peterenas, I totally agree with the sentiment, which is exactly what I said about my DD, however I don't agree that there is nothing to gain from open days information wise that isn't available on the internet. I was told some info from a mother taking her child to an open day that despite my intensive research on the internet, just wasn't there to see. I can't remember what it was specifically (information overload!) but I do remember that it excluded that school from consideration and even when I looked again for that info online, it wasn't anywhere to read.
So for that purpose, I think it could be very helpful. DD has narrowed her choice down to 6 with 2 certain because we strongly believe she has her best chance of an interview there. We haven't visited any of them because of our workload and just not having the time. I work FT in a demanding job and my week-ends have been packed all summer. DD is working every Saturdays at the nursing home and volunteering every other Sundays.
I did consider going to Bristol open day, but it was on the same day than the BMAT! Looked at going afterwards, but there were no more slots for the time we would have been able to get there. I don't regret it, it would have been a long exhausting day.
In a way, we have found that not being the top applicant with all top results made it easier as the restriction is made for DD! She still has a reasonable chance of an offer, just limited to fewer places, which is fine since you can only pick 4 anyway!
I personally think that parents/students who have gone to open days have been very considerate to share the information they learned there and for that I am grateful. They don't have to do that. I do feel that as parents of medicine applicants, we should support each other as we are all in it together. Some will get in, some won't, but we will all have gone through the stress of supporting our children through the application process so we understand each other :)