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thisisunfair · 10/11/2005 17:50

Sorry about the namechange, but need to keep this confidential.
Dh received a letter from the Practice Manager at our GP surgery yesterday, telling him he had been removed from the patient list because he had sworn at a member of staff and had been rude over a period of time.
I am so angry at their treatment of him and need to vent. He is understandably v upset as he has been registered with the practice for over 10 years, the doctors there are generally good and appointments are reasonably easy to get; important to him as he has type 1 diabetes.
About 2 weeks ago, he had to go to the surgery for a blood test. he got there 15 minutes early, but there was a massive queue as some delayed flu jabs had turned up and about 50 people had swarmed to the surgery to get one. Because of the queue, when he finally got to check in at reception, he was checked in 5 minutes late on the system. He was then kept waiting for an hour before being called for his blood test. During that time, he was sent up and down stairs in the surgery about 6 or 7 times, because they couldn't work out which room he should go to for his test (there was chaos because of all the people who had turned up for flu jabs).
He didn't expect to have to take this exercise and started to feel very ill with a bad hypo (it was also v hot in there because of all the people). He knew he was going to collapse if he didn't eat something sugary, so had to eat some of his emergency sweets to try to restore his blood sugar levels.
He was finally sent in to the correct room. he asked why he had been kept waiting for so long and was told he had been made to wait because he turned up 5 mins late for his appointment!!!!!The phlebotomist (sp?) then said, "this is a fasting blood sugar test, have you eaten anything since last night?"
Dh, realised he had had to eat the small amount of sugar and said, "Oh, f*ck". He was in a real state, and after all this was told to go away because the test could not be done.
This is the reason he has been "dismissed".
I asked what other incidents have happened and he said he can't think of anything except that the reception staff have been constantly difficult with him about repeat prescriptions. He needs a fair amount of stuff because of his diabetes. The surgery were aware that he had to change his insulin regime in the last few months, requiring many more blood testing strips than previously prescribed. He explained this and said it was very important he had the additional amount quickly. The surgery has a big sign telling patients that they can have repeat prescriptions (amended for quantity if necessary) within 2 days. When dh asked for this to be done. he was told it was a "privilege, not a right" and they were not duty bound to do this. The poor man was simply trying to get the prescription he needed within the guidelines the surgery had stated. if he doesn't do his blood tests regularly, he is in serious trouble.
I don't understand why he is being treated like this, I am so upset for him. he doesn't need the additional stress at the moment, his Mum died recently very unexpectedly.
he has written a long letter to his GP (bypassing the Practice Manager), explaining how he was treated.
I really do feel as though he has been treated very badly indeed .

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cod · 10/11/2005 17:51

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thisisunfair · 10/11/2005 17:51

sorry, the rest of the thread title has gone missing. Should say "DH has been dismissed from his gp surgery SO ANGRY NEED TO VENT!!!!!!!!!!

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sunchowder · 10/11/2005 17:54

Sorry to hear this--I live in the US, so things are quite different here in terms of selecting a doctor and everything is private, so I can't lend you any assistance for how to even begin to deal with this. If your DH wasn't well, it would be a "human" response to give him leeway and forgiveness if he has upset someone with staff. Hopefully you will be able to resolve this and make he can get a new GP? All the best with this.

sunchowder · 10/11/2005 17:54

Sorry to hear this--I live in the US, so things are quite different here in terms of selecting a doctor and everything is private, so I can't lend you any assistance for how to even begin to deal with this. If your DH wasn't well, it would be a "human" response to give him leeway and forgiveness if he has upset someone with staff. Hopefully you will be able to resolve this and make he can get a new GP? All the best with this.

gigglinggoblin · 10/11/2005 17:54

i think i would write back to the practice manager explaining the situation and officially complaining about the receptionists and the treatment he has received. then go and find another surgery. you will proabably find they are better anyway going on his lists of complaints

CarolinaMoon · 10/11/2005 17:55

That's disgraceful treatment.

My dp has type 1 diabetes and tbh it does affect his moods quite a bit, particularly in stressful situations. I can totally see him behaving in exactly the same way as your dh - and you'd think the surgery could make allowances for the circumstances.

Maybe he'd be better off in with a different practice? I do hope his GP can sort this out for him though, it sounds like the last thing he needs .

Twiglett · 10/11/2005 17:55

I would wonder if you are getting the whole story because it would be difficult for anyone when being made to wait that long on purpose then told they couldn't have that test to be that restrained

I think your only recourse is a letter to be fair but think carefully whether you really want to be at this practice as they wouldn't casually dismiss someone it would take a practice meeting

also I think bypassing the practice manager is a bad idea .. you need to copy letter into GP and practice manager and possibly your local healthcare trust if you really feel that strongly

thisisunfair · 10/11/2005 17:56

I said "look, are you sure you didn't say anything else?" as this seems such an overreaction. I've really grilled him about it. He's not someone who goes around swearing at people generally.

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cod · 10/11/2005 17:57

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misdee · 10/11/2005 17:57

wha testing strips does your dh need? i have some in the cupboard from my GD days, was going to send back to chemist but can send them one if suitable.

CarolinaMoon · 10/11/2005 17:59

and why are they giving someone with type 1 diabetes a fasting blood sugar test? It is (as am sure you're only too aware) not a good idea at all for diabetics to miss meals.

bundle · 10/11/2005 18:00

the priority has to be to get him another gp - is that possible where you live?

then copy PCT into your complaint which as twig says should be done through practice manager. unless you have no other option, would your dh really wish to continue using this practice after all this?

on a practical note, our surgery has recently installed a touchscreen thing where you can tap in your date of birth, to let the dr/practice nurse know you are there without having to book in. the last time i took dd2 my bum hadn't even touched the chair in the waiting area before the gp came out and called her name. in your letter you could suggest they try something like this to avoid big queues/potential lateness and frustration.

cod · 10/11/2005 18:01

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bundle · 10/11/2005 18:01

honestly cod, it's changed my life

thisisunfair · 10/11/2005 18:02

cod, he couldn't get anywhere near the reception desk - it was 10 deep with OAP. shouting angrily about being made to wait for weeks for their flu jabs. He managed to get the sweets in his mouth before he keeled over - it's an instinctive thing to do in the middle of a bad hypo.

Misdee - thanks - the testing strips debacle was a few weeks ago and he finally got it sorted.

I know perhaps he should be writing back to the Practice Manager, but she is in essence a senior receptionist, v unlike the practice managers in other surgeries I've been with.

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piffle · 10/11/2005 18:02

IS there any chance you could see the Practice manager and mediate this yourself?
Perhaps explain some of the frustrations and then work on a trial basis in order to keep on the list?

foxinsocks · 10/11/2005 18:02

our surgery has just got the same thing as bundle and it has certainly saved on the reception queues.

I think you need to decide whether you want to stay with this GP or not. If you don't, then go and find another one and write this off as a bad experience but if you do want to stay with this GP, then go straight to your PCT and complain about your treatment - not only the whole blood test fiasco but the receptionist's attitude to the repeat prescription stuff.

misdee · 10/11/2005 18:05

glad the testing strips sorted, but if u want them, theyu are for the one touch system, then CAT me and i'll send them one.

but your dh needs to get on a list somewhere. and quckly.

thisisunfair · 10/11/2005 18:05

Oh, and as he stumbled out in the middle of recovering from his hypo, one receptionist turned to the other and said "stupid man" very loudly.

Sorry, I'm seeing red on this at the moment, hoping you will all calm me down.

He was in tears last night (v rare).

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sunchowder · 10/11/2005 18:09

This is outrageous treatment, if you have a choice, I would switch GP's immediately.

CarolinaMoon · 10/11/2005 18:10

cod, if he hadn't eaten the sweets he would have fallen into a coma. Diabetics really can't think straight if they are hypo. They aren't going be able to calmly explain to someone that they've eaten sweets.

CarolinaMoon · 10/11/2005 18:13

tbh I would complain that he'd been expected to fast before the blood test. It's really dangerous and I'm not surprised he was hypo. They really should know better.

gigglinggoblin · 10/11/2005 18:18

at rude receptionist! definately complain about her personally

JoolsToo · 10/11/2005 18:19

if someone is in a doctors surgery having a hypo attack and being ignored the doctors needs striking off - I can't quite believe it!

CarolinaMoon · 10/11/2005 18:23

it's actually quite hard to spot JoolsToo - it tends to show up as really narky behaviour, unfortunately, until they actually keel over (which thankfully I've never witnessed). If he was able to remember to eat the sweets, it wouldn't have been so far gone as to be obvious to people who didn't know him.

Receptionist should be sacked though, incredibly unprofessional to say that in patients' earshot .

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