"I don't think misrepresenting the opinions of others and insulting people who make different choices does anything to advance the discussion."
I disagree. Please feel free to show me where I have misrepresented opinions. Regarding people's choices, I have every right to have an opinion when they affect me. If you choose to not vaccinate, you affect me because you erode herd immunity. You also increase my tax burden through NHS costs due to the increased chance of complications if your child does have complications when they get a preventable disease.
"Governments do pay out for vaccine damage, so it's not something which happens only once in a blue moon."
I never once said vaccines and drugs are totally safe. There are risks, that are statistically measured and displayed in the public domain. These risks are tiny; massively small in reality compared the emotive claptrap spouted by the anti-vaxxers, who have nothing except "show and tell" phrases to back up their 'arguments'. " Vaccines have mercury in them, so they must be bad!"
"Autism is not one disease - it's more like a label for a collection of symptoms." Agreed.
"It is tragic when a child suffers an adverse reaction, or is hurt by a drug or vaccine....... That tiny, tiny chance (and it is tiny) is well worth taking,
How many parents who had a child who was damaged would agree with this?"
So, that's an argument for not taking any drugs at all. Or not crossing the road? Or not eating any food you have not grown yourself in soil tested for heavy metals and radioactivity? Antibiotics can cause adverse reactions. if your child had blood poisoning, would you be reading the label on the bottle first, and worrying about all the stuff they put in it? You can produce all the sad stories you like, I can show 99,999 other stories that say nothing, as the children are fine.
"I for one am getting tired of seeing the parents with such children being told that it's just a coincidence. (Yet if you become deaf after measles, Oh no, it's not a coincidence then). Why not have the grace to listen to what the parents say? They may not be medical practitioners but they live with and care for that child day in day out, so when they say the child has changed perhaps they just might be right."
Typical observer-expectancy bias. The difference between measles causing deafness, and a small but vocal percentile of parents looking for a reason and other vested interests ('alternative' quack practitioners have their own agenda; selling things just like the evil 'big pharma...) seeing a link when there clearly is not one is obvious. One is a provable, explicable outcome. The other is hearsay, anecdotal opinion, with no provable mechanism of action, just a lot of emotive propaganda about the 'nasty things' in vaccines. Things that at the levels present are no danger at all.
This sort of simplistic deductive 'reasoning' belongs to the Dark Ages. If we actually take it into account, we just as well throw all the scientific achievements since the Enlightenment in the bin, and go back to worshipping the sun. "I noticed that if I keep pray to sun every day, it comes up. In winter I prey especially hard, and then it shines more as the seasons pass. There must be a link?"
- 'Cause they're made of wood? - Good!
- How do we tell if she is made of wood? - Build a bridge out of her.
- But can you not also make bridges out of stone?
- Oh, yeah.
- Does wood sink in water?
- No, it floats. - Throw her into the pond!
- What also floats in water?
- Bread. - Apples.
- Very small rocks. - Cider! Great gravy.
- Cherries. Mud. - Churches.
- Lead. - A duck!
- Exactly.
- So, logically--
- If she weighs the same as a duck...
- she's made of wood.
- And therefore?
- A witch!
- A duck! A duck! - Here's a duck.
- We shall use my largest scales.
- Burn the witch !
- Remove the supports!
- A witch!
- It's a fair cop.
"The risk for my child isn't tiny. And don't pretend to give a shit about my vaccine damaged child when you clearly don't.
Patronising shite"
I am sorry you feel the need to be rude. Please try to be civil as I am trying to be. I was not aware I cared about your child personally. I don't know him/her, so how can I have any personal opinions or really care beyond general empathy; the sort you would have when you see something bad happen to someone on TV? Why would I care more than that? People (inc children) die every day, all the time from all sorts of things. It is the worst thing in the world when it happens to you (I have had experience of this), but harsh as it sounds, it is just part of the way things are.
The problem is that your opinions are very personal. It sounds like your child has some problems that you have decided were caused by a vaccine. It may be that they were, or it may be that you have decided that is the case to give yourself a reason for why things turned out the way they did. I am not talking about emotion, I am trying to point out that if we lose our grip on scientific method, we are lost. Pointing at people, and calling them 'witch' because they own a black cat and burning them at the stake when your crops fail is in the same league as some of what was said on here.
"Terrible post vlad. I don't think you've read the thread very well if that's what you've come away with from it."
On the contrary, I have read it through very well. What do I get from it?
- You can't make an informed decision about something by simply looking at what you think are causal links. Often, measurement shows that mere causal observation is plain wrong.
- Listening to propaganda filled with emotion and no hard facts is regression back to the middle ages. What happened to substantive evidence? Opinions based just on this are what causes lynchings, 'crowd justice' etc. Remember that poor guy (Christopher Jeffries) from Bristol who the media decided had murdered some poor girl basically because he looked like a 'wrong un'?
- You can bring all the heart-rending 'look what happened to my child' emotional stories in that you want. I'm not a bad person for saying that emotion has nothing to do with facts, and accusing me of being hard-hearted because I won't let that cloud my thinking is totally beside the point, as well as being wrong. Nothing is totally safe, but each time you see a story like that, don't forget the hundreds of thousands of people who have a very boring story about their vaccination experience. Nothing happened. No-one talks about that do they? All we hear about are the 'horror stories'.
- Anyone who thinks that they know better than medical professionals because they have read up about it in Dr Google, is dangerously deluded. Being a parent does not make you an expert; what next, are you going to disagree with your GP about giving your child antibiotics? From WWW.NHS.UK:
"In rare cases (estimated to be somewhere between one and five in 10,000) an antibiotic can cause a severe and potentially life-threatening allergic reaction known as anaphylaxis. "
Better stop your child from taking those as well, or maybe have a think about when to give them the pills whilst the infections takes hold? After all, it is your decision, and your freedom ain't it?
- Alternative practitioners have their own agendas and vested interests. They want to sell you things, just like drug companies do. The line comes when they try to suggest that their cures are an alternative to chemo, or vaccines.