I have osteoporosis. From what I was told, they diagnose it by the density of your femoral neck only even though they measure two other sites. This is what breaks if you fall and break your hip. It is the most serious fracture you can get with the highest risk of disability or death as a result.
So it is quite possible for the bones where you fell or bashed to be dense/strong enough to not break in a minor fall…wrists, hands, knees etc….but you still have osteoporosis.
The doctor should not be saying things like you should have had HRT. There is no right or wrong choice when it comes to HRT as there are risks with either choice and it’s really down to pure luck whether HRT ends up being better or no HRT is better.
In my case, if I had gone on HRT my breast cancer would have been caught much later than it was because my breast cancer feeds on estrogen and it was caught at my first routine mammogram allowed on NHS schedule. It was also symptomless with no lump, no pain, no discharge…nothing. I was diagnosed last year, and if I had taken HRT from when I was first offered it seven years ago when I started peri symptoms….I shudder to think whether my breast cancer would even have been treatable….
The osteoporosis was diagnosed after active cancer treatment when they did a DEXA scan for a baseline before chemically inducing menopause and putting me on an AI. They had to rid my body of all estrogen to starve the breast cancer…but no estrogen does cause bone density loss. ( HRT prevents bone loss caused by loss of estrogen during peri and menopause)
So I do have osteoporosis but can have NO estrogen in me at all, I also am on alendronic acid and EVCAL D3 calcium tablets for at least next 5 years. The cancer treatment also made me lactose intolerant so can’t eat dairy anymore. :(
So I am doing weight bearing exercises. It doesn’t have to be lifting weights- which I can’t do due to bad joints/old injuries as lifting weights is hard on the joints. So I am doing weight bearing exercises like yoga and isometric calisthenics instead.