@BertrandRussell “If they’re that bright they’ll get the grades.”
Not if they’ve dropped out or are suffering mental health issues due to having to deal with totally inappropriate levels of work for years.
Yes some kids can coast. I would argue that those children who find everything easy and never learn how to fail, will have to deal with the consequences of that later. I had to learn (with great difficulty) how to apply myself at university, and have had to overcome crippling perfectionism because through all the years of school I wasn’t really challenged.
Sorry this is a topic quite close to my heart, as my extended family is full of super bright (and bright and quirky) individuals, some of whom have not been able to survive the school system. Some can. My pretty genius brother had an amazingly supportive teacher who extended him in class (pretty much single handedly, preparing resources in her own time.) He went to Oxford, got a top first and after a chemistry PhD is in the process of designing more efficient solar panels and basically doing amazing things.
Our first cousin on the other hand was a very similar kid, in fact presented as even brighter as a child, but wasn’t supported in the existing school system, started to act out and cause problems at school (mostly due to boredom), flunked his exams, and is now very sadly struggling with the drug addiction he picked up in his teens. Now I don’t know if his mental issues (anxiety and depression) are cause or effect, but I do know that a standard school wasn’t set up for a child like him. This isn’t elitism (we don’t come from a privileged background), and it’s not as simple as ‘they’re clever, they’ll be fine’. I’d argue that extreme giftedness IS neurodiversity by defintion and just as worthy of support as other kinds of neurological difference.