spod, just a few thoughts on the whole poo thing!! I notice on your list of fruit you dont mention much fruit. will she eat thing like peaches, apricots, pears, apples, kiwi, mango, plums, cant think of any more?
if she does eat fruit make sure it is not after other food. fruit is really easy to digest so it passes through the stomach quite quickly. most other food takes longer to digest and sits in the stomach longer. if she has dinner, followed by fruit, then the fruit will start fermenting and producing wind while its sits around waiting on the other food to be digested.
also wheat can cause bloating in some people. we try to keep dd off wheat until over 1yr. she has a small crust of bread when we are eating as it keeps her quiet!! and the odd rusk, but no other wheat. Wheat includes bread, biscuits, cakes, pasta, weetabix, some cereals, most baby jars/packets.
also does she drink lots of fluid each day? our dd has 3 x 8oz bottle and some drinks of water from a beaker. does make a difference to consistency of poo, if she has a bad day with drinking the poo is definatly smaller and harder.
Does she have lots of time on floor, crawling or just lying on tummy? and lots of pushing up and trying to move? what I mean is that the bowels need exercise to work properly. think about when you go on a long car/plane journey, most people end up constipated because of the lack of movement/exercise.
that all I can think of for now!!