I sent DD upstairs to get DH up about an hour ago. it took me 10 mins to get the courage to get up, 10 mins to get upstairs, in agony. I then needed a wee! luckily, DS is 2 so we have a potty. It took me 5 mins to get on the potty and that is how I know the painkillers have worked a little bit, as I could get on it, in pain, but I could do it.
I am now in bed, propped up with legs up on a million cushions as I can't lay flat. I can either lie on my side with some pain, or in this position with some pain, mostly twinges of sciatic pain down my right leg/in my buttocks and groin area. It has taken me about 30 mins to get into a vaguely comfortable position. My back even hurts if I move my arms.DH has said crutches will not work in this place as we have little stairs here and there and some of the corridor is narrow.
DH is cancelling his birthday plans. I said he can have some people around this afternoon/evening for some beers. He is a bit morose but trying to pretend it is all ok. He said I should have got him up earlier as he did not want a lie in at the expense of me being pain, but he is quite down.
We have had an absolute pig of a month, kids had chicken pox one after the other, DH works long shifts including evenings and weekends and had lots of them, lack of sleep, then last weekend DD broke her wrist. So this week has been frought. friday I threw up which was the start of a bug, which we feel is because my body has just realised it has been through the mill and now DD has been given the all clear with her arm (no more surgery needed). And that is when my back went, just simply sweeping some rice crispies from the floor, while feeling awful, looking after the children while DH worked all day but nothing, absolutely nothing strenuous at all.
If the painkillers do not fix it by this afternoon I will call the GP for some diazepam, that should help a bit eh?
as always, thank you ladies. you help me through the shittiest times, and i have had a few of those over the last month.