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I am to lazy ?

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Julia34 · 06/12/2024 17:38

For over week I am spending most days in my bed. I go out only if nessecary. I want to do many things but I lack the motivation like in one part of me I know I want and should get up from the bed and do stuff but the other part of me keep me in bed. I don't know what going on. Do I have health problems or is my laziness hit the highest level possible ? I don't want mention this before cause I am new there on this forum. My house needs good cleaning it was taking me 3 days to wash up the dirty dishes I clean bit by bits when I find enough motivation to get up from bed . The cold weather not help either. I don't know what going on with me. Does everyone had same problem? Thanx for any advice

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Julia34 · 06/12/2024 21:53

TryingAgainAgainAgain · 06/12/2024 21:51

They should also test your ferritin (iron stores). Make sure you get the result yourself as the NHS has a very low minimum, around 14, whereas it often needs to be at least 50 to be sure of avoiding fatigue.

Yes I will test for iron to due to my tiredness

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blueshoes · 06/12/2024 21:58

Riapia · 06/12/2024 18:27

You do not owe anyone an explanation for your laziness.
It is yours, enjoy it. Many people on here are secretly admiring you, though they won’t admit it.

er, no.

This is one of the most ridiculous things I have read.

Julia34 · 06/12/2024 21:59

blueshoes · 06/12/2024 21:58

er, no.

This is one of the most ridiculous things I have read.

Is ok she maybe not understand. I will go doctor Monday just need go through this weekend

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Hi I got stomach surgery. I sure is not from surgery because I was having check up and feel good for while after it. The symptoms of tiredness, bruising etc come not long ago

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My friend was with me today I spend time with my daughter, but I feel fatigued almost all the time.

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Yes my friend help me I talk with her about it while the kids was another room. I will go GP this Monday and see what gonna tell me

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Gloriia · 07/12/2024 16:53

Have you anyone to help? Couldn't your poor dd go and stay with grandparents or other relatives until you're more active?

Even though you're adamant this isn't surgery related the fact that you have a sick note until Jan suggests the Dr thinks a prolonged recovery is to be expected even if you initially felt ok. But yes, get a full review Mon with bloods checked etc.

Julia34 · 07/12/2024 16:57

Gloriia · 07/12/2024 16:53

Have you anyone to help? Couldn't your poor dd go and stay with grandparents or other relatives until you're more active?

Even though you're adamant this isn't surgery related the fact that you have a sick note until Jan suggests the Dr thinks a prolonged recovery is to be expected even if you initially felt ok. But yes, get a full review Mon with bloods checked etc.

My parents not live in UK. She sometimes stay with her dad.

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