So much to unpack here! AlwaysTeaTime I’m glad you were able to unearth some stats, because I’m a Univ alum, and God knows I love her dearly, but I would have never accused the place of being ‘pro-state achool’, or if it was, no one told admissions!
Univ is great because, with the best will in the world, it doesn’t have an overriding strong identity eg St Edmund Hall rugger buggers, or Balliol super leftie, or Jesus College Welsh. It’s just a very amiable place where people can get on without having to subscribe to any particular clique should they not wish to.
GfordMum101 I am sorry your DC didn’t gel with the interviewing tutor, but Magdalen is a kickass college (and is still one of the high street gang!) so things worked out.
Coleoptera, I don’t know how much has changed since I applied 17 years ago, but my GCSEs, were fairly indifferent (4 A, 4 A’s and a B) and I went to Tonbridge (by no means a leading public school academically, but still with high quality teaching) so if we’re talking context, I was pretty substandard compared to all the people on subject open days with 11, 12, 13 A at GCSE. I was still offered an interview, and awarded a place. Your DCs’ school’s position absolutely infuriates me - unless a student got all Bs, Cs, Ds at GCSE (and therefore is likely to struggle at higher levels), I don’t see why a school wouldn’t support them applying. ‘They’ll not get a look in’? Get to fuck.
On a related note, Oxbridge is not looking for all rounders. If you’ve not had a chance, look through the 2018 Oxbridge thread, as it’s brought up a few times. They are looking for people passionate about their subject. The English tutor does not care one iota about a student’s maths ability, or if they can speak foreign languages.