Hi Ladies, I'm a newby and have been following your threads since before Christmas and thank you all so much for your tips and advice.
My Rectocele op was on 4th Jan so I'm at Day 15 and, although I was getting a bit panicky about a possible painful recovery, I'm VERY pleased to say that it was nowhere near as bad as I was expecting.
I was given a pain-block injection in my back after I was asleep, and woke painfree with just a dull ache down below as to be expected, I had no sickness and was very alert. I had liquid paracetamol thru a drip, which was taken down on morning of Day 2, and then just paracetamol tabs till I went home.
On day 2 all tubes were removed plus the packing. I had eaten a dozen grapes and a couple of soft prunes on Day 1 so by evening of Day 2, I had my first bowel movement (was worried about this but it was not too painful at all).
Physio gave us exercises to do, including Pelvic Floor, so I'd say start with these even before you go for your op, and continue every day afterwards - 6 times a day. It doesn't hurt and it makes a big difference.
Home on Day 5 to a lovely hubby who did everything for me the first week (yes I know how lucky I am ...) Went food shopping with him a few days ago, but was knackered when I got back, I didnt even push the trolley or pick anything up either... So best to do nothing at all and rest up.
For you girls waiting for an op, this is what I'd take into hospital :-
Small stick-on pads (the hospital ones are rather big), Wet wipes, Lip Balm, Dry Skin Lotion, Soft Prunes / Grapes, and Peppermint Cordial, which was great for the wind (most of the girls on my ward pinched a bit and agreed it helped get the wind moving).
Thanx again to all you lovely ladies who wrote with your experiences, and good luck to all who are waiting to go in, maybe reading this might help to stop you worrying.
Take care and rest
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