DD is about to start a second gap year. It’s been very much her choice, and it’s complicated by the fact she wants be an actor.
A history degree was the back up plan, but with the combination of covid restrictions and a subject with few teaching hours, limited access to libraries, social spaces, freshers events/societies etc, she feels she would prefer to wait another year, keep plugging away at auditions, and reapply for History in the autumn.
It was difficult at first last year as her local friends pretty much all went to uni, and her school friends from her performing arts school were spread across the country.
However, she joined some musical theatre classes, got a part time job, and reached out to people that she kind of knew but not very well, and within a couple of months she had developed a whole new friendship group to add to her other friends.
I think there can be a real fear of missing out or somehow falling behind if you choose not to go to uni straight away, but a year of mixing with friends who are taking apprenticeships and college courses rather than going down the university route has broadened DDs perspective and given her much more confidence about her choices.
So at the end of this very long post, I think all I really wanted to say is, don’t stress about an unplanned, non- ‘gap-yah’ year or two out of academia. It all just sort of falls into place