Sorry to bring this one back to the top but thought I would just say "hi" as a fellow Crohn's sufferer. Touch wood, I'm quite well at the mo, and just found out i'm expecting my 4th baby. I have been diagnosed for about 4 years and have been on and off asacol during that time.
For 7 years i was told by my GP I had IBS. It took me to lose 2 stone in 2 weeks, to be going to the toilet 15-20 times a day, not being able to eat anything, and my shins to be covered in lumps (can't remember what they are called but they are part of having a flare up) - oh, and arthritis too, to get some attention from the GP. Ended up seeing a different doctor and she was great and sent me straight to hospital for tests. I suffered way too much for 7 years, having time off work with no sympathy from my boss (though i was swingling the lead) and having a terrible quality of life.
Anyway less of my sob story...
I'm really sorry for your loss, jessicaandbumpsmummy. You must get yourself tested though. Its so important that you know. At least you could keep it under control. I really do wish you all the best, J&Bmummy {{{{hugs}}}}}xxxxxx
and [hugs] to you other sufferers, and those with family members who have the disease xxxx