stonecircle I think you are reading something into my comments that isn't there. I wouldn't touch the loans with a bargepole; having been through the system myself for my PGCE (and I didn't start paying interest until the April after I'd passed the course). Other people would turn up their nose at my second hand car, not going on holiday twice a year, and not having SKY/ a massive flatscreen TV/ a smartphone etc, so we all have things that we perceive others as being 'scathing' about.
I do think that a lot of those who want to go to uni should think long and hard about it, as I would argue that not everyone who applies and gets in is capable at that point of doing a degree. Out of the sixth formers I taught I wouldn't have classed 50% of capable of going and getting a respectable degree. Some of those shouldn't even have been doing A levels imo.
The IHT point is that I was told that monies used to fund ds trough uni would have to be treated as a gift and included in any IHT calculations. Having checked, that isn't the case. I bet lots of people are sitting on considerable property wealth in the SE (not in my part of the UK though) and might find that useful information. It's another thing to consider.
My dh is retired from his original career, but an opportunity offered that meant we could get ds through uni without loans; we would have been fools not to grab it. The mortgage is still there, but will soon be gone, and we can return to the UK with dh retired, and ds through uni without loans. My db could have funded his eldest, but chose not to, but helped with rent, so different choices for different people.
If I were offered a loan on the terms of the SLC from a bank, I wouldn't touch it, as the goalposts can change at the whim of politicians. If it were a mortgage style loan, without compound interest, and you knew what the repayments would be, then that would be different. I am wary that parts of the loan book have been sold off, and I do wonder if the write off at 30 years plus will continue.
Had ds gone to uni when the fees were £3k, I wouldn't have been as worried, as we would have saved and paid them when he left. His fees were £9k, so we effectively didn't pay the mortgage off early as we had hoped.