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MaryAnnSingleton · 01/10/2013 08:24

New thread !!

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BetsyBoop · 07/10/2013 09:57

Never thought of it that way MAS but yes it's good your DF can recharge his batteries and have a bit of "me" time while your DM is in hospital. :)

Lilymaid · 07/10/2013 10:02

Betsy - you've had a worse time than me. I have had just tiredness and nausea (apart from the fingers and feet). I haven't got rid of the metal mouth this time, so need to keep sipping as much water as possible.
MAS, my DM also had Parkinsons and my DF cared for her. DF was very glad of any visitors to make the days seem a little brighter. DM was very frustrated with her condition having been a very active person ... horrible illness to have.

BetsyBoop · 07/10/2013 10:38

Well I don't know whether to be pleased or depressed....

It was Harvest Festival at Church yesterday and they distribute food parcels to the old and sick of the parish (as well as donating a load of stuff to the local food bank). I've just had a knock at the door with a huge parcel of food for me! It's nice that they think of me, but I don't think of myself as old or sick, although I guess I an officially sick aren't I? :(

At least we didn't get any of the stuff that DD & DS took into school on Friday back again!

seriously weird moment...

malteserzz · 07/10/2013 10:49

Sorry Betsy but that has made me laugh I'm sure their hearts were in the right place but it is a bit weird ! Any goodies in there or is it out of date tins from the back of people's cupboards ? Grin

Gigs and shooting hope you have a lovely day

Lily glad you had a good weekend

KurriKurri · 07/10/2013 10:56

Morning all - sorry to have been AWOL recently - things rather difficult on the home front, and I would be of very little use to anyone!
But am trying to keep up with posts and on FB, and of course keeping you all in my thoughts. xx

Hope those on treatment aren't feeling too awful atm. and good luck to anyone with appts/treatments this week.

MAS - hope Mum is comfy - hopefully Waitrose goodies will cheer her up a bit Smile

Gigs and Shooting - have a lovely jaunt Smile

Love to all xx

MaryAnnSingleton · 07/10/2013 11:03

aw betsy that was kind, but also Shock to be thought of as 'sick'
DM was very active before all this Parkinson's - rode her bike everywhere,saw her pals- very very frustrating-and dad,although 80 is hugely active and it is very hard for him.

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MaryAnnSingleton · 07/10/2013 11:03

huge hugs for you dear kk - xxxxxxx

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Lilymaid · 07/10/2013 11:08

The only hamper I've received was a healthy one sent by one of my work suppliers!
Oh well, their hearts were in the right place - and any tins can always be redonated to the food bank. Any donations of home baked cakes, biscuits, pies, crumbles being more than welcome at home of course!

topsyturner · 07/10/2013 11:16

You ok kk ?

Betsy sorry , but another one sniggering here Grin

handbagsatdawn · 07/10/2013 11:18

Betsy - I smiled when I read you'd received a food parcel. People are very sweet, but sometimes you don't want to be reminded that you're sick. Enjoy any cakes / biscuits or chocolate contained within!

MAS - very sad to hear about your Mum's Parkinsons - it's a truly horrid disease. I hope your Dad gets a break and some r&r whilst she recouperates.

I'm back to see my consultant tomorrow and am preparing a huge list of questions, as is my usual way. Can anyone talk to me about Arimidex vs Tamoxifen - side effects, likelihood of being given this, experiences etc? I trust your judgement and views far more than info gleaned from Google.

Right, off for a walk now to make the most to the sunshine. Hope everyone manages to have a good day x

BetsyBoop · 07/10/2013 11:21

Still sat giggling here, DH found it highly amusing. I've posted a pic on FB for your perusal.

All the tinned/dried stuff is heading for the food bank later. Keeping the maltezers and tin of shortbread though and DH has his eye on the jar of homemade courgette chutney with old lady writing on the label which I think is the lady at church who makes amazing chutneys!

foofooyeah · 07/10/2013 11:25

I'd love a food hamper Grin save me having to go shopping.

Yes I too was avoiding posting as such a grumpy git BUT did get a better nights sleep.

I also want a Thelma and Louise day out, I am Envy

Nothing to report otherwise except am off to wash my hair and shall see how much s there at the end. Haven't been washing or brushing it in the hope of retaining some but it's now a bit itchy. What a skank eh?

foofooyeah · 07/10/2013 11:26

Old lady writing Grin Grin

smee · 07/10/2013 11:49

Giggling here, Betsy, though I'd have been a bit Hmm too. Definitely the right way round to like your DD's school a bit more than the one you work in. Smile

(((hugs))) for Kurri. Hope it's just a temporary bit of gloom. xx Sad

Handbags, not sure if this is useful or not, but chemo did for my periods (3 years ago, I was 44) and am officially through the menopause, so thought I'd be switched to an Aromatose Inhibitor like Arimidex, but was told new research says stay on Tamoxifen for 10 years. Here's a link, but worth reading round maybe before your appointment maybe. Obviously the rationale varies dependent on your individual tumour/ circumstances. esciencenews.com/sources/the.guardian.science/2013/06/02/tamoxifen.boost.breast.cancer.sufferers

kitkat1967 · 07/10/2013 11:50

sorry Betsy but I smiled about your food parcel too - but def get stuck into the maltezers Smile

I can't believe that Betsy and Lily have only 1 more Tax each - great news. I guess if I hadn't had a break for surgery I'd be there too but at the moment it seems an age away.

Had a nice morning out but got to do some work now and then have a parcel delivery expected for between 3 and 6pm so need to fit in a walk before then - it's a beautiful day here again so need to make the most of it.

kitkat1967 · 07/10/2013 12:35

x-post with Smee but Handbags if it's any help it has been mentioned that I may get Tamoxifen for up to 10 years (rather than the 5 advised up to now) due to new research - I am 45. I'm not at that treatment stage yet so not confirmed.

GoodbyeRubyTuesday · 07/10/2013 13:23

Hello all,

Unfortunately I've not been AWOL because I've been out making friends or having fun but because I seem to have developed some kind of illness. I've had tummy issues since my procedure the other week so wonder if they accidentally introduced bacteria, or just irritated things, with their poking around, or maybe just a coincidence. I'm having some tests to find out what's going on. Over weekend have started feeling sick constantly too, threw up so violently on Friday that I've pulled a muscle :( on domperidone and cyclizine but not making much difference, although haven't actually been sick since Friday. My parents came and brought me home yesterday as I would've been coming home today anyway, CT early tomorrow morning!

Bit of a long ramble, sorry. I'm just getting a bit fed up of two steps forward, one step back. I finished chemo almost three months ago and I'm nowhere near being able to participate in "normal" life as still can't go out much etc. Will be having words with my surgeon next week :) I just wanted to make new friends and start term without being the cancer girl still, especially as I'm now not having any active treatment so I don't think people really understand why I'm still having so many health problems, and I really don't want to have to go into details about my bowels!

greeneyedcat well done to your DS, that's fabulous! I have an acquaintance who goes skydiving a lot, I find the very idea terrifying so DS must be very brave :)

HND your Mexican feast looked absolutely fabulous! I am very jealous and will be visiting you for my birthday next year WinkGrin I hope one day I have a friend as close as you and topsy seem to be :) bugger about another surgery but hopefully that's it for scalpels and will put an end to all the issues so you can finally be free!

shooting and gigs have a fun day out, sounds very exciting! You are both young and pretty, although don't know if that makes you Thelmas or Louises as was long before my time haven't seen the film Grin

KK massive squishy hugs for you and Cake and Flowers and Wine if you need it! I hope things get easier, do post here or on the Facebook group if you need anything :) xxx

MAS so sorry about your mum, although good the op went well. It's good your dad is getting a break but shame it is because mum is injured, would he perhaps consider some kind of respite type care? My neighbour cared for her elderly husband for many years after he had a stroke, and he used to go to a respite place every so often so she could go on holiday with her sister or just have a few days to herself. I know it's hard though, she used to feel quite guilty about it.

handbags good luck with consultant tomorrow, nothing useful from me afraid!

amber your sharing of holiday photos etc definitely not coming across as showing off, it's lovely to see you having a good time, although doesn't sound like you're able to relax much. Difficult with mammogram hanging over you as well, stupid cancer.

topsy I hope you're enjoying your telly and coffee in peace. I'm alright thanks, just a bit bleurgh. How are you? Did you enjoy your birthday?

I will leave it there as this is getting rather long but waving to everyone and hugs to those who need them, hope everyone who is sleeping badly manages a nice, restful day x

smee · 07/10/2013 13:49

Oh no, poor you, Ruby. Sad Does sound like an infection of some sort. Hope CT gives a clear steer and they can sort it pronto xx

HerNextDoorAt21 · 07/10/2013 13:53

oh no ruby I am really sorry to read that you are having problems and I can totally understand how you want to be just "ruby" and not "poorly ruby" I am SO hoping they get you sorted. You can come over here anytime for any sort of feast your heart desires !!

MAS hope your mummy is OK and she enjoys her treats - my mum was hospitalised for a while after a fall and yes it did give a bit of respite for my family to freshen her place up etc.

gigs and pigeons I hope you are having a great day

I hope the ladioes who were feeling fed up are feeling a little better today

As for me, apart from the Mexican Feast, I have done very little this weekend compared to my normal mad weekends (topsy knows how mental my life is !!!!!) I am at work wondering and find that my motivation has got up and gone today :(

KurriKurri · 07/10/2013 13:55

Massive hugs to you too Ruby - I'm so sorry you are feeling poorly, - it must be so frustrating for you Sad I hope they can get it sorted out asap, - good luck with the tests Smile

I am OK - just dealing with a lot of marriage 'stuff' - and not sure how, or when or if it is all going to end up, which is a bit exhausting and doing my head in frankly.

Sorry not to be more chatty - but am thinking of you all, and am reading your posts even if I don't comment on them - love to all xx

HerNextDoorAt21 · 07/10/2013 13:55

PS topsy's peace was shattered when I called round for coffee this morning - I had forgottent to take my tablets again so called home .... maybe thats where I left my motivation !

HerNextDoorAt21 · 07/10/2013 13:58

oh kk I'm sorry you are going through the marriage mill, I have been there myself and PM if you want to offload to someone who has een there :(

malteserzz · 07/10/2013 14:05

Big hugs ruby sorry to hear you're having a tough time health wise hope it's something that's easily sorted and you can get on with uni life ASAP x

Kurri big hugs to you too must be hard emotionally x

KurriKurri · 07/10/2013 14:11

Thanks all - you are very kind xx Smile

amberlight · 07/10/2013 14:41

Ruby, eek re yet more medical stuff for you.
KK, hugs from me too.
Waving to all.
Last day aboard the Jolly Pirate. Sort of sad but not.