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Heading towards year 2 exams (uni 2017)

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brizzlemint · 21/03/2019 02:50

Starting uni 2017 continued.
Tales of radiators, errant boilers, tomatoes and potato mashers...oh and university students.

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emsiewill · 14/05/2019 12:50

A quick update on DD's rent for anyone who's interested.

I had a text from the new landlord saying that the rent was overdue and as guarantor they wanted me to pay it immediately or they would take legal action. As explained before, I can't risk anything like that, nor can DD so I got confirmation from the previous landlord that the new one was legit, and paid the rent to the new one (with my best Martin Lewis head on I paid them a small amount, waited for confirmation they had received it so I knew I had set it up correctly and then paid them the balance).

She's finished her 2nd year now, not moving out for about another month, as she is working up there. But I think she will be glad to see the back of the place, and hopefully her and her friends have learnt from it and will look a bit deeper than the surface in the future.

Thanks again for the advice I had from you all.

ErrolTheDragon · 14/05/2019 13:17

Glad it's resolved, albeit maybe not exactly as you might have wished.

Haffdonga · 14/05/2019 18:33

Good to hear the housing issue is sorted. As young adults' parents we're in a strange sort of limbo - still expected to help out when it comes to legal and financial grown up stuff but with no say at all in the decisions made to get them there. Wink

DS has finished his exams. He said one went terribly and they were asked about such obscure topics that he wouldn't have done any better even if he'd revised for 3 more months. The rest was 'bad to ok'. He's off on holiday to somewhere in France I think on Saturday unless it's a fail and he's stuck here for retakes.

Horsemad · 14/05/2019 19:18

Not much communication from DS - hopefully revising!

DH has now signed the guarantor agreement, so am assuming the photo of DS's birth cert was sufficient...

Year 2 almost done & dusted 😮

Xenia · 14/05/2019 22:13

emsie,that sounds at least it is out of the way and it was not a fake new landlord.

At last I am free of the 3 students including the 2 now free of their mumps...... At least they got essays submitted here and much else so was quite a useful work and rest break and back now for final essays and exams in the next few weeks. They should just be arriving back at Bristol now.

Malbecfan · 16/05/2019 18:19

Good news Xenia and Emsiewill. Latedecember, that sounds so soon!

DD1 is working hard. She had a project for part of her course which seems to have taken ages. However, the report came back with a first, and the viva exam on it was a slightly higher first so she is very happy. She is still rowing/coxing and has added some ad hoc cheerleading into the mix.

DD2 is also revising like crazy. Today I only had a bit of instrumental teaching so felt like I was on holiday as none of us were doing much before 8am. She is going in tomorrow to see her maths teacher as she is stressing over something in the next exam.

My D of E lot were mostly ok. I had another lot out last weekend. One kid didn't appear. The others told me he was in the USA. I gave out the dates at the start of the year and asked parents to let me know which ones they couldn't do. I heard nothing back from his parents. He emailed me at 3:10 on Saturday morning to say he wouldn't be there (no apology btw) - what a pity I don't sit up monitoring my work email address overnight at the weekend! He's back now, but there has still been no apology from him or his parents. Maybe I'm unrealistic but I think it's bloody rude. Thoughts please Hmm

ErrolTheDragon · 16/05/2019 19:03

Bloody rude, and downright inconsiderate - presumably this was distinctly unhelpful to the rest of his group, was it large enough for them to manage to redistribute the kit? (I'm assuming camping expedition ... I seem to remember DD and co doing quite careful thinking about who carried what)

Haffdonga · 16/05/2019 19:33

Unbelievable Malbec. I hope wonder if they paid a contribution that they wont get back.

Xenia · 16/05/2019 22:48

Not good at all not to tell you he could not make the D of E trip.

Horsemad · 16/05/2019 23:22

I concur - extremely rude!

Malbecfan · 19/05/2019 11:22

Thank you. Sometimes I wonder if my views are skewed compared to the rest of the world. Here at least we seem to be in agreement. The Head has agreed that they can't get anything back and is supporting my decisions, which is a pleasant change from his predecessor.

In other news DD1 managed to catch the 2nd half of the FA Cup final after attending a concert that one of our family friends was in. We went to Wembley for the semi-finals together in April before she went back . She also claimed to have been revising whilst watching Eurovision in the bar. I think she's back on the river today - let's hope the revising hasn't taken too much of a hit. At least she has another couple of weeks until the first exam. DD2 has AS Further Maths tomorrow then nothing until after half-term...

ErrolTheDragon · 19/05/2019 17:18

I'm having difficulty imagining how anyone could reasonably disagree with you on the DofE noshow!

Xenia · 21/05/2019 11:52

1st exam was apparently "very easy". I never know why he says that - he did it all the time with the A levels too - you are just setting yourself up for a fall if the marking is strict. Anyway at least it's better than his coming out of it in tears. Last essay due today and then another exam on Friday. Mumps has completely gone.

Eve · 21/05/2019 12:23

glad to hear all the mumps gone.

DS is heads down and working hard, last assignment to be handed in today before exams which start on 9th June with last one 19th!! ( Loughborough seems to start later and finish later than other unis)

He's then decided to join DH and I the following weekend at a wedding in Europe to which we were adding a few days at the beach - so much for DH and I having a break on our own for the 1st time in 20 years! Secretly I am pleased though as he starts his placement early July at the opposite end of the country so I wont see him much next year.

Cant believe its the end of year 2 already - seems only yesterday they were doing GCSEs and applying for unis.

ErrolTheDragon · 21/05/2019 13:54

DH somehow escaped all the ‘childhood ailments’ so he decided to ask if it would be a good idea to get vacc’d now. The nurse had had a daughter (I think late teen/young adult) very ill with mumps inc encephalitis despite having MMR as a child ... so she was firmly on the page of having the vacc, and getting another round for DD when she’s home. You can’t be over vaccinated, and if it makes you feel ill it’s because you’d lost immunity.

SMaCM · 21/05/2019 22:28

DD has exams 10th and 14th June, then her Summer ball, then a family holiday (with her DP). We saw her last weekend and we will be going to clean her out of her old flat and into her new house. When she moved last year, she was determined to do it all herself. This year she's happy to accept some extra hands (and a car).

bigTillyMint · 22/05/2019 08:50

DD finished yesterday and was out celebrating end of second year last night with coursemates. She's staying at uni to work/go to faculty ball and celebrate with friends doing different degrees....

Horsemad · 22/05/2019 11:36

DS has last exam on 3/6.

He's staying in his uni city for a couple of weeks afterwards and then home for the summer.

Haffdonga · 22/05/2019 18:16

Good luck to all the exam doers right now.

DS has messaged to say he has passed year 2 and so is a third of the way to being a doctor. Lord help us He learns his grades later but for now radio silence while he parties somewhere in France. Phew.

SMaCM · 22/05/2019 22:39

Haffdonga that's great news. It's hard to imagine them qualified and actually living their dream isn't it?

latedecember1963 · 23/05/2019 06:37

DS2 is halfway through his exams and seems calm so far. We keep reminding him he can only do his best, something we seem to have been saying forever, between him and his brother.
Well done to all those who have finished the year and let's hope we get some good weather for them to enjoy their summer.

Xenia · 23/05/2019 11:43

Mine are in the midst of exams at the moment. One just got a good mark in an essay so that's good news - it was the essay he was writing here when he was ill with mumps.

ErrolTheDragon · 23/05/2019 16:08

Great - so long as 'get ill and go home to mum' doesn't become his preferred study technique.Grin

Xenia · 24/05/2019 07:06

I don't think that will happen because liking being with friends. It was when he had to buy face masks, other people were worried about catching it, he and his friend's necks were very swollen and looked weird that I think he just wanted the time here. Also neither of them are ill much so I think we needn't worry too much about that and they are both staying for the weeks after exams until term officially ends in mid June anyway.

I have just had his call about funding the "deep clean" of the house which everyone wants done. i did suggest they could pull out beds and clean throughly (as I do myself at home) but that was apparently not a good solution. I suppose professional cleaners will do it better.

Needmoresleep · 24/05/2019 08:11

A deep clean is hard work. I have got caught out a couple of times by tenants thinking they could move and clean on the same day, leaving me to have to work overnight so that the place was presentable for tenants moving in the next day. Unless you are sure that everyone is on board and also knows what to do, it is worth getting someone in.

There is quite a lot of mould in DDs flat. She was the first to move in and it was filthy so we cleaned it. It suits us this time to be in Bristol for the couple of days before the end of the tenancy, so rather than risk losing the deposit (the landlord is odd but the flat was miraculously cheap and well located) she suggested to flatmates that they either move out a day earlier or join in the clean. One flatmate took up the offer and her mum, who is down to collect her things, will also join in, so it wont be too bad. Windows, and ovens take time, and a mouldy bathroom effectively needs to be scrubbed. No point in having a deep clean as the carpet has not been cleaned for decades, and would probably fall apart. it would certainly be a different colour.

I liked the Young Ones flat, though DH, who went to Oxford, was horrified. In my day students lived in squats, grotty halls, or seedy flats above shops, and this is no worse. Next year is a whole different proposition. A lovely flat with ultra organised landlords who will only let to medics. DD starts her clinical years so probably right she leaves student grot behind. Even though it seems to have been a really happy year.

Only one short practical exam, next week, and she is on the first year of her course so no one is sure what it will contain. It appears that she will be examined on the work she did this year at the end of next, so she has been revising everything anyway. She will be pleased when the humanities finish, as the library closures have meant a real struggle to find space.