oh yeah - I had an anterior placement last time so it may well be that - think my brain is so stressed with the move (here's a tip - NEVER move house with an 18m old. He sits in the box, on the box, he puts his pasta/cars/teddy in the box. He gets everything out again, he runs away with half of whatever you just packed, he wants the tape, he wants the box open again, he wants to help write the box number, he wants to help write on the wall, he comes in carrying your undies - it's knackering I tell you) it's just inventing worries now.
thank you Ilove, for making me feel better!
oh and Red - you're not funny, I never liked you and you smell.