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Guest post: ''Contraception is in chaos – and we need action and answers''

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NicolaDMumsnet · 09/06/2023 11:12

Kate Muir

Kate Muir is the producer of Davina McCall’s Pill Revolution, and the maker of two menopause documentaries for Channel 4. She is a campaigner on women’s health, and is researching a book, Everything You Need to Know About the Pill (but were too afraid to ask), out next January.

Contraception is in chaos in the UK. Women are coming off the pill in droves, and turning to high-risk cycle-tracking apps for birth control – with mixed results. Meanwhile, waiting lists for the coil are a crazed postcode lottery, as women queue for appointments for over a year in parts of Northern Ireland and Devon, and six months in some rural areas. Pills are free from doctors, plus the progesterone-only pill is available over the counter in pharmacies, but that is clearly not providing women with the contraception they really want. Unplanned pregnancies are rocketing, and the abortion rate is at its highest ever in England since the 1967 act came in. What’s going wrong?

I started investigating contraception after my student daughter became depressed for months on the combined progestin and estrogen pill, Microgynon. That and Rigevidon are the bog-standard, older, cheaper pills often used by the NHS. We all thought lockdown was making my daughter depressed – and then she came off the pill and her mood improved within weeks. A month later, her world had gone from black and white into colour again.

I was annoyed with myself for not linking mood to hormones – after all, I’d researched two films and a book on menopause. It took me a while to remember I, too, had been on Microgynon as a student for a few years, and it made me feel a bit flat. I also realised after I stopped Microgynon that it had lowered my libido. Yet here we were, over thirty years later, still using the same old pills made from synthetic hormones. Why hadn’t they improved? Why weren’t women being given contraceptive pills with better body-identical hormones like the ones for HRT in menopause? Why was no-one taking the side-effects seriously?

We commissioned a UK survey of 4,000 diverse women for the Davina McCall The Pill Revolution documentary, and discovered that women felt they had been gaslighted for years about the pill – 77% said they had suffered side effects, and a third had come off the pill because of anxiety or depression. And 21% had lowered libido. Overall, 57% said they were worried about the possible effects of hormonal contraception on their mental health. And half of those who had considered the coil were scared to get it because they feared pain on fitting.

There was one more problem: younger women were getting fed stories on TikTok that sometimes exaggerated the risks of hormonal contraception. Meanwhile, the Natural Cycles app – which gives ‘green’ and ‘red’ days for having sex, depending on dates and temperature - was endorsed by Love Islanders and influencers, but has a 7% failure rate in typical use.

It’s clear we all need to take action. Years of cuts to local authority sexual health and reproduction clinics have meant longer waiting lists, and we know doctor’s appointments can be as rare as hen’s teeth. GPs no longer seem to have time or incentives to do coil fittings, which take longer than a ten-minute appointment, and the training to fit coils needs to be regularly updated at their own expense. The government says the new plans for Women’s Health Hubs will help – but the £25 million works out at less than a pound per fertile woman.

So what needs to be done?

Access: cut waiting lists for coils. Hormonal coils are 99% effective, last for over five years, lessen periods and the new smaller ones like the Kyleena and Jaydess can more easily be fitted in women who haven’t had children. The copper coil is also a good choice for women who want to avoid hormones. GPs have to pay for training in coil fitting

Choice: allow better choices of contraceptive pills. Women should be encouraged to change their pill and not soldier on for months with side effects. Each progestin has different effects, and some are more expensive, so NHS regulations make it hard to prescribe the new, better-tolerated combined pills with body-identical estrogen like Zoely, Qlaira and Drovelis, because they cost up to £8 a month compared to £1 for the bog-standard synthetic pills. Women should also be taught which pills are estrogenic or androgenic in their effect. It’s not one pill fits all.

Education: schools need to deepen contraceptive knowledge. Schools need to teach contraception in depth, and make sure every teenager knows to double fact-check anything they read on Tiktok.

Safety: read the small print on cycle-tracking apps. Women are keen to avoid putting synthetic hormones into their bodies, and the Natural Cycles app is 98% effective with ‘perfect’ use, but has a 7% failure rate with ‘typical’ use.

Fast-track research: there’s a male testosterone-progestin contraceptive gel being trialled in the UK now, with good initial results. There’s a melt-away gel vasectomy being tested in Australia, and a new non-hormonal sperm-barrier cervical gel is going to human trials in the USA next year. Governments and pharmaceutical companies need to fast-track this research – after all, women have had the pill for 60 years, and men have had nothing but condoms and vasectomies. It’s time they shared the birth control burden.

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Guest post: ''Contraception is in chaos – and we need action and answers''
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Coffeelotsofcoffee · 25/06/2023 18:04

I always laugh at the effort I put into contraception in my teens and 20s.
The £££ I spent on the morning after pill.

All of it a waste of time. Turns out I was as barren as a dry salt lake.
10 years of IVF and I finally have my son.

Tbh there's a huge proportion of women out there that have never and will never need contraception.
And sadly your teenage daughter today is more likely to need fertility treatment one day than ever deal with an accidental pregnancy.

JenniferBooth · 25/06/2023 18:06

@Coffeelotsofcoffee Trouble is you dont find that out unless you actually try to conceive and people who are child free by choice dont try so will never know

WakeMeUpWhenGoodOmensIsBack · 25/06/2023 18:21

Coffeelotsofcoffee · 25/06/2023 18:04

I always laugh at the effort I put into contraception in my teens and 20s.
The £££ I spent on the morning after pill.

All of it a waste of time. Turns out I was as barren as a dry salt lake.
10 years of IVF and I finally have my son.

Tbh there's a huge proportion of women out there that have never and will never need contraception.
And sadly your teenage daughter today is more likely to need fertility treatment one day than ever deal with an accidental pregnancy.

Roughly one in three women in the UK currently have an abortion during their lifetime - and that's without adding the women who have an unwanted pregnancy but don't have an abortion. That's significantly more than the number who will need fertility treatment.

MedSchoolRat · 25/06/2023 20:16

tbh, I'm more worried about the casual attitude of the Youf towards STIs and having unprotected sex in general.

nottoday300 · 25/06/2023 20:43

It's a nightmare isn't it ! I'm 50 at the end of the year, I've had the depo for more years than I probably should, so my nurse is saying going forward I won't be able to have it ok.. so I've Crohn's so that cuts out the pill, two of my colleagues have had there coils dug out! Don't fancy the implant at all soo I've asked Gp to sterilise me which I'm still waiting for a reply ! Other half won't have the snip( I know I know) not that we are at it like rabbits but still, it get worse doesn't it !

JenniferBooth · 25/06/2023 21:25

You are probably still waiting for a reply because the GP knows that they cant very well say that a 50 year old woman doesnt know her own mind lol
Im 50 on the Mini Pill and have IBS

nottoday300 · 25/06/2023 21:31

@JenniferBooth I've gone down another rabbit hole of maybe taking the mini pill at night they DONT recommend the pill for Crohn's due to it not absorbing properly I don't know what to do to be honest plus I've got high blood pressure, my niece has just had a baby and I was telling her I said at this rate I'll be joining you at soft play!!! 😂😂

mycoffeecup · 25/06/2023 21:32

Sigh. This sort of work is valuable, but there's so much misinformation.

Women should be encouraged to change their pill and not soldier on for months with side effects.
Yes of course women can change if they get a side-effect, but actually a large number of side-effects settle on their own in the first 3 months. If you change at the slightest hint of a problem, you might be left with no options. This is the case for some meds other than contraceptives too.

The copper coil is also a good choice for women who want to avoid hormones
Actually, drilling down into the reason why the woman wants to avoid hormones is a better place to start. If there are genuine reasons then yes, a copper IUCD can help. But in the vast majority of cases I find that the reasons are urban myths found on the internet. Lots of copper IUCDs come out early because they tend to cause heavy, painful and prolonged bleeding, so they are generally a last resort.

Women are keen to avoid putting synthetic hormones into their bodies
Again we should be educating women on why this is often an unnecessary worry, the absolute risks compared to things like crossing the road, and the benefits of hormonal contraception such as the massive reduction in ovarian cancer with combined pill use

Meanwhile, waiting lists for the coil are a crazed postcode lottery, as women queue for appointments for over a year in parts of Northern Ireland and Devon, and six months in some rural areas.

Absolutely agree. But you could remove 'the coil' and insert 'seeing a consultant/pretty much any NHS service' - it's not just women's health, it's the general systematic destruction of the NHS.

the Natural Cycles app – which gives ‘green’ and ‘red’ days for having sex, depending on dates and temperature - was endorsed by Love Islanders and influencers, but has a 7% failure rate in typical use.

You do know that the pill has a 9% failure rate in typical use?

GPs no longer seem to have time or incentives to do coil fittings
funding for fittings has not kept up with inflation, and been cut in some areas. Many practices have continued to do them, as a service for patients, even when they lost money on every fitting - money which has to be found from other services. Sadly there's now nothing else left to cut. The blame for this lies squarely with those who fund IUCD and implant fittings for not funding them properly. But thanks for the GP bashing. Remember every single untrue snipe at GPs pushes a few more towards the door.

JenniferBooth · 25/06/2023 21:33

@nottoday300 oh i take mine at night too After ive brushed my teeth

mycoffeecup · 25/06/2023 21:33

JamSandle · 14/06/2023 20:36

Unless you have a latex allergy, I really think Condoms are the best option.

As a backup, yes. With a 20% typical use failure rate, I assume you're not suggesting them as the sole method of contraception?

JenniferBooth · 25/06/2023 21:35

@nottoday300 The risk of ectopic pregnancy in our age group is HIGH Ive had a pinching pain on my left very low down all weekend. Probably nothing but plays on your mind.

mycoffeecup · 25/06/2023 21:35

Greenfinch7 · 14/06/2023 05:20

The cervical cap,, if used correctly, is very effective. Young people don't even know about the option of barrier methods other than condoms, which I think is criminal.

If you define 'very effective' as a real life failure rate of 12% then I'd agree it's 12%.

Anyway that ship has sailed. Pretty much every HCP who is trained to fit diaphragms has retired, or will do soon.

JenniferBooth · 25/06/2023 21:37

There is NO WAY as a childfree by choice woman that i would use condoms alone. It was the medical profession who would not beleive me for decades that i absolutely do not want children. Its on them

nottoday300 · 25/06/2023 21:42

@JenniferBooth see this why I've come up with the sterilisation solution or is it feasible to take a pill at night less likely to have a flare up than day time I think the gps calling me mid July in the mean time I'll get my sewing kit out and perhaps tie my own tubes !! Could you're twinging tum be due to Ibs flare ??

JenniferBooth · 25/06/2023 21:45

No its not the same kind of pain and its too low down Could be caused by the heat and the sauna of a flat i live in.

nottoday300 · 25/06/2023 21:48

@JenniferBooth it's unbearable tonight isn't it not you're water works playing up ??

JenniferBooth · 25/06/2023 21:50

No but my stomach was yesterday

nottoday300 · 25/06/2023 21:53

@JenniferBooth I know it's boiling and also grim what about peppermint tea ? Or packet of frozen peas wrapped in a tea towel might cool you and stop the pain there's nothing worse is there??

JenniferBooth · 25/06/2023 21:54

Great minds Ive thawed out a packet of sprouts doing that today

nottoday300 · 25/06/2023 21:55

Sorry to de rail the thread x

JenniferBooth · 25/06/2023 21:55

@nottoday300 When you get contact back from GP would you mind saying how you get on.

mycoffeecup · 25/06/2023 22:08

nottoday300 · 25/06/2023 21:42

@JenniferBooth see this why I've come up with the sterilisation solution or is it feasible to take a pill at night less likely to have a flare up than day time I think the gps calling me mid July in the mean time I'll get my sewing kit out and perhaps tie my own tubes !! Could you're twinging tum be due to Ibs flare ??

Female sterilisation failure rate 0.5%
Implant failure rate 0.05%

Middlelanehogger · 26/06/2023 07:27

Why do young women need to be "educated" into believing that taking synthetic hormones for their entire 20s/30s is normal?

WakeMeUpWhenGoodOmensIsBack · 26/06/2023 08:22

Middlelanehogger · 26/06/2023 07:27

Why do young women need to be "educated" into believing that taking synthetic hormones for their entire 20s/30s is normal?

Having hundreds of periods for decades on ends isn't normal either. That's why ovarian cancer kills so many women nowadays. And for many women their natural hormonal cycle is disabling - physically, emotionally or logistically. For those women hormonal contraception is liberating.

And although I will defend the right to safe, legal abortions to my last breath - the fact that so many women find themselves terminating unwanted pregnancies is a real problem for all sorts of reasons. The most important thing about any contraceptive method is that it should work.

Hormonal LARC doesn't work for everyone, but it has huge upsides for the many women for which it does work, and for a country which wants every child to be a wanted child. It's a false economy not to fund it in full.

Costco121 · 26/06/2023 09:22

NancyJoan · 09/06/2023 17:28

It’s utterly ridiculous. My 17 yr old daughter wanted to have the implant last month. Both the GP and the teen sexual health clinic had wait lists of 14 weeks plus. This is in a major city.

Blows my mind that she has done her research, is trying to do the right thing, be medically responsible, and only option locally is for a private appointment for £350.

In fact, we went out of area, lied about our address and were in and out of the rural drop-in teen clinic in 30 minutes.

Wth..is she in that much hurry to have unprotected sex? Surely she can cycle track and use a condom for a couple of months…

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