Back from our trip and totally over did it - lifting kids, bending to tidy and pack, loads of walking and rides at the theme park. Unfortunately DH used me picking up a child to then not help in other ways. Argh!!! Oh and driving, even as a passenger, hurts so we got home and I gave in to some cocodamol - first of the day now the patch is really working except the over doing it pain and night times - I have a gnawing pain in the hip/SI joint area on the right.
Read so much, was it Maisie about PCOS? I have the poly cystic ovaries but not so much the hormonal thing when tested, although the cysts will remain from occasions my hormones weren't right I presume. Other symptoms like unwanted hair (laser hair removal is amazing) and acne in teens and now spot prone. Plus my weight is hard to control, I blame myself for that usually. And I do think whole body would be so much more effective. We get siloed into areas due to medical specialisms. I had a neck injury and wonder whether that could be linked and I never imagined my bladder symptoms may be caused by back problems - I even saw a consultant urologist for recurrent bladder infections which I thought had left my bladder weak.
Sorry for all the back and non back related pain. I think it's more the cold that gets to me. The warm sun beating down on my lower back is very soothing.
Still no letters or calls about this urgent referral. It's now three weeks since it started being actioned, well Friday is when it was sent by the GP so probably two weeks since the hospital received it.
I was asking DH about whether I could expect the surgeon to treat me as an equal, answer my questions and spend time explaining things so I understand - I think I'm pretty good at grasping stuff so it isn't like explaining it to a four year old! I've had some good experience recently, but mostly with the kids and not surgeons. Any insight or advice?
And nerve pain, do you find it easy to identify what is and isn't nerve pain. I'm convinced my pain, the worst anyway, is muscular due to tightness or spasm - so it aches and is mostly dull and localised not shooting pain which travels. Everyone else is telling me that this dull pain is actually nerve pain. I'm sure there is some nerve pain but amiltripiline only helps with sleep, well only if combined with cocodamol. If it does seem like nerve pain I might retry the gabapentin and ask to raise the dose much much more slowly (it was raising by 300mg every three days and I had jaw pain and my feet hurt a lot, this eased after I stopped).
Anyone had massage which helped and is it safe? One physio, before the MRI, recommended regular massage - sports type deep tissue. I just wonder if they'd refuse.