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gifted 3 year old - how to get him in school at 3-4

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ukjalady · 24/11/2011 02:56

My son is clearly gifted - I am not going to bore you with his achievements to date - but having read up on it - I realize he is waaaay above average - probably gifted stage 4-5 according to mensa.

but as he is born in Oct, he wont get a school place until Sept 2013.

I went to visit a school this morning at their open day and I was rather stunned at the basic things being taught to the reception class - things my son at before age 3 already knew.

i really think he will be ready to start school next year when he will be 3 then turn 4. He will be with kids who are academically his peers; instead of waiting a year then being 4 and turning 5, and so much more advanced than the rest of his class.

i would anticipate that if he is not accelerated early- he will turn out to be a very disruptive force for any teacher as he has a high level of energy combined with his focus.

combined with this, as both his parents are 'large people' he is already looking like a 4-5 year old, not fat, just tall. His friend next door is 7 months older and only comes up to his shoulder. I could easily have seen him in that classroom today, and no one would have been the wiser that he has just turned 3.

Does anyone have any background in this or can offer me some advice based on experience with how best to get my son accelerated at such a young age?

Everyone I have talked to - including schools - have told me unless i get him privately educated - hehhehheh not gonna happen - I am stuck with the current govt rules.

all comments and advice appreciated,

cheers all,

OP posts:
ScarlettIsWalking · 24/11/2011 21:26

Fucking hell

madwomanintheattic · 24/11/2011 21:45

tufty, does your cat do the 'whiskers saved christmas!' ad? Grin i should darn well think she can pay her own private fees if so. Wink

madwomanintheattic · 24/11/2011 21:46

or is she nora?

piano playing cats seem to be a bit common tbh. are you sure she's gifted?

TuftyFinch · 24/11/2011 23:28

Sorry madwoman I was coaching the cat for her grade 8 piano exam. No, she's not the one in the ad. I can't say she is. I must not say untruths because I said I wouldn't anymore.

madwomanintheattic · 24/11/2011 23:46

oh, only grade 8? that's a shame.

chrchrch · 25/11/2011 10:16

OP, welcome to MN.

The phrase hook, line and sinker comes to mind on some of this thread. Hope you enjoyed it.

Or you can home ed to release his potential.

TheRhubarb · 25/11/2011 10:20

I said that yesterday at 11.21 chrchrch.

Trouble is some people only read the OP and not the posts afterwards.
This is just one of a number of threads started by brand new posters.

madwomanintheattic · 25/11/2011 18:41

oh yy. but i think we're just chatting amongst ourselves now, aren't we? Grin

onesandwichshort · 26/11/2011 11:26

My cats play Kerplunk, do you think they'e eligible for something?

Vickyvixen40 · 26/11/2011 23:00

Hi,

I was searching for advice on my gifted 4 year old and noticed your post. My son started Reception school at the age of 4 but knew his alphabet, colours and has been able to count over 100 since the age of 2 and can effortlessly read and write (including his own stories), add, subtract and even rattle off some of the times tables. However, we did have a few issues with other sides of his development and therefore it was beneficial for him to start at the same level at everyone else his age. It didn't take long for his teacher to notice his abilities and she has now added him to the gifted and talented register and works with him daily on a one to one basis when the other members of the class are working on basics. I think that it is best to speak to the schools about how they would approach teaching your child. We did a little bit of research on schools in our area and found the school he attends now to be the best for his needs. I think on a social level it is much nicer to keep them with children their own age, otherwise it's almost like forcing them to grow up. My son acts so mature all the time that sometimes I forget he is only 4 and still has a lot of growing up to do and fun to have before he officially becomes an adult. x

Sparklingbrook · 26/11/2011 23:04

Nothing to add. Except Shock and Hmm

PontyMython · 26/11/2011 23:06

A gifted and perceptive child might be a bit sad he's been packed off to school a year too early instead of playing at home with mummy!

Sparklingbrook · 26/11/2011 23:13

When he starts High School it is very important you tell the school how gifted he was at 3. It makes all the difference you know. Wink

Ponders · 26/11/2011 23:13

first poster, not been back, this is a wind-up, yes?

Sparklingbrook · 26/11/2011 23:17

I bet this has something to do with a dare on the MN party thead. Grin

Ponders · 26/11/2011 23:24

was v prescient if so, OP was on Thursday Grin

Sparklingbrook · 26/11/2011 23:29

Sorry-meant the latest addition half an hour ago. Blush

Ponders · 26/11/2011 23:31

oh sorry, I hadn't spotted that one

hmm...

I think you might have something there, sparkling Grin

Sparklingbrook · 26/11/2011 23:33

Shall I go on the party thread and ask?

madwomanintheattic · 27/11/2011 03:11

which one?
vicky?
nah. she sounds like me. Grin there are a few of us in that boat, it'd be a poor old piss take if that's the best a party thread can come up with. other than the 1-1 teacher, natch, but that's not obvious enough. i'd be very disappointed in the wit of mn if that was really the result of a few gins and a plethora of vipers. i might have to flounce again

Sparklingbrook · 27/11/2011 12:51

I'm sorry madwoman for underestimating you all. Grin And obviously to Vicky........

Ponders · 27/11/2011 13:36

Vicky is also first-time poster, not been back yet...

It didn't take long for his teacher to notice his abilities and she has now added him to the gifted and talented register and works with him daily on a one to one basis when the other members of the class are working on basics

Hmm

agree though that party people have better things to do Grin

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