I was happy to follow the recommended schedule, my first child was vaccinated. I regret that decision and wish I had researched further. I also wish I had waited until after I had fully weaned as I might have had a better view of his risk profile or might have known more.
He had his first vaccine, BCG, when only days old based on the post code of the hospital he was born in, based on seriously flawed risk assessment. By this stage, and also at 8, 12 and 16 weeks, I didn't know enough to make the decision that he was at risk. Even now, a paediatrician who believes we made the right decision and won't push us to vaccinate will not sign our vaccine exemption but our immunologist will.
My middle child is likely to be lower risk from vaccines and it is something I will reassess for her in the future but I believe delaying vaccines in her case has reduced her risk of other health issues.
My third child is unfortunately, 1 in a million in many ways and I thank my lucky stars every day he wasn't born first. Given the many, serious and life threatening reactions he has had, I believe he would be very ill if he had survived the vaccine schedule.
Injecting vaccines bypasses the natural defenses of the skin, the lungs and the gut and requires our body to react in a different way to which it has evolved. (I wonder if inhaled vaccines or immunotherapy used in Switzerland in pill form are less damaging to the immune system?)
10 years ago, I was sent on a journey I never wanted to take. In that time I have asked more questions than received answers and still cannot say what the right thing to do is. The more I learn, the less I know, but I have learned a lot. I will continue to read, research and reassess my choices and hopefully one day I will feel less on the outside and there will be a solution that doesn't put children like mine at risk.
PS: this is the most reasonable discussion I have ever read on the subject on MN.