Don’t worry, you’ll be able to deal with your period fine. After my op I got back to my room, had a nap for a few hours then told the nurse I needed to use the loo.
“Didn’t you go before the op?” she asked, incredulous.
“Yes I did, but (several hours later) I need to go again.”
She looks me up and down. “Fine, I’ll be back.”
She then disappeared for half an hour so I hauled myself into the bathroom, used the loo and got back in bed. Another half hour later she wandered in with a bed pan and got annoyed at me for going. Hmm.
All that is just to illustrate that you will be able to take care of yourself even though it will hurt a bit.
The most important thing is to see that your surgeon discharges you with proper pain relief. Mine decided paracetamol alone would be fine and it absolutely is not. A friend got OxyContin when she had hers and was totally fine. You only need it for a few days but it makes a world of difference.
The shoulder tip pain from the gas is much worse than the actual operation pain. You need OxyContin for this. Again, check with your surgeon in advance.
People roll say you’ll be up and around within a few days. Rubbish. Take a full two weeks. Yes, you’ll be able to take decent care of yourself before long, but you will be exhausted while your body heals and it will be sore for a while.
Another tip is to shower as soon as you can after the operation. So rest the first day, next morning no matter how sore it is have a nice hot shower. It really works wonders. I’ve had a few operations now and that is always the turning point to a good recovery for me.
I’m another who loves general anaesthetic. It’s just like falling asleep. They usually get me to count backwards from 10 and even though I try I can’t make it past 7. 😂
I don’t know how old your kids are or if you’re as sleepy as me but I would actually kill for this sort of excuse to get some sleep and relax for a few weeks. I know operations are always a bit scary but you will be absolutely fine. Try to enjoy the rest and focus on how good it will feel never to have that gallbladder pain again.
Oh! And another pro tip! A lot of people experience diarrhoea for a long time after the operation. Calcium pills fixed this problem for me (and a lot of other people online). It’s all back to normal now but if you have this problem try calcium pills first.