The OU has no a University life though. I think it would be really sad for an 18 year old to study like this. Where are the parties, the coffee shops, the music, the celebrations, sharing a flat, the laughter, deadlines looming and the 24 hour library opening and not to mention the student experience away from home? Yes, you get a degree but there are other student elements that are clearly missing.
30/40 grand ish for tuition, plus all the other thousands for housing/food etc over 3/4 years.... is quite a high price for the sake of that experience.
I haven't crossed English unis off the list of options yets (DS is only 13), but realistically that sort of debt has to offer more than "the uni experience" to make it worth it.
Going to study at a uni in the Netherlands (they are offering increasing numbers of courses taught in English) makes more sense if we have enough money upfront to fund it. Looking recently tuition is generally around the 2 grand a year mark.
If we can't fund that then OU while living at home may be the only realistic option. His friends will all be still at home as well (just how it works here in the country where we live, it's more unusual for students to study far from their nearest city).
But then if he doesn't "bloom" academically ... I have discovered your higher apprenticeships. They seem to ask for 2 A levels, but their case study examples all have three. No mention of grades or subjects. There are lots in the areas he is interested (at the moment, at 13 there is plenty of time for that to change). They work for three years while studying part time (OU seems to be a popular choice for the study element of the apprenticeship) so they get hands on experience and work towards a higher qualification.
I don't believe it is as straight forward a choice as it used to be. The debt the kids get saddled with is enourmous. The degree gained has to offer significant employment/earning potential in its own right, becuase with the best will in the world the "uni experience" costs many tens of thousands of pretty pennies.
God knows how much it will cost in four years time when DS is at crunch time. Or if there will be any funding via student loans at all by then.