Wow, lots of posts on here today and lovely to hear back from some previous posters:
@BrandiJo - I;m so pleased to hear that you're doing well and enjoying life. I felt exactly like that after my first surgery - like a new woman and was so pleased that I'd had it done. It was so nice to be able to go out and enjoy time with my family without even thinking about my bum. Look after it though as they can come back - I know, hence my second surgery which has been a completely different recovery story and I'm still not 100% sure I did the right thing over 4 months on :(
@Bradle - I can't believe you've not had a post op check up yet after 6 months! That's outrageous! Sorry to hear that you're still having a few issues too. I did this a second time as my first experience was so good - still painful and horrible at the start, but fully recovered in 3-4 weeks. This time has been a different story altogether and I certainly feel traumatised by it. Would I have a third surgery? No, I really don't think I could unless the pain had become so unbearable that life didn't feel worth living. You know - when you get to the stage that you're willing to try anything. I'm simply going to look after my bum the best I can and hope that it gets me through the rest of my life without more problems.
Hi @NannyOggsCat - welcome to our group, although it's not a group anyone really wants to be a part of! However, the support, understanding and advice I've got from the people on here have been a great help. How are you feeling at 12 days - like you're starting to make some progress with recovery I hope? I'll keep my fingers crossed that you have a good 3-4 week recovery and not the prolonged one that some of us are having.
Definitely stay away from anything that doesn't really digest or breakdown fully. Sweetcorn is the worst for that! I don't eat anything corn based now - nachos, popcorn etc as it all comes out scratchy still. Soluble fibre (so fruit and veg without the skins) is your friend, and plenty of water.
I love my heatpad! I got an electric one so I can just switch it on whenever I want. I did start with a hot water bottle, but found it uncomfortable and it was pretty hard to regulate the heat - I was constantly wrapping and unwrapping towels from around it!
Hey @Kandy88 - so sorry to read your update and hear that you've had to have a second surgery for an abscess
You poor thing - you must be feeling well and truly traumatised and now have 2 things to heal from. Hopefully, now that the abscess has been caught and treated, your hemmie surgery will heal better and you'll be in less pain from the hard, swollen butt. I completely understand about you being even more nervous to have a BM though - I think I'd be petrified! Are you back home or do you need to stay in so they can monitor the drainage tubes? I'm guessing you probably can't soak in the bath for pain relief now either? Hang in there - it will get better, but really crap to be back to stage 1 again :(