Hi all, have not been on this board for a while.
DS is applying for medicine. Slightly disappointing UCAT 74 percentile, but amazing BMAT annoyingly, as Leeds was his only BMAT. Predicted 3A*. Was volunteer at local hospital, on line course, on youth panel for another hospital, etc.
He was rejected by Exeter and Cardiff. Exeter said - great application, just had so many deferrals we only have 47 places to offer - would you like to come and do BioChem and then apply for graduate Medic place?
Cardiff said - thanks but no thanks, but do come and do chemistry.
Belfast and Leeds both offered virtual MMI interviews. Belfast was first and felt good he said. He has just heard he is on their waiting list. Is that actually promising or not? Leeds was. a weird interview, where you just answered questions on the screen, not a person so DS said he didn’t really get a feel.
Leeds had said he would find out end of March: then on the day said they would send decision out in batches.
Poor DS is - just like other medic applicants I assume - beyond stressed at this point. His friends all had multiple offers, chose their favourite, have signed contracts for accommodation.
DS feels stuck in limbo: he said he’d almost rather know he had no offers, because then he could get his head around it and move on.
It is SO hard being the parent too isn’t it? I don’t want to show how disappointed I am for him because he does not want to think he is letting us down. Which of course he is not, and I tell him that all the time, explicitly!
All he has ever wanted since year 9 (like other applicants, I know) is to be a doctor. He has slogged and slogged and slogged. I feel guilty that perhaps we should have guided him more / done more research / dug down into which universities hardly had any places to offer…
Sorry to moan: just no one to moan to IRL, DH very stressed with work and poor DS, my parents are in poor health, so grateful for a space here.