Congratulations to those posters and their DC who received offers, and commiserations to those who did not. I was in your shoes last year and completely understand where you are coming from!
2 comments to make. Firstly Cambridge colleges: DD1 was really terrified about being pooled to either Girton (too far) or Murray Edwards (all girls). She was pooled elsewhere. We went last February to see the offer college and met up with a girl from school who was in her 3rd year at ME. She said what a wonderful place it was, how happy she was and how much she was enjoying it. One of DD's classmates was pooled to ME and was apprehensive so I passed this on to her, along with an invitation to contact the 3rd year. The classmate has had a very happy first term there. Secondly, yes, Girton is out of the city But as others have said, the centre is a nightmare! Cambridge is flat, there are loads of cyclists and nothing is very far away (apart from Devon!) One of DD's orchestra friends from home is at Girton and loving it. He actually relishes having the more tranquil surroundings. Their 2 colleges do share some activities so they have got together a few times last term, which I am pleased about.
For those whose youngsters are not going to be right in the middle of the city, I have to be honest and say that it makes dropping them off so much easier. There is some parking at DD's college; it took an hour to load the car for her visit home for Christmas and there was plenty of parking space.
Finally, the comment from the Head of Year was, at best, insensitive. However, as a teacher, you do develop a sense of who might get an offer, especially when you know the group well. Last year, I called all but one application correctly for DD's year on the way to school. She named all the kids and I said yes or no. I was only wrong on one of them - she was horrified when I said "no" about one of her good friends, but I was right. He re-applied this year and again did not get an offer, but is going to a wonderful course elsewhere, so we are all happy for him. This year's crop I know less well but again, one that everyone was saying would "get in no problem" didn't. I have known this child since year 7 and think that they flatter to deceive, so predicted a rejection. Maybe I should play the lottery again...!