other applications to the UCAS to keep all options open. It is hard to know how their thinking about it all might change over the coming weeks and months, so having other options is good.

For anyone considering re-application, seeing the admissions tests scores first in context of the admissions reports is important, to see if they were top performers, it’s important. If so, and still considering it, opting for the further feedback data is important. If they are then showing as v near-miss in interview, waiting for A Level results, to see if their post-results application will have stronger or equal grades to their predicted (rather than worse) is important. People often say only re-apply if your A Levels are perfect grades. You can’t know that until August. Having a back-up plan of another option is good…even if it isn’t actually taken up in the autumn.

Panicmode1 · 13/01/2025 17:16

Will have fingers and toes crossed for everyone tomorrow - it's such a nervewracking wait. And @WombatChocolate has some very sage advice...as a mum of a Cambridge undergrad and an Oxford reject myself, much resonates!

(Re reapplying for CS - I don't know about that specific course, but DS was advised that they really don't like gap years/reapplications when the maths is crucial to the course - he is reading engineering and really wanted to travel, but was advised against that if he hadn't made it. He got an A star in FM, but he said even the break from A levels finishing to start of term was really hard to get his head back in the game!)

Juja · 13/01/2025 19:04

Good luck to all Oxford parents and their DC for tomorrow - hope you get some sleep.

@ipredictariot5 while some of those who reapply definitely do get in second time around it is hard reapplying for maths based courses if you have to take the MAT or something similar. My bright DN did well in MAT on first application and was rejected post interview but when re-applying post A Levels found it very difficult to do the revision when no longer at school and second time around didn't secure an interview. Clearly this is only an anecdote but demonstrates the challenges.

ColouringPencils · 13/01/2025 19:30

Good luck to everyone tomorrow! Funny to think it will all be over, one way or the other, in the next 15 hours or so.

While we are all still in the same position, just want to thank everyone for their generosity on this thread. DD is my eldest and I don't know any other parents of Oxbridge candidates, so it has been really helpful to me (and her) and made a fairly opaque process a lot clearer.

Let's hope our children all deal with whatever happens tomorrow in the best way they can. I bet they will continue to amaze us, as they usually do.

Imogen710 · 13/01/2025 19:54

My DC’s friend applied to Pembroke Oxford so everything crossed for tomorrow. He’s got great grades, plays in a national orchestra and rows for the UK…but still no guarantees! It’s so competitive.

speedylettuce · 13/01/2025 22:56

Best of luck to all receiving decisions tomorrow! Simply being in the position to apply for/ interview at Oxford is a remarkable achievement in itself and reflects how bright these young people really are. Whether it is Oxford or another equally great path, they are sure to have many successes lying ahead of them!

bellabelly · 14/01/2025 00:17

Best of luck to all the dcs for good news in the morning! Mine has applied for History and Spanish - the HAT was a disaster - tech problems on the day!. The MLAT was (apparently) fine and he got an interview. He's very keen on studying at Oxford and (I think) pretty nervous about offers day tomorrow. I REALLY hope he gets an offer! We'll see...

pistachioicecream · 14/01/2025 05:57

Good luck to everyone waiting for results today.

Just very glad it will all be over in a few hours and we can move on from thinking about it.

Cysco · 14/01/2025 06:17

Fingers crossed 🤞 for everyone today 🙏

Nearlyadoctor · 14/01/2025 06:41

Good luck everyone - can’t believe how tense I feel so goodness knows how the students are feeling 🙏🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞

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