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When you are recovering from illness is it best to rest or push yourself?

27 replies

Keepitonthelow · 30/06/2023 15:22

I have been unwell for several weeks and just finished three lots of antibiotics. I am still tired and not back to normal yet.

Should I go with how I’m feeling which is just wanting to stay home not doing a lot or is it better to push myself and go for a walk or go to the shops or do the hoovering?!

I’m thinking it isn’t good for my mood to not be doing anything. On the other hand I feel really rubbish if if I do too much. What do you think is best?

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Gelatelli · 30/06/2023 15:24

Rest

AuroraForever · 30/06/2023 15:25

Rest but build up in stages. Don’t try to do too much.

Mrsjayy · 30/06/2023 15:26

Do what you can pushing yourself too far is a terrible idea. So go for a stroll see how you feel .

inverness123 · 30/06/2023 15:26

Find small things to do if you feel it is bad for your mental health, but generally a slow build up back to normal, taking lots of time to rest, is really important for a good recovery. Don’t push it!

Mumteedum · 30/06/2023 15:31

As someone with ME, l say listen to your body. Don't push. Rest. I think there comes a point where you have to try and do stuff and see where you're at, but if it wipes you out, then it's too much.

The way I have to do this is padding. Rest before the activity and rest after the activity and actually during!

MeinKraft · 30/06/2023 16:01

Going for a little walk is always a mood booster and fresh air and sunlight are so good for you. But a few days in the house won't hurt either!

violinviolet · 30/06/2023 18:56

I was in April in ITU with sepsis not intubated thankfully. I'm very fit but my MH not coping with "resting". I would do things in stages for the first week at home and by second week built up to school run and gentle walks.

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 30/06/2023 19:03

I would start very small.

35965a · 30/06/2023 19:05

I think it’s good to push yourself - but only a little and very much listening to your body as well.

Riverlee · 30/06/2023 19:06

Listen to your body. Don’t try to do too much too soon.

AuntieStella · 30/06/2023 19:09

Rest - particularly if there is any suspicion that it was covid. You really can't pish through post-covid fatigue aches/pains, and can make things worse if you try

ChrisPPancake · 30/06/2023 19:16

Rest. Do stuff when you can, and don't let people assume that just because you've e.g. walked to the local shop one day that that means you're fully recovered. If you need a day in bed following something like that then do it. Don't guilt yourself.

Pushing yourself will actually lead you to have a longer recovery time until you're fully back to normal (speaking from experience!).

Shellsbelles · 30/06/2023 19:20

Neither - pace yourself. Do a bit and rest when you need too.

ErrolTheDragon · 30/06/2023 19:25

Take it easy. Maybe have a bit of a potter around the shops or a garden or a pleasant walk, with a nice tea shop stop, that sort of thing.

AcclimDD · 30/06/2023 19:52

Rest and pace yourself. Running before you can walk, will set your recovery back.

AnnaMagnani · 30/06/2023 19:56

Bit of both - pushing yourself too hard is going to be counterproductive. However resting completely tends to feeling low and getting deconditioned.

Youdoyoubabe · 30/06/2023 20:10

Rest and maybe a turn around the garden.... gradually build it up. Maybe do one thing each morning and gradually increase.

OhYouBadBadKitten · 30/06/2023 20:14

Its a bit of both. Short walks. Pottering, resting. Getting tired is ok them resting until you are back to baseline is ok, getting cummatively more exhausted is not.

HonoriaLucastaDelagardie · 30/06/2023 20:32

Don't push yourself, but maybe take a gentle walk, or a bus ride, to a park or a cafe and sit with a cup of tea and a book for a bit, just for a change of scene.

Sod the hoovering, though.

Keepitonthelow · 30/06/2023 20:45

Thanks some good advice here.

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EllaRaines · 30/06/2023 20:50

Rest. Make sure you are hydrated, eat healthily and get a good nights sleep. If during the day you come over overwhelmingly tired, try and take a nap.

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PollyCreo · 30/06/2023 20:52

I'm having the same dilemma. I had a ruptured appendix six weeks ago - prior to that I was running for an hour every morning and lifting weights and doing Pilates in the evening. I hate being unfit but can't risk jeopardising my health in case I end up with a hernia. I've lost weight but hate the way I look now 😞 All I can manage is gentle walks and swimming which is bloody useless 😡 I'm very frustrated!

I've also got surgery ahead of me for breast cancer so doubt I'll be back in the gym any time soon, I just have to ride it out!

Icannoteven · 30/06/2023 20:55

Rest. This is a concept I have recently come around to after years of trying to bounce back and then making myself ill for longer! Rest really works.

Dammitthisisshit · 30/06/2023 20:58

I’m 20 months since my cancer diagnosis.

Get up, get clean (yourself that is, forget hoovering) and get air. How you get air is up to you - walk if you can but sitting outside with a cup of tea is good too.
Then if you feel fatigued get back to bed.

And drink water.

AuntieStella · 30/06/2023 21:25

Sod the hoovering, though

Thanks some good advice here

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