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Finger amputation need a hand hold.

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jmh740 · 20/10/2026 18:59

My cat bit me in August when I was trying to medicate her. Ive been on antibiotics since 28.8 but it was still badly infected. On Tuesday they told me the bone was infected and the surgeon wouldnt know how much unti he opened it up. I went into surgery for it to be cleaned out (for the 4th time) on Thursday. They hand is well bandaged and it looks like they have amputated between the first and second knuckle.
It was a real sock and I'm struggling to cope with the pain. Does anyone know what the future looks like for me?

How long will it take to heal?
What will I still be able to do?
What wont I be able to do?
Any tips and hints to aid recovery?

Im having the dressing changed tomorrow and a bit nervous to see it.

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YourWildAmberSloth · 20/10/2026 22:42

Sorry this has happened to you OP. When you go for the dressing change tomorrow, make sure that you tell them - before they start - that you are unsure of how much has been amputated and are anxious about seeing it. Otherwise they might just remove the dressing without preparing you mentally for what to expect.

Paidmymoneywillstroketherabbit · 20/10/2026 22:42

Surely we can all see that the bottom left of the photo says ‘AI generated content.’

ThreeLocusts · 20/10/2026 22:44

OP just to say yes it certainly does look like more than the tip is gone. Someone should jolly well have explained to you...!

But either way it's done. I hope the pain abates quickly, and that it turns out to be better than it looks when you see it.

Not surprising that you are worried. My stomach lurches at the thought of seeing what is under that bandage. Wishing you nerves of steel.

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Bumcake · 20/10/2026 22:48

Did they really put you under general whilst wearing nail polish? I thought that was a no-no.

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I ai out the crap on the living room floor lol

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jmh740 · 20/10/2026 19:49

Not vulnerable or SN my husband is disabled im his carer, also dad's carer and have 2 teens at home so usually the one who keeps everything going.
I know they have amputated but dont know how much due to all the padding. The stump is lower down than my little finger which is why I think it is between both knuckles.
I knew amputation was a slight possibility when I went for the operation but I thought they would be able to save it. I didnt see the aurgeon post op they put me back in day surgery and told me to ring my husband to collect me in an hour. Sent me home with discharge papers and a slung with instructions to come back wed to see a nurse for a dressing change. Husband only just out for hospital from a heart operation so is meant to be resting.

It is deeply shocking (even with everything going on with the NHS) that no one sat down with you once you woke up to explain that your finger had been amputated during surgery. Wtf.

FillerTrackOnTheAlbumOfLife · 20/10/2026 22:53

Mykobo · 20/10/2026 22:40

Yes, I’ve actually been scratched twice as a kid. Friends cat who had seen me many time before just walked up and scratched me as I was about to cycle away on my bike. Very random but it scared me as it seemed out of the blue.

The other time I hadn’t noticed another friends cat walking between my legs and must’ve touched it accidentally and I suddenly heard hissing and then received a series of scratches. Thankfully no broken skin or infection.

Had never even thought about cats biting until recently.

You should always avoid strange cats in countries where rabies is endemic as rabies can be transmitted by a scratch even if the skin doesn't seem to be broken

That is good to know as I wouldn’t have thought rabies can be transmitted on unbroken skin.

Yes - there was a case last year of a British woman who was scratched very lightly by a puppy on holiday. She thought nothing of it, carried on with her holiday, came back home to the UK and became ill. Unfortunately once you have developed rabies symptoms nothing can be done - you need to start a course of vaccinations as soon as you have been infected. Very sadly, the woman died.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c98wyllp170o

jmh740 · 20/10/2026 22:54

Including the crap on living room floor!

Finger amputation need a hand hold.
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OctoberUsername · 20/10/2026 23:02

Hi OP, do you have a sense of humour cos I think asking for a hand hold is brilliant.

What a shock! I’ve got a few cats and had no idea this could happen. Wishing you the best xx

Seeingadistance · 20/10/2026 23:02

tommyhoundmum · 20/10/2026 20:56

Severe infection to the point of risk of death from a cat bite is not unusual.

Yep. A man Inused to know through work spent 5 weeks on a high dependency unit after one of his cats bit him on the foot. He was off work for months and then kept having to back to hospital for more treatment. In the end I think he got early retirement on health grounds.

It’s vitally important to get immediate medical attention for a cat bite which has broken the skin.

Paidmymoneywillstroketherabbit · 20/10/2026 23:03

jmh740 · 20/10/2026 22:51

I ai out the crap on the living room floor lol

There’s no floor in the photo.

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jmh740 · 20/10/2026 23:04

ChiliFiend · 20/10/2026 22:53

It is deeply shocking (even with everything going on with the NHS) that no one sat down with you once you woke up to explain that your finger had been amputated during surgery. Wtf.

They said the theatre should be closed but they were going to squeeze me in, so I just assumed they had finished up and gone home. I was more concerned they were going to send me home at that point. Id been told i should be going to surgery between 3 and 4 so when i hadnt gone by 5ish i thought they were going to send me and cancel. Ive only had GA once before about 30 years ago when I had my wisdom teeth out. Last time I stayed in hospital before this was when I had my youngest 16 years ago.

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RedThroatedWarbler · 20/10/2026 23:04

Bumcake · 20/10/2026 22:48

Did they really put you under general whilst wearing nail polish? I thought that was a no-no.

I thought the same. I also thought this was my own hand based on the colours...

Picture pending...

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jmh740 · 20/10/2026 23:05

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I wish it was.

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jmh740 · 20/10/2026 23:06

Paidmymoneywillstroketherabbit · 20/10/2026 23:03

There’s no floor in the photo.

I removed a red bag of junk at the top of the picture.

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Mykobo · 20/10/2026 23:06

FillerTrackOnTheAlbumOfLife · 20/10/2026 22:53

Yes - there was a case last year of a British woman who was scratched very lightly by a puppy on holiday. She thought nothing of it, carried on with her holiday, came back home to the UK and became ill. Unfortunately once you have developed rabies symptoms nothing can be done - you need to start a course of vaccinations as soon as you have been infected. Very sadly, the woman died.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c98wyllp170o

Sheesh..how sad. It must be horrendous for people like that woman once the symptoms show and they basically get told it’s rabies, you’re dying and there’s nothing that can be done.

jmh740 · 20/10/2026 23:10

OctoberUsername · 20/10/2026 23:02

Hi OP, do you have a sense of humour cos I think asking for a hand hold is brilliant.

What a shock! I’ve got a few cats and had no idea this could happen. Wishing you the best xx

I do have a sense of humour but I didnt do that intentionally lol.
Im 52 had cats all my life I didnt know this could happen either. Oh had to persuade me to go to A&E the night it happened I was just going to put salon and a plaster on it.

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Skippydoodle · 20/10/2026 23:10

Bumcake · 20/10/2026 22:48

Did they really put you under general whilst wearing nail polish? I thought that was a no-no.

It is a no no

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 20/10/2026 23:12

OP, I had surgery that caused a permenant change to my body, and I wasn't sure how I was going to react when they did the dressing change the next day and I saw it for the first time. I looked the other way and asked the nurse to remove the dressing and describe it to me before I looked, she was happy to do so.

I've also had a very nasty cat bite, luckily (!?!) it was so incredibly painful that I went to minor injuries straight away and they flushed it and gave me ABs. @I lost the feeling in 2 fingers for months. I can absolutely believe you've had a very nasty infection. It's quite shocking though that the surgeon didn't come and talk to you afterwards and explain what was done. Did they give you any pain relief to take home?

Angrybird76 · 20/10/2026 23:14

My mum managed to amputate her own finger tip by touching a strimmer to see if it was on! You can barely notice it and doeasnt bigger her. She does feel the cold in it though.

IzzyLeng · 20/10/2026 23:14

IsItSummerSoon · 20/10/2026 22:36

Completely beside the point but I’m slightly surprised you were allowed to keep your nail varnish on.

I hope it’s not too much they took off. There are amazing finger prosthetics you can just slide onto the finger so that might be an option if you feel you need it.

I think if working on one hand they’d put the SATS probe on a finger on the other hand. So more likely to remove polish on the non amputation side. Saying that a consultant anaesthetist friend of mine says nail polish makes no difference to sats probe readings.

TheLastSilverSaint · 20/10/2026 23:16

Skippydoodle · 20/10/2026 23:10

It is a no no

I had a general anaesthetic and two lots of heavy sedation with acrylic overlays when I was in hospital last year.

They'd prefer nail polish to be removed, but it's not always possible in an emergency, or if the patient has something semi-permanent like acrylic or gel polish, and it's not essential.

Even when they remove nail polish, they often only make you remove it from one finger (the one they clip the monitor to).