i had a mirena fitted after my first child was born and had it taken out a year later to ttc. during the year it was in i was diagnosed with depression, either PND or situational, no one could actually decide because DS was 9 months when i was diagnosed. in hindsight i would say it was the mirena. After DC2 was born i was talked into the mirena again as i was breastfeeding and i hadnt made the link between the coil and depression. after recent research i think the GP shouldnt have recommended it to me as i had a history of depression and i was seeing CPN during my second pregnancy and was put on anti depressants 4 weeks before mirena fitted. anyway after being like a woman possesed who was short tempered and angry at everything, miserable and no interest in touching DH let alone sex i had it taken out after 18 months.
when i discussed my options after removal with my GP i wanted a copper coil so it was non hormonal, but GP said because of a history of painful periods i shouldnt have it and put me on yasmin pill instead. I took that for 2 years and was a miserable cow, with no interest in sex and looking back i had symptoms of depression again. it had got so bad that DH admitted he wanted to leave but couldnt bring himself to leave the kids, and that he no longer loved me.
By chance i stopped the pill coz id taken about 3 packets on the run for various reasons and was feeling like i needed a break so i stopped about 7 days into a packet.
well what can i say, its been about 2 weeks since i stopped and im a different person, im happy, no longer short tempered, actually want to do stuff with DC,s instead of just shout at them, and im horny as hell, tmi maybe
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DH has now told me that he cant beleive the change in me and he is falling back in love with me again as im like i was pre children. he doesnt blame me for making him miserable for the past few years as we have both realised it was the bloody hormones.
I would never have hormonal contraception again and DH doesnt even want me to have the copper coil so he is waiting on an appointment for the snip.
Sorry its a long post but i just want to warn people that the hormones can cause things you might not realise they are until you actually get back to nature. if id continued on the pill i probably would be a single parent in the near future but now we seem happier than we have been in a long time