Hello
I'm still reeling from a recent diagnosis and looking for others, perhaps even those further down the line who can offer reassurance, please!
My last baby was born feb 12 and I suffered with what I was told was PGP in both pregnancies. I felt reasonably ok between pregnancies, which was only 12 months, but after the second I've been in constant pain, constantly needing cocodamol and constantly trying pretty much everything to relieve it - GPs, NHS physio, Pilates in the physio department, private physios, osteopaths, acupuncture, massage....
When my private physio - women's specialist recommended by the Pelvic Partnership - went on leave I went back to the GP to hand myself and my care back into their hands. I hadn't improved much and at that point the spasms were crippling. Crying and desperate the GP was unsympathetic, claimed to have had the same problem post pregnancy and I don't need an MRI because I don't need surgery. I suggested the pain clinic as the last chance saloon, or rather giving up on a cure and accepting I would have to manage the pain and immobility instead.
I did have some surprising success with an osteopath and the spasms finally abated three months after starting.
Went to the pain clinic in tears - dreading being offered a pain management course. Instead I got some gabapentin, an MRI referral and a suspected diagnosis of a herniated disc. Not sure if anyone knows about the single leg raise test - this was positive for a lower back herniated disc and I'd pointed out this immobility on my right side to several physios so annoyed it wasn't diagnosed a year earlier. I don't have shooting pains as I know sciatica to be (had suspected herniation at 16 yr old diagnosed and fixed by physio), this is muscle tightness in the legs and back instead.
MRI confirmed a really large disc herniation, so bad the radiologist told me immediately instead of the usual rule of waiting for the follow up app. The pain dr re confirmed this and I'm awaiting an app with a neurosurgeon. Both made sure to warn me about the signs of cauda equina syndrome and the need to rush back if that happens. So far I'm ok and I'm trying to adapt to being more careful while a SAHM with a 4 and 2 yr old. I already have some bladder symptoms -retention- which I'd put down to having bad urine infections in the past and then before that to a tight pelvic floor. The NHS physio ignored this symptom and claimed I had a weak pelvic floor because that's what pregnancy does and I was just lazy and needed to do core strength and pelvic floor exercises.
So I'm waiting for the referral which is urgent, fighting the GP for pain relief and feeling very alone and scared about the prospect of surgery without much support nearby. I'm in west London with the GP in SW London sort of, and no clue where the referral will be sent.
If anyone has advice on good pain relief please send recommendations - GP app on Tuesday am and I thinking I'm having jaw pain from the gabapentin, cocodamol isn't effective anymore and tramadol did nothing so I'm withdrawing from that now and I stopped the amiltripiline because I couldn't get out of bed in the morning :S
Thanks!