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Bad attitude of some of you here

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lollymum · 21/02/2007 11:24

There's a lot of bad attitude on here. Culture of underachievement and all that. It's sad and a bit shocking really when these children are the ones who really need the help and the resources and aren't getting it. My daughter is four and I'm not abashed to say the word 'genuis'. In front of her or not. It isn't a bad word, it's what she is and I love her for it.

How do I know? Oh please, this is the child who was playing - meaningully - with abacus at 3 months. Now four she has read Secret Seven and is working on newspapers. She has her own email.

So shoot me. My daughter is gifted, there, I said it. Why the bad attitude?

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lissielou · 21/02/2007 13:11

pmsl, ds has attempted his own version of the cistine chapel in our living room. he sees a blank canvas, and the creativity pours out of him!

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lotrl · 21/02/2007 13:12

I shall feed until he goes to school. Perhaps longer. I am of the opinion that it will help his brain to grow.

I watch what I eat, lots of fish and organic free range eggs. Just in case others are interested in how to make their babies more intelligent.

aptamil · 21/02/2007 13:13

absolutely lotrl, and of course it is most important to have a natural childbirth to give your child the very best start. I feel that pain is a positive life affirming sensation. So many women these days are frightened of their bodies ability to cope.

lotrl · 21/02/2007 13:13

mildmanneredjanitor, why would my child be anything but gifted? His parents are exceptionally bright and as I mentioned, I have felt him in the womb from 10 weeks which I have taken as a good sign. He moves now in rhythm to music, he keeps still and listens when I read Chaucer to him. All the signs are there.

PeachyClair · 21/02/2007 13:14

Oh gosh lotrl, so glad I knew what I did worng with ds3- what with him being sn and all and delayed

You don't work as a behavioural advisory teacher do you? She told me I should havew BF him too

Course I did, until 16 months, but there you go

PMSL at image of Mum BF a nine year old Amadeus in the public school canteen

I wprship the genius of this thread!

bundle · 21/02/2007 13:14

eating fish is a minefield these days

PeachyClair · 21/02/2007 13:15

It gets better- sorry!

Youre right, we're thick, that why we have DS3. COurse, I'm doing really well at Uni and DH has a business specialising in highly complex electropnic units but hey- pass the dunce hat!

JanH · 21/02/2007 13:15

a-ha - greeny is another whilst-er. Case proved - lotrl is greeny. Next!

bundle · 21/02/2007 13:15

lol @ Chaucer

lotrl · 21/02/2007 13:16

Actually aptamil I plan to have a caesarean to reduce the stress of giving birth for him. It also reduces the impact on their heads.

aptamil · 21/02/2007 13:17

I expect he will have quite a large head with all that intelligence..

My daughter can already play on the linoleum.

lotrl · 21/02/2007 13:18

His head size is another consideration, yes.

aptamil · 21/02/2007 13:19

What about sex during pregnancy? Do you think that might have an effect on a childs intelligence?

donnie · 21/02/2007 13:19

yes but can you pronounce Chaucer correctly? most people cannot, you know.

lotrl · 21/02/2007 13:20

No, I do not have sex during pregnancy just in case it causes trauma to him whilst in the womb.

And just because I am an American does not mean to say that I cannot pronounce Chaucer.

edam · 21/02/2007 13:21

lotrl, three words for you: regression to the mean

aptamil · 21/02/2007 13:21

what do you do instead with yr partner? Afterall a stable relationship and home nevironment is most important.

lotrl · 21/02/2007 13:21

4 words.
Were you breastfed?

ScottishThistle · 21/02/2007 13:21

Blimey!

I thought this would have at least got entertaining...It would appear not...But hey very clever people lack a sense of humour don't they!

lissielou · 21/02/2007 13:22

thats 3

FioFio · 21/02/2007 13:22

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donnie · 21/02/2007 13:23

well I am pretty good on my Chaucer and I have never heard an American speak it that didn't sound like a twat.

lotrl · 21/02/2007 13:23

My partner, like myself, puts his child's needs first. Sacrificing sex for 9 months is not so bad for us. He is able to use the energy in other ways. Sex without the need to produce another child seems somehow wasteful anyway.

bundle · 21/02/2007 13:23

dd2 was breastfed for 3 years. she's thinking of running against Gordon Brown when Tone steps down...