I was just going to post a link to Roger Mosey's article in the New Statesman, but see that Oneteen beat me to it. He is the Master at DD1's college, and a really nice chap (bumped into him in the Co-op when stocking DD up with provisions last year).
DD2 is absolutely fine. One of her best friends was also rejected so they have consoled one another. However, someone who has been really awful to them over the last 3 years did get an offer, albeit from Newnham, when they applied elsewhere. However, this person identifies as gender fluid, so DD2 is gleefully anticipating what might transpire.
One thing that not getting an offer has done is to take the pressure off DD2. She has mocks coming up and was getting herself all stressed about Further Maths. She has an unconditional if firmed offer from one (non RG but still decent) place and a very "gettable" offer from Warwick for which she doesn't need FM. She has realised that the Cambridge door closing is not the end of the world, but is an opportunity to explore elsewhere. She and I are both more optimistic about life than DH - stands her in good stead.
I'm happy to join in a "mums of those who didn't make it" thread, but equally having one DD at Cambridge, also willing to pass on anything useful if people need it. Best of luck to all our DC (and lots of
and
as we're going to need it!)