Just sticking my head in here to say good luck to everyone.
Unbeliveably it's 5 years since I was lurking here hoping my DD1 would get a place somewhere: She went to a bog standard comprehensive school (at one interview she discovered she was the only state school student in the group!)
wore what she liked to interview (still somewhat Goth at that stage
but in a Jack Wills meets eyeliner kind of a way)and this summer will qualify and become an F1... hopefully (she will find out in March) in the Devon and Cornwall NHS trust as she has become a proper surfer over her 5 years at Peninsula!
It's been a wild ride..and at times not easy for her.. not academically or professionally, where she has aced every assessment and test, but emotionally and mentally..tough, as she battled anorexia in her first distressingly homesick first year (came home weighing 5 stone 9 and she's 5 ft 10!)..and won, battled anxiety... medicated! But she knew that medicine was the only thing she ever wanted (from 4 years of age!!) and she loves it. She is currently on her final GP placement with her own consulting room,treats, makes referrals and only has signing off for prescriptions as the pharmacology exam is later this year...
The 5 years has changed her. She's not the madcap, superbright happy go lucky kid she was at 18. She's now wiser for her difficult experiences, so much more realistic about life and people... but she hasn't once lost her love for what she is doing.
Incidentally she said that nothing at med school has been any tougher academcially than A levels... you just have to be able to remember everything and apply it every time. She has ADHD and Dyslexia but the former has been very useful in a weird way as she can stay awake all night, bounce from patient to patient without ever finding it tedious, and has fabulous patient feedback (yes it matters!) She will be specialising in trauma (A+E basically) as she loves the variety.
The medics community are different.. no doubt about it. Whenever I spend time with DD1 and her friends I am awed by their intelligence, passion and fabulously sick sense of humour (goes with the job I guess!) I look at her and still think 'my little girl' (she's 23 now!) but then take another look and realise that the outside world sees an emerging professional who has worked her ass off to get there.
Good luck to all of your kids.. it is absolutely worth every second of the stress you and they, are under now...