If you have the slightest doubt about it please don't have the operation done. I'm 66 and had a TVT-O done over a year ago and haven't been free of pain and irritation since and it didn't work. In fact I'm worse than I was because on top of the continuing stress incontinence, I have vaginal pain which prevents any penetrative sex, pretty much constant irritation around the urethra where the tape attaches itself and sporadic groin pain. It's also changed the way that I wee so that instead of a strong stream, it runs out all over me and I often end up with a wet toilet seat and damp clothes.
I went into the op trusting the medical profession and believing them when they said the possible complications were minor and recovery would take 2 weeks. What a joke! Had I known about the problems people had had and that the operation had been stopped in Scotland I'd certainly have chosen to just put up with the incontinence and be pain free and able to enjoy sex.
It's been a battle to get anyone to take any notice of the problems I have had and it was only when I requested a form so that I could apply for a copy of my medical records that anyone at the hospital started to take me seriously. But more than a year on, no one has any positive news for me about corrective treatment and tape removal is such a big operation with few successful removals that I've heard of that it doesn't seem to be an option in case it just makes matters worse or just swaps one set of problems.
I didn't have to self catheterise and have never had the bladder infections which seem so common after the op but oh how I wish I could put the clock back.
I now travel to a specialist unit for consultations with surgeons who are used to dealing with ladies with problems from the tape. Compared to those who are now unable to walk and confined to a wheelchair because of nerve damage during the op, I'm lucky but angry at not being told the truth about all the possible complications.
I know some people are delighted with the results but I no longer feel that an operation which has only a 80% success rate and which can't usually be reversed is a risk worth taking. I could hardly believe my ears when it was suggested that I had a second tape inserted on top of the first one to try again to cure the incontinence. No chance.
Apologies for the long post but I feel very strongly about this.