So in response to two posts.
How's DS (general thread question re: all DC's) coping? - surprising well. He's got mocks this week and so far, so good. He seems remarkably unstressed.
He's revising diligently but calmly iyswim.
Re: Durham DS is actually pretty annoyed by the amount of "spam" he's got from them.
Obviously the usual "we have your application" plus lots of other emails about the Uni and how good it is and asking to share/follow/like on social media
(as if it isn't stressful enough without the world knowing your Uni aspirations).
He's annoyed about it in the sense that sending that before they've made an offer is really "mean" (his word) the subtext being you can promote us on social media and (his thinking) is that part of the evaluation?
I actually agree with him that it's inappropriate before an offer.
On the positive of how to do it "right" DS got a lovely card (dare I say elegant and embossed) from Lancaster, congratulating him on his offer with a lovely inspiring (generic) message inside about how they choose their students and why they want "him".
It's a really nice touch and I'm really glad it's his 2nd choice and am (can I confess?) actually sure it would suit him better than Cambridge
(obviously not saying that to DS).