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Contact lens advice

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Flowerpower70 · 07/08/2024 11:20

I want to try contact lenses. I have been told by several people, friends and some colleagues who said I look better without glasses as I have "nice eyes" that you can't see when wearing glasses. I have petite features so glasses are hard to find. I have never tried contact lenses and need advice. Can you get infections and are weekly or monthly better. I need them for distance. My friend said dailies rip easily but I don't want to go with monthly as you can get infections if not cleaned properly. I also tend to get watery eyes in the wind. Please does anyone have any recommendations or advice regarding contact lenses

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Flowerpower70 · 07/08/2024 19:45

holidayfever2024 · 07/08/2024 19:15

Hi OP we are a family of contact lens wearers myself and my 2DC wear dailies - they have myopia management ones especially for children and mine correct my astigmatism.
DH wears monthly ones after switching from RPG over 20 years ago. He also has astigmatism.
No dramas , no infections we all far prefer the freedom / field of visions to glasses.
My DC have never ripped a lens even when getting used to to putting them and removing themselves !
Go for it but as others say you need a good optician to help you .

Thanks. I feel hidden by glasses, I have a fringe as well so see glasses before me. I was late in life wearing them. I need them for distance. I don't drive, but wear glasses all day.

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Flowerpower70 · 07/08/2024 19:46

CointreauVersial · 07/08/2024 11:29

Go to an opticians, such as Specsavers, and they will talk you through all the options. Daily ones are usually recommended because of the infection risk, but they cost more. Both my DDs, who are in their early 20s, have monthlies - as long as you are very careful cleaning/storing them you will be OK.

FWIW I have worn contact lenses for over 40 years (started with hard lenses, then gas permeable, then onto soft monthlies, now dailies because I only wear them occasionally now) and I've never had an infection. Have managed to scratch my cornea a couple of times (with the GPs) which makes your eye sore for a few days, but that's it.

I will try them thanks 😊

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Flowerpower70 · 07/08/2024 19:47

lolaran · 07/08/2024 12:43

I've worn daily contact lenses for 30 years and never had one rip. Couldn't be without them. & I love not having the faff of cleaning them I have tried many brands but I always go back to Acuvue Oasys with Coopervision My Day a close second. Best to check with your optician for a free trial.

Thanks for your advice, very kind of you.

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Flowerpower70 · 07/08/2024 19:48

IBegYourBiggestPardon · 07/08/2024 12:48

I think specsavers are doing a free contact lens trial at the moment. I did one around a month ago. They will discuss what option is best for you. I've just gone for daily's. They do not rip easily. The only issue I've had apart from dropping them a few times whilst trying to insert them, is a couple of them have been inside out inside the solution. Not an issue as such cos you just flip them the correct way round and besides you can tell if it's the wrong way round once it's on your eye. I don't know if it's the same for everyone the first time, but when the opticians first inserted them, my eyes stung like mad. I was also really confused as to why I couldn't see fuck all at first but then my vision became crystal clear. Then you'll go to someone else and they will teach you how to remove them and insert them. It took me many attempts to do both, I still struggle now taking them out but I can't do the pinch method due to having long nails. The best way for my is to just slide the lens down and grip the edge as it hits the pink part of my eye. The easiest way I have found putting them in. Is to pop the lens on the side of my finger right up at the top. Then tip my head forward and with my other hand pull my lower eye lid down. Then place the lens onto the lower part of my eyeball and then just slide it up. More often than not it goes in first time that way although sometimes I do blink just that little bit too soon. Another great tip is lay something dark over the sink or on the floor. It's much easier to spot a dropped contact lens.

Thanks so much for your advice and help. I really appreciate your time and help. I will try and let you all know how I get on.

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Greentreesandbushes · 07/08/2024 19:51

I wear dailies, over 30 years now, one toric and one just distance. I recommend the silicone ones. Game changer in terms of comfort.

Flowerpower70 · 07/08/2024 19:53

DancingFerret · 07/08/2024 13:04

Depending on whether you think you'd be able to cope (some people struggle to "play" with their eyes) you might want to consider RGP (rigid gas-permeable) lenses. I've worn both soft and RGP lenses and find the RGPs far superior, (especially as I have astigmatism) sharper vision, much easier to handle, less risk of infection, and much cheaper; I pay £150 for a pair and they last me easily for at least two years.

The downside is getting used to them can take up to a week. It's often said opticians recommend soft lenses for two reasons (a) ease of fitting, and (b) their profit margins. How true that is I don't know.

https://www.healthline.com/health/eye-health/hard-contact-lenses

NB: Edited to add link.

Edited

Thanks so much, I have blurred distance vision. -2.75 I was late wearing glasses, my eyes have worsened with age. I don't drive. I wish I took after my dad's side of family none of my relatives on my dad's side wear glasses. I don't like wearing glasses, but now I can't even read teletext without them. I was told by a friend that I look better without them which hurt a bit. I have smiley eyes so they show the lines more, around my eyes.

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LiterallyOnFire · 07/08/2024 19:55

In 15 years I don't think I've ever ripped a daily.

Flowerpower70 · 07/08/2024 19:58

theeyeofdoe · 07/08/2024 13:23

OP you just need to book a contact lens fitting with your optician and they’ll recommend the best type for your eyes and prescription.
you’ll then be taught how to put them in and take them out and get a few pairs to take away and try. Sometimes, you need to try a couple of different types to see which is best for you.

the main thing to remember with contact lenses is that if you don’t wear or look after them correctly or if they don’t fit your particular eye correctly you can end up with a corneal infection, which can cause vision loss.

@DancingFerret profit margin is actually better on RGP as they’re not available on the internet.
they are pretty straightforward to fit, but very few people persevere and now that the very high oxygen permeable soft lenses are available, there are few health reasons to fit them. You do get sharper vision, but long term, they do cause eye lid dropping..

How would you know if they don't fit properly? Would they hurt? Bit worrying..

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MoreCardassianThanKardashian · 07/08/2024 20:07

I have dailies. They never rip and I have a subscription through vision express. Mid range so about £28 a month.

I hate wearing glasses as the rims (even rimless) get in the way and feel like I can't see properly. However, it may help you to know that I also hate wearing contacts because I can't actually see that they help as much, they make my eyes dreamy as I feel them on there and not in a good way. Like im squinting or tired. Some times I struggle to take them out and some days basically every day i forget to put them in until after my make up is in and I can't risk messing it up with excess water running down my face.

Fuck these people who say you look better without glasses. Do what you want.

TheDogsMother · 07/08/2024 20:17

I have used daily disposable for years. No cleaning or storing and have ever had one rip. I wouldn't have any other type now.

BeyondOlympicLevelProcrastinator · 07/08/2024 20:21

I've worn continuous wear for... as long as they existed (no idea how long that actually is!)? At least fifteen years?

Never - touch wood! - had any issues with them. They've recently changed the rules where you can only wear them for a week at a time, but even when I forget about that (as I said, Ive worn them for years and I'm used to forgetting about them!) I've not had a problem

Anewuser · 07/08/2024 20:22

40 years ago when I got my lenses, they were a faff, clean them, disinfectant them and neutralise them. But changing to daily disposables was life changing.

As others have said, go to your normal optician. They should let you have 5 days of trail contacts and you can even keep trying different makes to find the most comfortable ones.

I’ve never had an infection and only time they were too uncomfortable were when I managed to sleep in a pair and the next morning put another pair it (in my defence I had just given birth).

You shouldn’t feel any pain from them. They may be slightly uncomfortable or feel like you have an eye lash in your eye for 5 minutes but it shouldn’t last.

I only wear mine for distance as well.

xyz111 · 07/08/2024 20:50

Dailies are great. I've never had one rip, just be careful when taking out the packet. They're good as there's no messing around with cleaning etc. make sure your hands are clean when you put in/out and you'll be fine.

TonyeKnausgaard · 07/08/2024 21:01

I recommend continuous wear lenses. You can take them out whenever you like (or not), but they're much hardier and more comfortable. They're slightly thicker, but they get significantly less dry. It's not really the lenses that get uncomfortable, but your eyes becoming dry.

For putting them in, I'm sure they'll show you but I like to dry my finger on a clean bit of skin (like my knee or my arm), which stops any tiny fibres transferring onto your skin. Then pop the lens on my dry finger, put a little dot of solution in the lens, and then look up as I pop it on the bottom of my eyeball, while holding my eye open slightly. The moisture then suctions it on. Then I roll my eye around a bit to settle it and then blink a few times. Be careful not to blink too soon because you can blink them out.

It sounds complicated but it's a doddle most of the time. Again, it's easier with thicker lenses as dailies can be a bit flappy.

CointreauVersial · 07/08/2024 21:25

@DancingFerret I'm not being "rude", just telling you what my optician told me. She said she has very few clients still using GP lenses, and they are nearly all 50-plus, and had all been using them for many years. I don't doubt they are still prescribed, just not so often as in the past. It even says in the article that you link to that their usage has declined!

I myself stopped wearing GP lenses after my eyes stopped tolerating them.

Summer19 · 07/08/2024 21:41

holidayfever2024 · 07/08/2024 19:15

Hi OP we are a family of contact lens wearers myself and my 2DC wear dailies - they have myopia management ones especially for children and mine correct my astigmatism.
DH wears monthly ones after switching from RPG over 20 years ago. He also has astigmatism.
No dramas , no infections we all far prefer the freedom / field of visions to glasses.
My DC have never ripped a lens even when getting used to to putting them and removing themselves !
Go for it but as others say you need a good optician to help you .

If you wouldn't mind please sharing what brand of contact lens you use for astigmatism? Thank you so much. I use Toric daily disposables for astigmatism and I find after a few hours my neck and back get so tired with them, I have to take them out. I'd love to find a brand of contact lens that I could wear all day.

CalmConfident · 07/08/2024 21:49

35 + years contact lenses wearer here. I’ve had dailies for about 10 years, they are FAbULOUS ☺️

Like other posters I’ve worked through all the different types as the technology has evolved. The no-hassle and comfort of dailies is ideal. I have astigmatism so have torics and they are so easy.

go for it!

CalmConfident · 07/08/2024 21:51

@Summer19 I have these.

I get mine from feelgoodcontacts

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RRAEE · 07/08/2024 21:55

Book an appointment with your optician and they'll will be able to advise you after doing the checks to make sure they are suitable for you.

Personally i use dailies as they are best for me and have never had any issues with them as long as you are cleaning your hands before you put them in and before you take them out you should avoid any infections. Ive never had an infection from wearing them in over 10 years.

Bonus for me is that Contacts make it easier when visiting theme parks as you can see all day and not have to keep taking glasses on and off and worrying about losing them 😅

Summer19 · 07/08/2024 21:55

CalmConfident · 07/08/2024 21:51

@Summer19 I have these.

I get mine from feelgoodcontacts

Thank you so much. I think I have tried these but might try them again, much appreciated.

CalmConfident · 07/08/2024 21:57

Talk to your optician ☺️ DS had them for just for sport when he was 11, struggled initially with his as he got anxious putting them in…but then it “clicked” and he adores them! Been a full time wearer ever since 😀

CalmConfident · 07/08/2024 21:58

@Summer19 there are some “posher” ones than mine now (DH has them) in same range. Might be wort h a go, I think they are more “wet” somehow

EasilyDisturbed · 07/08/2024 22:22

My optician also told me they hardly ever prescribe RGPs now and that it is mainly people who've been wearing them for decades. Not Specsavers, small local chain. Nothing on earth would make me go back to them now, less comfortable, agony when they get dust behind them which happens far more than with soft lenses, dry out badly if you fall asleep even for a very short nap eg on a journey. The biggest problem for me was that they alter the shape of the cornea so if I got glasses prescribed straight after taking them out then the glasses were no use in the morning when the corneas had reverted to normal. If I got the glasses prescribed in the morning they were no use if I needed to wear them straight after taking the lenses out.

BeyondOlympicLevelProcrastinator · 07/08/2024 22:24

My left eye is wonky, so my monthly continuous wear lenses are toric. I've put my prescription on the pics, if it helps?

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theeyeofdoe · 07/08/2024 23:09

Flowerpower70 · 07/08/2024 19:58

How would you know if they don't fit properly? Would they hurt? Bit worrying..

You won’t - we’ll look at them on your eye (with a special microscope) and see.

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