Hi Karmaz, I've only just found this thread and after reading all the way down the page I'm relieved to see that you have decided against the TVT, I had my TVT fitted 8 years ago - it eroded into my bladder and the consultant wouldn't believe that anything was wrong for 2 years. I had to go to a private hospital to find out what had happened and had the tape from inside my bladder removed. My SUI returned - worse than it was originally, my consultant said it would get even worse as my oestrogen levels dropped when I went through the menopause. So for 5 years I put up with it (miserably). During this time, with the help of a continent nurse I tried everything to improve my Pelvic floor, from weighted cones to Electronic stimulation and medication, nothing worked, so I was referred to another hospital to discuss my options. My new consultant suggested a TVT-O, he said he preferred it to the TVT, I told him there was no way on this earth that I would have another tape.
I opted for the Burch Colposuspension and had the op last October. This is a major op, and has its own risk of complications, and a large scar. The Surgeon removed some of the remaining tape at the same time so my operation took longer than expected. Unfortunately I had an infection in the surgical site and this delayed the healing process considerably (6 months in all) and I now have an incisional hernia caused by the infection. I was told that this is rare - out of the 500 colposuspension operations my consultant has carried out, only 3 have resulted in an infection, but you need to discuss the possibility with your surgeon.
As far as my SUI is concerned it is now no longer a problem. Sex feels different, I have a deep pain during orgasm but this is the only "side effect" I have experienced. My waterworks are fine, I have no problems there at all. I was initially told that recovery is about 6-8 weeks but obviously my circumstances were different. I do wish I had opted for this operation in the first place, it wasn't offered 8 years ago as the TVT had replaced this method and its a lot cheaper for the NHS to carry out the TVT op.
Interestingly, at my last appointment, my consultant told me that he is now offering the Colposuspension to patients rather than the TVT. I think that speaks for itself. Whatever you decide to do, please do ask lots of questions and research lots - another good site to look at it Meshed up Mesh - before you go ahead - you really can't undo what is done.