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Gifted and talented

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Bexterfish · 15/03/2018 08:43

My dd is 2.5. She can write her name without help, and loves writing letters and learn phonics etc. She can recognise most letters (Ive bit taught her the alphabet song yet) and recognise words like mummy, daddy, her own name etc. I've bought her some writing books because she's so interested but others tell me im being pushy. I don't make her do anything she doesn't wasn't to. I've no idea about gifted or anything like that Tbh I'd never really heard of that before I came here today but she's clearly bright. She could talk in full sentences at 2. Was potty trained day and night at 2. She can count to 10 but sometimes forgets 6&7. When she sees new words she will say 'that's a m for mummy ' etc. Surely encouraging her interest isnt being pushy? She'll be going to private school so she probably won't be stand out bright there (fairly sure she would be ahead of the curve in state school). I'm not sure what I'm asking. I don't want to be pushy but if she wants to learn surely it's ok? And any I right in thinking she's showing great potential?

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user789653241 · 18/03/2018 09:49

JustRichmal, I was questioning what you are asking Thehogfather, because I did get what he/she was talking about. We may have able children but each one is very different. And this particular OP's attitude isn't helping her/his dd imo by comparing her to her peers and cousins and thinking she is superior, so I commented, and so as Thehogfather, I assume.

JustRichmal · 18/03/2018 10:12

irvineoneohone , yes I was taking the remarks out of context, but it did deem incongruous to say there is no comparing children on a board which sometimes resembles the conversation between the mothers on Goodness Gracious Me. Smile

RedAndGreenPlaid · 18/03/2018 10:34

Firstly, I will say that most children of this age that read/write/do maths etc do those things because they have begun learning them before their peers. Reading at 2 is within the realms of possibility for many children, but most are not exposed to it. These 'accomplishments' are not necessarily indicative of giftedness, and many 'bright' children are capable in this way.

Children that are of above average intelligence (but not gifted) that learn these skills early will have had far more experience than other children in doing them, particularly at key assessment points (reception, y2, Y6 etc). Most other 'above average intelligence' children will have caught up with these early learners by age 11, or 14 or so.

However, that's not to understate the advantage that early reading gives in the classroom in the early years- a child that can already read can assimilate information far quicker that one that is having to use their brain power to read. each. word. in. every. sentence. they. meet.

As children that were extremely able, both DH and I felt let down by the state system- there is no stretch when you are top of the year in every subject, often by 10-15% points. It's highly frustrating, and school is something to be endured until you can get home and learn something!

We put our children in selective independent schools. The benefits for our children are there for us to see every day-to-day they are flying.

Thehogfather · 18/03/2018 15:50

To be fair my comments weren't taken out of context, I just did an awful job of explaining my line of thought.

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