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Uni Freshers 2016 (second thread)

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soapybox · 13/10/2016 12:27

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GasLightShining · 10/12/2016 21:48

Washing machine is most definitely on here too!!!

Leeds2 · 10/12/2016 22:13

Glad he's home safely, Ellen!

Naughtytummy · 10/12/2016 22:16

Another week to go for my two, busy last few weeks informal ball and a formal ball. House sorted for next year, now what to bring home to be washed!
Can't wait till next Saturday Smile

EllenJanethickerknickers · 10/12/2016 23:10

Thank you, dunlurking and Leeds. Christmas tree shopping tomorrow as it was too late when we got home. The weather was horrid.

I've given DS my least favourite task of matching up his clean socks, gas.

Christmas balls sound fun Naughty. DS has a maths ball in January I think. Maybe his star suit will get another outing! Grin Star

hellsbells99 · 10/12/2016 23:14

Another one back here Smile
Picked DD2 up today. DD1 also back for the night to decorate the Xmas tree but she still has another week of uni to go.

dottygamekeeper · 11/12/2016 18:29

DD back on the train, with her bike and a really heavy bag (reminds me of the time I went home from uni with a really heavy rucksack, fell flat on my face on a platform at Kings Cross, and was pinned to the floor by the weight, had to be helped up by other passengers). She has turned into a blonde bombshell having decided (in a drunken moment) to bleach her hair! Lovely to have her back, she has just texted all the people she used to babysit for, and has now lined up several days and evenings babysitting.

DS should now be in Val Thorens on the uni ski trip, though I have not heard anything from him. I imagine the coach journey from Cornwall, to Dover, and then to VT was somewhat tedious! He will be back next Saturday and I am looking forward to us all being together again.

GasLightShining · 11/12/2016 22:34

Ellen - DS's are either back or white so not much matching involved!

He has been working all weekend and has another shift in the week. I am so keeping my fingers crossed he gets more

On the plus side he will be available to pick me up form my Christmas lunch!

raspberryrippleicecream · 14/12/2016 08:00

DS came home yesterday for a whirlwind visit and should be arriving back at uni as I type. He came up for the school Presentation evening and formal celebration.

DH is picking him up on Friday, but he thoughtfully brought me a bag of washing 'so I could make a start'!

OhFuds · 14/12/2016 10:08

DD is home today, I've got her favourite dinner and cheesecake in for tonight as I know she won't have had it since her last visit which was October

placeofworkshop · 16/12/2016 21:27

Dd home a few days ago, enjoyed seeing BF , but bit of an anticlimax friend wise, the ones who are back are busy with family & the ones who have stayed in home town are busy with jobs. That and Jan exams looming, been a bitSad today

homebythesea · 17/12/2016 09:02

I collected a car load of laundry DS yesterday. He spent the whole journey prattling about how much he loves it, how lovely everyone is and how perfect the course. He then later referred to Uni city as "home". So pretty good term I'd say 😀

jaxxyj · 17/12/2016 20:38

DS is back! I kind of regretted the 90p megabus when it was delayed and I had to pick him up at 12.30 , he was starving so we stopped off for chips then stayed up til 2! He's done his own washing today. He's now out to a gig then a party and probably won't be back tonight. We went out for lunch with my mum and then did the charity shops. DD last exam 21st so will be back then - at least the washing is staggered. Looking forward to having the four of us together but really not organised for it yet!

Leeds2 · 22/12/2016 20:38

Got my DD back this morning. Made a bit of a fool of myself at the airport, but I was soon glad to see her again!

She is out overnight tonight at a school friend's ........ I believe four of them will be here overnight tomorrow.

EllenJanethickerknickers · 23/12/2016 15:57

Glad everyone seems to be safely home (along with their washing!) DS has enjoyed meeting up with home friends, Scout ones, old sixth formers and his old school friends as well. Quite a few aren't at uni, either doing filler jobs, proper jobs or local college courses. I can imagine that those who are away from home, like him, will have the most in common in a few years as those who have stayed locally will be moving on with their (social) lives. But for this holiday, at least, there have been lots of happy reunions.

The girlfriend is girlfriend no more, though. DS doesn't seem particularly devastated, luckily. It was such a new relationship and to be starting it just before making it long distance was just pushing it too far. I'm not too bothered either, I'd rather he throws himself into student life without having to think about his responsibilities to a rarely seen girlfriend, TBH.

I had two young men staying the night in our front room last night, or more accurately, this morning as they rolled in at 4am, fairly quietly and well behaved. DS isn't quite used to having to share his plans with me so we have had a few words about giving me advance warning and actually asking before volunteering my house to crash in. I'm generally pretty easygoing about having friends around or DS staying out late or crashing at friends, but only so long as I know! He's getting better...

Leeds2 · 23/12/2016 18:32

I have three staying over tonight, Ellen, but I was pre warned!

bevelino · 23/12/2016 21:02

I have 15 girls sleeping over with dd tonight. Dd is on a gap year but all uní friends delighted to see her and all in their jim jams watching television upstairs, lots of laughing and omg's and eating chocolates until the cows come home.

EllenJanethickerknickers · 23/12/2016 21:09

Wow, bevelino, I wouldn't have floor space for 5 let alone 15!

Pre warned is fine, Leeds, they are actually lovely boys, but I would have done a bit of hoovering!

bevelino · 23/12/2016 21:16

Ellen all the girls will be sleeping on floor of dd's room, the landing and anywhere else they can find space. The girls are having great fun and are looking forward to watching horror films later tonight. Plenty of shrieking and screaming ahead.

Leeds2 · 23/12/2016 21:38

I think it is lovely that they keep in touch with their "old" friends. Of the four we have here tonight, two are at uni and two are on gap years and it is lovely to hear them exchanging stories as though they had last seen each other yesterday! Lots of shrieking though!

They won't notice the lack of hoovering Ellen, although I would feel the same!

hellsbells99 · 29/12/2016 00:42

Hello all. I hope you have all had a good Christmas. Is anyone else half wishing their DCs were back at university? My two have gone out to celebrate a friend's birthday. I have since had a text asking me to leave a key hidden - they went out together but have now split off with different friends ....and only taken 1 key. At least when they are away at uni, I am not lying awake waiting for them to come home! DH has gone to sleep in the spare room as he has to be up for an early flight tomorrow....and they have been warned to come in very quietly.
Both DCs have been doing some work for their January exams and both now have secured houses for next year.

DollyPlastic · 29/12/2016 09:51

I had forgotten the joys of laying awake wondering what time DS will be home.

On the other hand, I'm really enjoying him being home and think I might keep him Xmas Grin

Squirrills · 29/12/2016 10:29

Another one who prefers the bliss of ignorance. While DS is at uni I don't know whether he is out or safely tucked up in bed.
He's been catching up with friends who have stayed at home or gone off to different unis.
He has a full week of exams when term starts and is going back early next week to knuckle down to revision. He's been ill most of the time at home, a nasty flu bug which knocked him flat, then he just got rid of that and has another cold.

hellsbells99 · 29/12/2016 10:44

Dolly - you can have mine too!
Squirrills - hope your DS is feeling better soon.
Both DDs did eventually make it home and are both still asleep. I did find one of their male friends asleep my sofa this morning but he left a couple of hours ago.

marymoocow · 03/01/2017 18:34

Just taken DS1 back. Christmas is officially over, and the house is empty and quiet Sad. He seemed a bit daunted about going back too, as his flatmates won't be back until next week.

Leeds2 · 03/01/2017 19:21

My DD doesn't go back until 15th, but she didn't break up until much later than most (22nd Dec). House is going to be very quiet without her.

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