hotcrossbunny, i am sorry you have had a bad time, i dont like to hijack a positive thread but your experience sounds like mine. I do not regret the surgery because i do feel so much better so would advise anyone to think very carefully before not having it done due to the complications that gallstones can cause, and the pain, omg the pain! But i do still get indigestion and pain at times, nothing like before, just niggles really, i just think that certain foods set it off (am going to keep a food diary). I imagine that whilst we dont actually need to have the GB, well either that or im a medical miracle along with thousands of others, i guess not having the big burst of bile to break down the fat could be problematic sometimes.
I was treated terribly at the hospital, i wanted to stay another night as everyone in my family had a demon sickness bug and had enough on their plates without having to cope with me and me with them. They agreed to let me stay but i overheard the nurses slaggin me off, im sure it was deliberate, saying i was selfish and had buggered up their rota, so i arranged for DP to pick me up and told them i would be going home as my staying was obviously a problem. No discharge instructions, no advice re the wound, bathing etc nothing (had to go to my local clinic for advice and they were really cross for me), just a form to sign. I even had to get out of my bed and wait in the corridor until DP could come and get me, he was late as he was tending to sick DD. The reason i got out of my bed to wait for DP is because they made the lady who was "next" sit next to my bed and her DH was getting cross with me. Oh i wish i could ahve gone private i really do.
I have to say, the doctors and consultants were great, answered all my questions etc and agreed that if i felt i needed to stay the extra day (i had some very minor complications, nothing to worry about but caused some temporary discomfort) then they felt it was sensible for me to do so. The bloody nurses made me feel so shitty though.
I did actually feel sorry for them as they clearly were having to juggle to sort the bed problem out but one nurse was particularly horrible about me, in my earshot so i just felt really uncomfortable and guilty so went home, picked up the tummy bug from everyone else and was crying on the phone to the out of hours nurse by the end of the week, who was lovely and really understanding.
Saying all that, given the choice, i would have opted for surgery every time, every time. And also, i must say, that most of the nurses were lovely, it was just one in particular. I think nurses do a great job so dont want people to think i dont realise how hard their job is.