I'll give a little summary and an update. All this talk of MRIs has promoted me to do so.
Mid Jan fell very hard and suffered compression/wedge fracture of L1. A&E response, simple safe and stable. Go him and get on with it taking pain relief. Yeh, if you control the pain go back to work when you like. Left in a cab with no pain relief or recommendation about what to take.
Went to GP next morning - not sure how I got out of bed and into a taxi. She prescribed a carrier bag of pills: Naproxen 500, Omeprazole 20mg, cocodamol 30/500, and laxatives and refused a consultant referral but reluctantly agreed a physio referral as the wait was 8-10 weeks.
Hard week but got back in the car after five days. Week two started doing school runs and returned to GP for a sick note and was offered two weeks or three weeks and insisted on one week. Also insisted on consultant referral on the basis that I worked full time, was expected to work until I was 67 and it was much better for me and the NHS if everything was done to keep me working, earning and contributing. The referral came through gobsmackingly quickly. So, week two on a slightly reduced dose I managed: School runs and activity pickups, Dr, dentist, hairdresser and coffee with a neighbour.
Week three I went back to work, extended the cleaners hours but did full days and even went to Chelsea to get dd to a hospital appointment.
Week four - back at work, reduced cocodamol to 15/500 two or three times a day. Sat through a two hour school performance on an uncomfortable trestle which was unkind to the bottom which was still quite sore. Saw consultant the next day who was just lovely but confirmed the fracture was severe and collapsed by more than half. Very supportive person who respected me and my wishes to remain active. In fact one of those people who feels like a kindred spirit. Offered me something called kyphoplasty, ordered an MRI, and instructed GP to refer to the best rheumatology unit in the area (where my osteoporosis was diagnosed - we have moved).
Week five see physio and have MRI (MRI process was fine - I'm not claustrophobic and don't often lie down and close my eyes listening to the Carpenters). Getting back to normal and day to day jobs like the laundry and dishwasher getting easier. Can do everything (within reason), including picking up socks and pants from the bathroom floor, albeit a bit more slowly than usual. Swept the drive with a,slightly old ladyish gentle sideways swipe.
Week six (oh am doing The Cat since last week with physio's blessing). Having cut down the meds stop the co-codamol. After six weeks with only the first on the full prescribed dose and having cut down to no more than 2x15/500 twice a day I was shocked to feel exhausted, leaden and to have diahorrea for four days. Can see how they can be nastily addictive. See consultant for MRI results. Fracture slightly worse than xray showed and if she does the kyphoplasty she recommends fusing and screws. The bone has been pushed onto the spinal canal but not quite touching the cord. We agree that as the pain is manageable and I am getting back to normal that it's best to leave well alone unless it starts causing problems - in five, ten, twenty years. Apparently some people get away with it.
So in summary I have two degenerated bulging disks at L3 L4 (hence occasional back pain that I have managed for about ten years) and a badly crushed K1 pushing into the spinal canal but at this stage no unmanageable pain. I also have osteoporosis (but am not convinced this is wholly an osteoporotic fracture because I know the velocity at which I hit the ground).
My plan now is optimum treatment for osteoporosis, more physio, gentle Pilates and a big focus on posture which the consultant says is essential. Have had a naproxen this morning but am convinced the Saturday morning bisphosphonate kicks off bone pain for 12/24 hours within 12/24. I am being very cautious and suspect my days of industrial supermarket shops for a family of four and entertaining are over but that can be delivered. I can't get to the bottom filing drawer or the bottom drawer of the freezer with ease. In the first weeks was thankful fir a walk in shower and will buy myself one of those kneeler things with arms for the garden. I hope I'll be able to do some gentle gardening by Easter.
Am hoping and praying have got away with it but feel I have a plan if not. If I 've learnt anything from this it's not to be fobbed off by GPs and to go armed with why you want a referral and why it benefits theNHS to have one. Awfully calmly and nicely of course.
Oh, and listen to Matilda 
I hope everyone is ok and managing as best as possible and am sorry that turned into an essay but I think the lady who mentioned the doom and gloom on fora resonated with me because googling and researching has been so depressing