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Has anyone ever saved anyone's life?

105 replies

cptartapp · 09/08/2023 14:26

Just looking at old holiday photos in Rhodes and remembering when DH pulled a teenage girl unconscious from the sea there. The sea was incredibly rough and I've no doubt he saved her life.
My DF once upended me and with several backslaps stopped me choking on a boiled sweet as a child.
Has anyone ever saved a life and how did it make you feel?

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skinnytobe · 09/08/2023 16:38

3 times.

First time I pulled a lady out of her car which she had crashed and went up in flames minute slater

Second time. I was midway through my nursing degree, having a major meltdown and was driving to university to quit. An oldish man was lying on the floor inside the bus top at the side of the road. I got out, did CPR, thankfully after a few mins an off duty paramedic showed up.

I didn't quit uni,

Two years ago I pulled onto a roundabout shortly after (my now neighbour) had been hit of his bicycle and his knee had a huge open wound, two young teenagers from the college were trying to help,
I spent 4 hours holding a jacket onto his knee to help I stem the bleeding until an ambulance arrived

Kabbalah · 09/08/2023 16:41

Pencilsaremylife · 09/08/2023 14:30

Surely many people working for the NHS save people’s lives every day.

Yep, every day of my life.

Bearpawk · 09/08/2023 16:44

@Pineappleandredcheese that just made me well up x

TheActualDuck · 09/08/2023 16:49

I have, it was very traumatic but a case of being in the right place at the right time.
I also tried to save a life when I was much younger but failed, I carried the guilt of that day for many years afterwards.

Nevermay · 09/08/2023 16:51

BlossomCloud · 09/08/2023 14:53

You could say that about leaving the house with any bug ever though. The common cold virus nearly killed my son age 2.

well, nothing else we have experienced in the UK in a century has killed 1% of the people it has infected, so covid more than anything, but yes, none of us know how many people we have saved or harmed by spreading pathogens, or not spreading them

Nevermay · 09/08/2023 16:53

dramoy · 09/08/2023 14:57

o yes, I have just thought of another one- a smoke alarm I gave as a house warming present saved a family.... probably.. maybe they would have woken up anyway, maybe they would not have done

I'm not sure smoke alarms or not going out with covid is what the OPs was envisioning!

I

maybe not, but the life saved or lost is just as real

Pineappleandredcheese · 09/08/2023 16:56

@Bearpawk I honestly thought he would tell me to fuck off and walk out at some point

It took a lot to get him to agree to go home and get some sleep

I was so chuffed to see him all that time later-there where a lot of tears lol

I wish him all the best-hes a lovely guy,it just got a bit too much for him at the time

I really hope it's all on the up for him now

CoffeandTiaMaria · 09/08/2023 16:59

Probably quite a few when working in the NHS, definitely at least a dozen babies during delivery when I was a midwife.
I never kept a tally 😊

Fraaahnces · 09/08/2023 17:00

I was a flight attendant years ago. I have performed cpr and administered asthma meds and epipens in that role under tight and extreme conditions.
Now I’m studying nursing and working p/t as a first aid officer at our city’s cultural centre. I have had to defibrillate a few people recently, including a 93 year old woman who had had a seizure which caused a stroke. She was most insistent that she was bloody fine and she would see the rest of the show. (It had just started when she fitted.) Tough old bird took a lot of convincing that she needed to get in an ambulance. We have a lot of elderly patrons who are accustomed to very regimented daily routines with regular meal, medication and sleep schedules, and when they come to shows, the shit hits the fan. Recently we had a mad rush to the wheelie walkers parked in the foyer and an elderly lady was knocked over by another Who then ran over her while she was on the floor! She had a broken humerus and hip! It happened so fast, literally right next to me while I was administering glucose and lemonade to another lady who was so hypoglycaemic she was shaking and not responsive.

Heartofglass12345 · 09/08/2023 17:03

I had to give my son CPR at around a month old, he hasn't long come home from hospital as he was prem and he stopped breathing. He was screaming his head off by the time the paramedic arrived and seemed more put out by the fact that he couldn't have a feed for hours in the hospital rather than the fact he nearly died lol. He is 7 now and it still feels very surreal.

pompomdaisy · 09/08/2023 17:03

Yes I'm sure I've saved many- I'm a nurse and have worked in respiratory and cardiac wards most of that time. I also was first on scene ( I happened to be a few feet away when she walked out) at a road traffic accident when a suicidal girl jumped in front of a lorry. I started resuscitating her. I've also failed to save people and that's a weight too.

Pineappleandredcheese · 09/08/2023 17:05

Oh,another one

Years ago I trained as a hairdresser

Part of the training was cutting/colouring/perming etc on members of the public

Not my client but a lady came in and asked the trainee to have a look at 'an itchy spot' just within the back of her hairline

Being nosey,we all had a look and urged her to see her gp as the 'spot' was a mole-it looked just like the one my brother had a few years earlier (if hed worn a bra,it would have been on the back band-just out of sight,so hed ignored it,until my mother had seen it and forced him to the gp)-turned out to be cancerous

Forgot all about it,until a few weeks later-a massive box of chocolates where handed in for us

She had gone to her gp,it was the same type of cancerous mole my brother had and by urging her to see her gp we'd saved her life-they got to it just in time

All because she asked and we where nosey

romdowa · 09/08/2023 17:05

I've saved my father from falling into diabetic comas a few Times.

SeaToSki · 09/08/2023 17:13

I kind of saved my DF life. He told me proudly about how fit he was as he had such a low heart rate (42). He was 78 and not at all fit. I told him to go straight to the GP. The GP had him admitted to the cardiac ward and he had a pacemaker fitted 3 days later for bradycardia and would have died in his sleep otherwise

I also stopped at a road accident and held a young man's head together after he had hit the dashboard (stupid idiot hadnt put his seat belt on) Also got the witless bystanders to call for an ambulance and managed the hysterical Dad whose dc were screaming in the other car (no I cant put this skull down to check on your dc, if they are screaming they are likely in better shape, go and ask them what hurts and get them off this icy road) I called the hospital and heard he survived, but I am sure he had a long road to recovery.

Wear your seatbelt if you prefer your head to stay in one piece when you drive as crashes can happen anytime, even seconds after you pull out of the car park.

HalloumiHo · 09/08/2023 17:16

MrsTerryPratchett · 09/08/2023 14:59

I always give smoke detectors as housewarming presents. They save a good number more lives than pulling people from the sea. Might not be heroic, but it's something everyone can do.

That is such a good idea!

MumLass · 09/08/2023 17:20

When I was about 14 I saved a toddler from drowning in a empty swimming pool when his parents were in their apartment. He'd got out the patio doors unnoticed. His older sister (aged about 5) saw him and I happened to be walking past at the time. She screamed and I saw his little head bobbing under the surface. That was 30 years ago and I still picture it in slow-mo in my mind. I launched in, still with trainers on and book in my hand, got him out by which time adults were running too.

krakenworst · 09/08/2023 17:28

I was on nights ( nurse) so sleeping in the day time and was woken by frantic banging on my front door. An 8 year old boy had been knocked over and was lying in the road - the blokes at the greasy spoon next door to me had seen it happen and knew I was a nurse. it was a cold frosty Saturday morning about 40 years’ ago.

The poor little lad wasn’t breathing and had no pulse so I did CPR and he came back ( breathing but unconscious ) within a few minutes.
I remember he was so small, still and pale. I could see his pocket money scattered in the road ( he had been crossing the road to buy sweets from the newsagent opposite.)

The whole thing felt dream-like. It seemed like only seconds had passed but it must have been several minutes because I looked up and the police were there and then the ambulance.

I suddenly became aware I was barefoot and wearing just pyjamas ( pale blue stripe flannel - funny what you remember). As soon as the ambulance took him away I started shivering and realised I’d scraped my knees on the tarmac.

a couple of weeks’ later I got a huge ( like 2foot wide!) bouquet from him/his family with a card saying ‘For saving my life.’ I still have it somewhere.

it was just lucky for him that a nurse was nearby and that he recovered fully in hospital from a nasty head injury.

sadly on another occasion several years later a dear old gent collapsed and died in the street and could not be revived. Such a shock for his poor wife who watched me try.

I think it’s great that nowadays so many of us can try to help in an emergency.

peacocktail · 09/08/2023 17:34

I have given a kidney to someone very near the end

ellyo · 09/08/2023 17:58

Talked a poster online out of an abortion by sharing my own experience of pregnancy and birth. She messaged me months later to say she'd gone ahead with the pregnancy, was so thankful for my response and now couldn't imagine life without him. I sobbed, and it's still one of the most meaningful experiences of my life

BlossomCloud · 09/08/2023 17:59

Hats off to all you paramedics/nurses /doctors etc who do this time and again, what an amazing thing to do. I have seen my son fight for his life in hospital several times and I will never forget the teams who worked to help him

And thank you to all the random passers by who have jumped to action , the kindness of strangers is amazing.

iamnottoofatiamjusttooshort · 09/08/2023 18:01

I'm a nurse .. was in Safeways ( now Morrisons ) doing my shopping with my young children

Heard a bit of a commotion , looked over to see a distraught mum holding a toddler in her arms , heard someone say they'd called an ambulance so I went over and asked if they needed help , I could see by the wee boys colour he was not breathing

A gentle chest rub , 6 mouth to mouth attempts and he started to cry

I stayed till the ambulance got there then walked away to my car and burst out crying , couldn't stop 🤭

Always wished I'd stayed to see them on the ambulance and wish her well .. hoping he was fine and would now be at senior school

LadyFlumpalot · 09/08/2023 19:19

I grabbed a young boys arm/back of his coat as he was about to walk backwards off the top of the cliff at Lulworth Cove once. He yelled in surprise at being grabbed and I got a mouthful for touching someone else's kid. Didn't get a chance to explain and I was only young myself so just slunk off.

BadgerFace · 09/08/2023 20:16

When my DD was 15 months I gave her some cashew nut butter on a rice cake. I thought it was safer than trying peanut butter. Turns out not for her and she started getting agitated and developed a rash. I gave her some piriton I had left over from when she’s been younger and prescribed it for eczema relief. I phoned 999 as the rash got worse but as she was still breathing we were put on a triage list and I was told to phone back if it got worse. She then vomited everywhere and her face had swollen so much I couldn’t see her (very long) eye lashes anymore. I called 999 back and an ambulance was with us in 5 minutes and we were blue lighted to hospital. She was given steroids and the symptoms subsided and then spiked again before a second dose of steroids. The thing I remember most is the paediatric nurse who walked past me and said how fortunate DD was on three different occasions over a two hour wait period in the a&e bay that I’d given her the piriton. I didn’t really clock what she meant until later when we found out her airway had started to close up and the piriton had basically given her enough time to get to hospital to be treated.

We have had to carry epipens and antihistamine for her ever since and 8 years later anytime I meet someone weaning a baby I tell them to make sure that they have piriton available at all times!

BellaTheDarkOverlord · 09/08/2023 20:35

I helped get a guy put in prison for serious assault on his girlfriend. He didn’t get many years but with his history I feel like he may have one day killed her. I saw her a year later and she looked so much better than the gaunt drug addict I sat beside in a hospital bed.

lostinmaze · 09/08/2023 20:38

Yes, I saved the life of a choking child at work, thankfully

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