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Talk to other parents whose children are preparing for university on our Higher Education forum.

2017 seems so long ago, now they're fledgling graduates.

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latedecember1963 · 06/03/2021 17:31

4 years since A Levels and the wait for August and confirmation of where our chicks were about to fly the nest to.
It's been 4 years that has sprung a few surprises along the way, not least this lovely series of threads.

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Horsemad · 07/12/2021 08:26

Attended DS's Masters graduation yesterday; another proud moment. 🙂
It was quiet compared to the previous one, as his cohort had only met on Zoom!
They seemed to enjoy meeting up & with their tutors also. DS and a few others went out last night, so hopefully enjoyed themselves.

Thanks for the offer of NY tips, @Parker231 & @bigTillyMint, I will definitely be asking! 👍

Carriemac · 07/12/2021 08:30

Congratulations @Xenia on the new grandchild- lovely news.
Nipped to Ireland to see my parents pre Christmas- feeling smug as the travel new testing rules don't apply for travel to Uk from Ireland but am now caught in Storm Barra!
Schools and shops closed and am expecting my flight home to be cancelled

Needmoresleep · 07/12/2021 08:40

PCR tests are coming back quickly, within 24 hours, and plenty of London clinics offering to courier tests to labs etc. Less easy elsewhere. A Dorset friend ended up driving a couple of hours to get a predeparture test. (But then a major culture shock outside London is the amount of time people spend in their cars….) DS has his booked for the afternoon he returns. He should have his results before he gets over his jet lag.

It appears that the predeparture test can be lateral flow, but apparently the guidance is far from clear.

The concern now is Boris threatening to review Christmas arrangements in 12 days time, plus the fact that DS will need to test before returning to the US. Already DS is wondering whether the big Boxing Day gathering in a London restaurant is wise. He is at a key point in his PhD and enjoying being able, finally, to share a study room with peers, and submitting papers for conferences. Numbers are growing in the US as well and their rule makers are getting twitchy. He does not want to get stuck in his childhood bedroom shuffling time zones.

His sister, in contrast, finally has a social life and is making the most of it. DS is essentially a statistician, so will have calculated his DSis is high risk. It could be like when they were 6 and 4 and he had no desire to spend any time with his (then) irritating younger sister.

We are back in London tonight. Tree buying, Christmas cake making etc. We have never made a big thing of Christmas but I am really looking forward to having the family together.

Congratulations Xenia and Xenia daughter. Enjoy Christmas with a new generation.

Needmoresleep · 07/12/2021 08:47

Horsemad, congratulations on the graduation. DD met her cohort for the first time at her graduation but they then kindly invited her to a Halloween party, then pub drinks when she was back in London last weekend, which led to another party and a group outing. The hope now is that, since she can’t go overseas, she can do her elective in London.

Carrie Mac, I hope you have managed to get home. It is pretty wild here with the storm expected to peak at 1.00pm.

Horsemad · 07/12/2021 09:42

Thanks @Needmoresleep, it must be very strange for them, having had to do it all online but they've coped very well. 🙂

Safe journey @Carriemac - we're heading home this morning and it looks as if the weather's going to be more interesting the nearer we get to home... 🤨

Xenia · 07/12/2021 14:44

Difficult decisions for many over what to do and where to go and lots of people with different views. I have not had one night away from home since summer holiday 2019 so I suppose that at least is simple (summer 2020 and 2021 family holidays both cancelled by the holiday company).
Thanks for the congratulations. The new baby and my daughter are both doing well and had a lovely midwife at home yesterday who was helpful with breastfeeding and lots of milk is flowing so that's great. That was afer my daughter had had some kind of message email or text in pregnancy saying due to covid no home visits were being done - (which surprised me as new mothers need the odd check up at home with a new baby) so perhaps that was changed or it was a message from the GP or something.

Needmoresleep · 07/12/2021 14:50

Xenia, have you considered the Channel Islands.

Not that exciting, but it was sort of going away, and the testing (they gave you a kit at the airport and you had to test every two days) meant that things were relaxed with no masks or anything. Herm, in particular, was lovely, and the weather was better than mainland UK.

Xenia · 07/12/2021 17:04

That's a lovely idea. If I am not careful I will just get used to going nowhere which is the position m y parents ultimately took - their last trip abroad with us was when I was 15 and then we had a few in England until I was about 20 but they never had any holidays at all after that (away from home) other than a few nights near our houses in a hotel.

Eve · 10/12/2021 15:59

Congratulations on the new arrival Xenia and on the graduation and a wave to Carriemac as I’m in Ireland as well.

As we can work from home came over for 2 weeks and back tomorrow with a car full of tayto, club orange & soda bread. 😁

DS is now in Italy & there for Xmas having finished project in Slovenia - he thought Slovenia was a fab country, and said he would easily live there. Found it open & friendly, everyone really helpful & the towns all very picturesque.

DS2 is 2nd year Uni & currently with 200 others in way to France for Uni ski trip !! Am sure all will be fine - what could possibly go wrong! ShockHmmConfused

Xenia · 11/12/2021 20:27

My son had 2 brilliant Bristol university ski trips (both at Easter )and his twin went on one (2018 and 2019). I am glad students are now able to get back on them despite the pandemic.

Haffdonga · 11/12/2021 21:37

Ds has made a flying visit home today to pick up ski kit because he's made the decision he's going for it too because he can't get his money back if he cancels. Apparently they've arranged that the coach will stop at a same day test centre on arrival in the UK (on Christmas eve) so hopefully they'll be out of quarantine by Christmas Day. Ds is being supremely vague about plans or what would happen if he tests positive in France...

Apparently clubs etc are closed in the ski resorts so the après ski won't be quite the same but I'm sure they'll make their own entertainment. Smile

Carriemac · 11/12/2021 23:02

Hi @eve I flew back with a large SuperValu bag of goodies! I am very envious of the skiers - uni trips are such fun .

Eve · 12/12/2021 10:44

DS2 FaceTimed from slopes this morning after 2 hours sleep, he looked rough, slopes looked glorious with clear blue sky.

Nightclubs are banned , bars with music apparently not Hmm

Haffdonga · 12/12/2021 12:03

Nightclubs are banned , bars with music apparently not

Yes, quite Hmm @Eve

When is a club a bar with music and when is it a club? Almost as clear as our own Dear Leader's when is a party not-a-party .

Malbecfan · 12/12/2021 17:41

Hello again all. Just catching up with all the news.

Congratulations Xenia and Horsemad on the granddaughter and graduation.

DD1 is hoping to come home a week tomorrow. She has work commitments until Friday then her bf is going to meet her & collect her and take her stuff back to his parents' house. I am going to pick her up from there, as long as all the rules permit it. I am collecting DD2 on Tuesday. She is meant to be in Japan this year but isn't allowed to travel there so is working online. Her UK university rented her a room in a flat on a weekly basis but DD has had enough and decided she might as well be at home. I can't wait!

ErrolTheDragon · 12/12/2021 18:38

DD now has her Nice Sofa and has, as she expected, easily moved on the Shit Temporary Sofa.Grin

DH should be picking her up early in the week after next. Smile

Xenia · 12/12/2021 22:23

Thank you. We have been sent lots of lovely photos of the cutest baby on the planet (I am a bit biased....)

On the bars with music I expect those outside bars in the day with music playing are fine as that is outside whilst you drink in some ski resorts. I don't know when we will next go skiing - may be mid Jan 2022 just a few of us, may be. Last week this coming week for the twins of this term so they will be in law school for their usual 2 days a week and then break up (to revision for the January exams which are many more marks than the June ones so this is probably their key bit of the year to work very hard for the next month/over Christmas).

Needmoresleep · 14/12/2021 11:02

I believe you Xenia!

The outside bars at ski resorts can be interesting. We went to Val Thorens three years ago, the week before Christmas and the resort was full of students. The main slope bar/DJ was at the top of a tricky run. Easy to get there by chair lift, less easy to get back if you could not ski and had had quite a lot to drink. They tried though.

I hope the Nice Sofa is comfy.

Sadly with the escalating Covid, DS has decided not to come home in case he gets stuck. He should be back more the following year as his supervisor will be spending a sabbatical year in London and has agreed to supervise him from there (here). But still it is a long time. He had invited a couple of extras for Christmas lunch so we are down from 6 to three, and will skip the decorations. We might instead do something different and escape to my late mums old flat on the south coast, and have a blustery beach walk rather than the normal wander round the empty streets of Westminster. That is if London is not locked down.

Xenia · 14/12/2021 11:55

He probably made the right decision not to come back as could be hard if people are then trapped, same with the people who went to and came back from South Africa a week or two ago.

Our Christmas tree and crib etc are up today as it my birthday. I don't like it up until after my birthday and we keep it up until 6th Jan through to Epiphany. Twins are still waiting for one of their 4 subject mock results which is over due but have their last seminars of the 15 week term tomorrow and then it is revision through to the Jan final exams for those main subjects.

I have been sent a lovely birthday photo of the baby today with a sign in her cot wishing me a happy birthday (not that she knows what is going on as not even 2 weeks' old yet....) They have an appointment to register her birth this week, saw the other grandparents yesterday who had to travel to see the baby and the health visitor is coming for a first home visit today and my son in law goes back to work on Friday. I think having 2 weeks off was very helpful indeed.

I was just saying to my son now that the birth, my birthday and having the Christmas tree put up are all over it all feels more relaxed now and I got the birth announcement in the Times (and Telegraph as the other in laws read that one) last week (family tradition) so she is a famous baby, I was joking.

ErrolTheDragon · 14/12/2021 15:08

Doing something different on Xmas day can be a good change, especially if you're down on numbers.
Last year as DD didn't come home we didn't really bother at all. The year before we looked at the weather forecast deferred Xmas lunch and presents to Boxing Day, and took a picnic for a nice walk in the hills. Quite a lot of other people seemed to be doing likewise, lots of very cheery greetings.

I expect we'll get the tree etc down from the loft at the weekend.

bigTillyMint · 14/12/2021 16:43

@Needmoresleep, going away for Christmas sounds fab! Especially to the sea.

DD has her MSc diss mark - 75! I am so pleased for her as she worked really hard. Here’s hoping Bristol actually do the graduations as she hasn’t had her undergrad one from 2020 yet Hmm

Horsemad · 14/12/2021 22:09

Thank you Malbecfan 🙂

@bigTillyMint, Congratulations to your DD, bet she's happy with that. 🙂 I hope she gets the opportunity to graduate.

@Needmoresleep, disappearing to the seaside sounds a nice idea, I'd love to have Christmas at the coast.

ErrolTheDragon · 14/12/2021 22:16

Well done to your DD, BigTillyMint!

Xenia · 15/12/2021 08:40

My twins had a Bristol email asking them to complete a survey about a month ago about if they would attend an in person graduation and saying they would be in the Wills Memorial Hall as usual and in April 2022. They both replied and said yes and giving number of guests - I am sure Bristol is just getting an idea of numbers before fixing anything up however and we do not have a date as yet.

Xenia · 15/12/2021 08:41

(That is for those who "graduated" in summer 2020 from Bristol)

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