Mum was diagnosed with lung cancer last year. She is 52. She had been ill for two years and is currently int he process of making a claim against the hospital for medical negligence as big mistakes were made in her treatment and it should have been diagnosed earlier. Anyhow, she underwent major surgery within 4 days of her proper diagnosis to remove the T2 tumor and was then given the 'all clear'. The surgery took a long time to get over and in the coming months she seemed to get a little better but not properly so (in lots of pain, sleeping alot, unable to do anything physical etc)since about Sept she has been getting progressively worse, has done less and less and basically spends her days sleeping or in pain, she has also lost a stone in a very short space of time. She has aged dreadfully. She has been getting more and more depressed and has seemed convinced the cancer is back. Anyway after much pushing for follow ups etc she finally had a full body scan and today she has been told that she has a growth on what is left of her lung, 'something' on her spine and shoulder and 4 broken ribs. I just feel sick. My dd (15) who has always been very close to Mum & is distraught (my Dad unexpectedly died only 3 years ago at the age of 56). I know Mum hasn't been told the cancer is back but given the amount of pushing for a diagnosis in the first place and then the amount of pushing for follow ups we are all very sceptical. Dh had cancer years ago and is very much of the mind that one has to remain positive but today I just feel all over the place. How the hell do I support the people I love?