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Guest post: ''Contraception is in chaos – and we need action and answers''

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NicolaDMumsnet · 09/06/2023 11:12

Kate Muir

Kate Muir is the producer of Davina McCall’s Pill Revolution, and the maker of two menopause documentaries for Channel 4. She is a campaigner on women’s health, and is researching a book, Everything You Need to Know About the Pill (but were too afraid to ask), out next January.

Contraception is in chaos in the UK. Women are coming off the pill in droves, and turning to high-risk cycle-tracking apps for birth control – with mixed results. Meanwhile, waiting lists for the coil are a crazed postcode lottery, as women queue for appointments for over a year in parts of Northern Ireland and Devon, and six months in some rural areas. Pills are free from doctors, plus the progesterone-only pill is available over the counter in pharmacies, but that is clearly not providing women with the contraception they really want. Unplanned pregnancies are rocketing, and the abortion rate is at its highest ever in England since the 1967 act came in. What’s going wrong?

I started investigating contraception after my student daughter became depressed for months on the combined progestin and estrogen pill, Microgynon. That and Rigevidon are the bog-standard, older, cheaper pills often used by the NHS. We all thought lockdown was making my daughter depressed – and then she came off the pill and her mood improved within weeks. A month later, her world had gone from black and white into colour again.

I was annoyed with myself for not linking mood to hormones – after all, I’d researched two films and a book on menopause. It took me a while to remember I, too, had been on Microgynon as a student for a few years, and it made me feel a bit flat. I also realised after I stopped Microgynon that it had lowered my libido. Yet here we were, over thirty years later, still using the same old pills made from synthetic hormones. Why hadn’t they improved? Why weren’t women being given contraceptive pills with better body-identical hormones like the ones for HRT in menopause? Why was no-one taking the side-effects seriously?

We commissioned a UK survey of 4,000 diverse women for the Davina McCall The Pill Revolution documentary, and discovered that women felt they had been gaslighted for years about the pill – 77% said they had suffered side effects, and a third had come off the pill because of anxiety or depression. And 21% had lowered libido. Overall, 57% said they were worried about the possible effects of hormonal contraception on their mental health. And half of those who had considered the coil were scared to get it because they feared pain on fitting.

There was one more problem: younger women were getting fed stories on TikTok that sometimes exaggerated the risks of hormonal contraception. Meanwhile, the Natural Cycles app – which gives ‘green’ and ‘red’ days for having sex, depending on dates and temperature - was endorsed by Love Islanders and influencers, but has a 7% failure rate in typical use.

It’s clear we all need to take action. Years of cuts to local authority sexual health and reproduction clinics have meant longer waiting lists, and we know doctor’s appointments can be as rare as hen’s teeth. GPs no longer seem to have time or incentives to do coil fittings, which take longer than a ten-minute appointment, and the training to fit coils needs to be regularly updated at their own expense. The government says the new plans for Women’s Health Hubs will help – but the £25 million works out at less than a pound per fertile woman.

So what needs to be done?

Access: cut waiting lists for coils. Hormonal coils are 99% effective, last for over five years, lessen periods and the new smaller ones like the Kyleena and Jaydess can more easily be fitted in women who haven’t had children. The copper coil is also a good choice for women who want to avoid hormones. GPs have to pay for training in coil fitting

Choice: allow better choices of contraceptive pills. Women should be encouraged to change their pill and not soldier on for months with side effects. Each progestin has different effects, and some are more expensive, so NHS regulations make it hard to prescribe the new, better-tolerated combined pills with body-identical estrogen like Zoely, Qlaira and Drovelis, because they cost up to £8 a month compared to £1 for the bog-standard synthetic pills. Women should also be taught which pills are estrogenic or androgenic in their effect. It’s not one pill fits all.

Education: schools need to deepen contraceptive knowledge. Schools need to teach contraception in depth, and make sure every teenager knows to double fact-check anything they read on Tiktok.

Safety: read the small print on cycle-tracking apps. Women are keen to avoid putting synthetic hormones into their bodies, and the Natural Cycles app is 98% effective with ‘perfect’ use, but has a 7% failure rate with ‘typical’ use.

Fast-track research: there’s a male testosterone-progestin contraceptive gel being trialled in the UK now, with good initial results. There’s a melt-away gel vasectomy being tested in Australia, and a new non-hormonal sperm-barrier cervical gel is going to human trials in the USA next year. Governments and pharmaceutical companies need to fast-track this research – after all, women have had the pill for 60 years, and men have had nothing but condoms and vasectomies. It’s time they shared the birth control burden.

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Guest post: ''Contraception is in chaos – and we need action and answers''
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Costco121 · 26/06/2023 09:27

Can not beat cycle tracking and condoms- if you want kids one day.

Messing around with synthetic hormones for men or women isnt solution, women have problems with pills because synthethic hormones and as if men are not going to find same issue with PROGESTIN lol and add on top of that soya which is everywhere, give it couple of decades it will be a lottery win to find a man who can fertilize a woman.

mycoffeecup · 26/06/2023 12:09

Middlelanehogger · 26/06/2023 07:27

Why do young women need to be "educated" into believing that taking synthetic hormones for their entire 20s/30s is normal?

What is 'normal' is for women to be pregnant or breastfeeding for most of their reproductive lives, and so to have far fewer periods in a lifetime than a modern woman using condoms. Therefore stopping ovulation is arguably more natural than using condoms.

Middlelanehogger · 26/06/2023 18:20

Sorry, not going to be convinced that artificial hormones are actually natural.

I feel so much more connected with myself since stopping hormonal contraception. So much more sexual desire and so much more aware of my cycle and emotions and body.

Also so much more thoughtful about who I sleep with. Both because I'm more conscious of the risk of pregnancy and because I'm listening to what my body is telling me, instead of deadening my hormonal instincts about the man I'm with. Which I cannot think is a bad thing.

mycoffeecup · 26/06/2023 18:32

Middlelanehogger · 26/06/2023 18:20

Sorry, not going to be convinced that artificial hormones are actually natural.

I feel so much more connected with myself since stopping hormonal contraception. So much more sexual desire and so much more aware of my cycle and emotions and body.

Also so much more thoughtful about who I sleep with. Both because I'm more conscious of the risk of pregnancy and because I'm listening to what my body is telling me, instead of deadening my hormonal instincts about the man I'm with. Which I cannot think is a bad thing.

Fine, that's up to you. You're foregoing the 50% drop in ovarian cancer that you get with 10+ years of the pill, plus the other benefits in terms of period control etc, but of course it's entirely your decision what you do with your own body.

But if you're only using condoms then you are putting yourself at an unnecessarily high risk of pregnancy.

capricorn12 · 27/06/2023 09:58

Another issue is the refusal of continued prescribing of the pill past a certain age. My GP refused to give me the pill at 41 and there was pressure from him for me to have a coil fitted which I didn't want and this resulted in an unwanted pregnancy. After the birth of my 'bonus' child I asked if I could be sterilised and was told that this wasn't a service that was provided anymore by my NHS Trust as they feel it's better that my husband has a vasectomy (cheaper for them I assume) but as he didn't want to do this and I would never force him to, I'm still playing conception roulette at nearly 50.
I think that the idea that women's fertility drops off a cliff after 35 it clearly not true for everyone and don't get me started on access to abortion... that's a whole other thread.

mycoffeecup · 27/06/2023 12:18

capricorn12 · 27/06/2023 09:58

Another issue is the refusal of continued prescribing of the pill past a certain age. My GP refused to give me the pill at 41 and there was pressure from him for me to have a coil fitted which I didn't want and this resulted in an unwanted pregnancy. After the birth of my 'bonus' child I asked if I could be sterilised and was told that this wasn't a service that was provided anymore by my NHS Trust as they feel it's better that my husband has a vasectomy (cheaper for them I assume) but as he didn't want to do this and I would never force him to, I'm still playing conception roulette at nearly 50.
I think that the idea that women's fertility drops off a cliff after 35 it clearly not true for everyone and don't get me started on access to abortion... that's a whole other thread.

Impossible to know from the info given if that was a correct decision - being over 40 is a relative contraindication, but if there are other issues such as weight, smoking or medical conditions then it can be come an absolutely contraindication for the combined pill.

Vasectomy has a failure rate orders of magnitude less than female sterilisation - yes it's cheaper, but it isn't just the money.

JenniferBooth · 27/06/2023 14:44

@capricorn12 So they will sterilize the man but not the woman. Thats discrimination. Did they offer the Mini Pill or would you not want that?

mycoffeecup · 27/06/2023 15:30

JenniferBooth · 27/06/2023 14:44

@capricorn12 So they will sterilize the man but not the woman. Thats discrimination. Did they offer the Mini Pill or would you not want that?

It's not discrimination

They will pay for an effective and cheap procedure
They won't pay for one which is significantly more expensive, has more risk of side-effects and a higher failure rate

That's how decisions get made in healthcare services.
If female sterilisation was the better and cheaper procedure it would be the other way round

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