Embarrassed to admit that my chaotic DS will likely be one of the messy untidy ones. I promise I have tried ... it's not that he'd expect someone else to do it but he doesn't care about mess most of time. Until he does and then he'll clean and tidy like a demon.
I don't think it's always a boy/girl thing though. The tidiest member of DD's flat is one of the boys.
@PhotoDad sorry your DD missed out on this opportunity. She's so resourceful I'm sure another door will open soon.
DS received an unconditional offer from Kingston this week and is really happy as it was in his top 3 choices. As a result think he's going to withdraw from MMU . He's still waiting for CSM which may take a bit longer - hear they can be quite slow with decisions.