I had loads of blood tests that all came back normal, was referred to Rheumatology where after even more blood tests I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia. 9 years later I was diagnosed with CFS/ME after suffering crippling tiredness & even more pain than the fibromyalgia, was diagnosed by local ME service, had an appointment with an Occupational therapist at the clinic & then a telephone consultation with a GP who worked part time for the ME service who gave me the diagnosis over the phone, only treatment offered in our area is pacing workshops, went to first session where we were introduced to a patient who told us she had gone from being bed bound to running her own company & running 10k by pacing. Second session had a Q & A in it, several of us were very sceptical about the pacing regime & questioned how we were supposed to fit pacing in our lives ( I'm a single mum with MH problems & a child who is ASD) anyone who criticised the pacing idea was separated from the rest of the group & told to leave, it was a bit like an evangelical church meeting of a cult, if they couldn't brainwash you, they kicked you out before you tried to change anyone else's mind. Within a week I was discharged from the service, I've had loads of meds, painkillers, sleeping tablets, muscle relaxants, antidepressants, vitamins. I mainly manage myself, I've been to the pain clinic but because I wouldn't admit my pain was all in my head or attend a one day a week for 6 weeks "pain management" course ( have you ever tried to spend a full day listening to someone teaching you how to "manage" your pain without drugs when you are falling asleep, totally shattered from the effort of getting yourself up, ready & travelling to the venue, in agony & even more depressed than you were before you started?) I was again discharged as "unsuitable" for treatment. I manage by never planning to go out two days running, resting when I need to ( go back to bed once DS has gone to school) have a cleaner, we live on easy cook food usually in the slow cooker, Monday's spag bol is Tuesday's chilli, shopping is done online both for food & clothing. I'm on antidepressants, painkillers, anti inflammatories, self help with magnesium, iron supplements & vitamins. Avoid as much stress as possible, I don't go out much as I've lost most of my friends since I became ill, I go to my ME group social meet ups a couple of times a month, otherwise I listen to audio books or music, do a bit of crochet or adult colouring, do relaxation, I keep in touch with the few friends I have via the internet. I haven't worked for 8 years now, I'm crippled with arthritis & can't walk very far or very well, I'm on disability benefits, I'm fighting to get my PIP put back to the level I was on as I was reassessed last year & from next week will be totally housebound as I'm losing my motability car which will mean I can't get to the doctors, hospital, chemists , to see my mum or go to ME group social events as I can't walk far enough to get to the bus stop & can't get on & off buses. I never go out alone, either my mum or my son are always with me, I'm waiting to get moved to an adapted bungalow which will make things easier for me.